Male chastity with cock cages

Last week I was locked for the day and out at night, then locked for the weekend. Was unlocked Sunday night for sex all 5 minutes of it(maybe). Now been locked since Monday morning. Still haven’t mastered urinating.
I just sit to pee still a little messy pee on my balls sometimes then just wipe then just wipe it up
 
That’s my problem. The cage we got has a tube so the hole in the end of my cage isn’t big. I have to adjust with Q tips to line it up. It’s not perfect, but I’m kinda scared of the tube. I don’t know about inserting something in my pee hole. What about infections?. Just not sure.
I agree with that maybe look into a cage with pee slot. but still need to make sure its lined up a little
 
That’s my problem. The cage we got has a tube so the hole in the end of my cage isn’t big. I have to adjust with Q tips to line it up. It’s not perfect, but I’m kinda scared of the tube. I don’t know about inserting something in my pee hole. What about infections?. Just not sure.

You do what you feel comfortable with. I haven’t had any issues with it and I’ve been using one for many years. More than 5. My Dr knows about it and has given us tips and things to watch out for. But you can always try a different cage that wasn’t ment to be used with a urethral tube. Talk to your wife about it and see what she wants you to do.
 
Thanks I will. So I’ve been locked since Monday morning. My wife has been teasing me a lot the last couple days, I have spent hours with my head between her legs. I am so sexually frustrated. I’m thinking of all sorts of stuff but the longer it is (and I know 5 days is nothing) a lot of it doesn’t directly involve my penis. Am I going crazy?
 
Thanks I will. So I’ve been locked since Monday morning. My wife has been teasing me a lot the last couple days, I have spent hours with my head between her legs. I am so sexually frustrated. I’m thinking of all sorts of stuff but the longer it is (and I know 5 days is nothing) a lot of it doesn’t directly involve my penis. Am I going crazy?

I don’t know what your wife’s plan is, but it seems like she’s putting you through a detox program. I’ve read a few books on the subject and they say that men think about their penis a lot. And by taking that away you can retrain then to not think of their penis first. It is true in certain cases. If it’s only been 5 days it will get worse, you will fantasize about a lot of different things. Write down your journey and share it with your wife later down the road. You could be locked for awhile. Some say 3 to 6 months it where you get the benefit. Let us know how it goes.
 
for me being in the cage puts my mind more on my penis. cant do anything with it but I always feel it on me
 
Love the one on the left end. Now if we could find an effective device to push and hold the pesky balls up and in so panties would be flat.
While I don’t think I could fit into the one on the left I have seen them where they attach a screw on dildo to the end of the flat plate. I wonder how it would feel getting one with a larger cock or smaller and fuck your lady and her tell you how much better it feels than your real one. I guess that goes in the humiliation blog.
 
While I don’t think I could fit into the one on the left I have seen them where they attach a screw on dildo to the end of the flat plate. I wonder how it would feel getting one with a larger cock or smaller and fuck your lady and her tell you how much better it feels than your real one. I guess that goes in the humiliation blog.
I fit the flat one. Her saying that would make me cum.
 
You do what you feel comfortable with. I haven’t had any issues with it and I’ve been using one for many years. More than 5. My Dr knows about it and has given us tips and things to watch out for. But you can always try a different cage that wasn’t ment to be used with a urethral tube. Talk to your wife about it and see what she wants you to do.
I talked to my wife about it during dinner, I started out that this wasn’t a plea for sex. That I wanted to let her know what was going on. I explain about the urination issue. I also that my mind was in fantasy overdrive and was very surprised what I was thinking. She opened the door by asking what were the things I was fantasizing about. So we talked about it and she had the biggest grin on her face the whole time. Then she told me that we need to have this talk once a week. She said she would look into the urinating and that we were going to shower tonight and she would take care of me.
 
having that talk about once a week is a great idea
you both could go online to pick out a cage that has that bigger opening to urinate. I have a couple that work good and even you can fit little finger in the hole to tease the tip of the cock
 
having that talk about once a week is a great idea
you both could go online to pick out a cage that has that bigger opening to urinate. I have a couple that work good and even you can fit little finger in the hole to tease the tip of the cock

My wife went out and bought a tube of sterile lubricating jelly. And we inserted the urethral tube. It was not the easiest task, but it wasn’t as uncomfortable as I thought it would be. We did this on Saturday. For peeing it works great. I was very surprised that I kinda found the whole experience kinda erotic. I do have some reservations about it tho. My wife said she talked with an urology nurse and that people who have issues urinating catheter themselves multiple times a day and that sometimes because of medical issues they leave catheters in for over 30 days at a time. I think it turns me on and is adding to my frustration. It also keep my penis secured in one position very well. We will have to see..
 
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My wife went out and bought a tube of sterile lubricating jelly. And we inserted the urethral tube. It was not the easiest task, but it wasn’t as uncomfortable as I thought it would be. We did this on Saturday. For peeing it works great. I was very surprised that I kinda found the whole experience kinda erotic. I do have some reservations about it tho. My wife said she talked with an urology nurse and that people who have issues urinating themselves multiple times a day and that sometimes because of medical issues they leave catheters in for over 30 days at a time. I think it turns me on and is adding to my frustration. It also keep my penis secured in one position very well. We will have to see..

That’s the was to go. Your wife has a great plan for you. You should be very very grateful. Not a lot of wife’s would be willing to do this for their partner.
 
Just bought my first one this week. I masturbated with it 3 times & used a vibrator to cum with it on, I'm wearing it now with a butt plug in. I am wondering if anyone has experience with the chastity cage with the dildo attached.
 
I have not done with a dildo yet. I have used the vibe on my cage
 
It’s been two weeks and have only been unlocked twice for a short time for a good shower and a thorough cleaning of my cage. My wife seems to really be getting into this. I’m not sure if she’s trying to teach me a lesson or if she’s trying to give me the experience. It’s also be one week that I’ve been using the urethral tube. We’ve taken it out the one time for the cleaning. When she put it back in I had the same erotic feelings. I’m still wondering where she going with this. She’s been extra bossy I’d say.
 
I was locked for six days. By day three I was sort of a mess. I mean, I wanted out and needed release. For someone who masturbates twice a day, I didn’t know how to navigate my day. My Dom was out of town and to make matters worse, the cage was pinching. I could feel edema or something beginning to get tighter. I wanted to cut off the lock with a coping saw but it was too dangerous. My Dom returned and removed the cage. Felt great but I’ll go with a larger size if I do it again
 
It’s been two weeks and have only been unlocked twice for a short time for a good shower and a thorough cleaning of my cage. My wife seems to really be getting into this. I’m not sure if she’s trying to teach me a lesson or if she’s trying to give me the experience. It’s also be one week that I’ve been using the urethral tube. We’ve taken it out the one time for the cleaning. When she put it back in I had the same erotic feelings. I’m still wondering where she going with this. She’s been extra bossy I’d say.

So what do you mean bossy. What is she doing ? What has changed for you other than Chasity?
 
So what do you mean bossy. What is she doing ? What has changed for you other than Chasity?

She has dressed me up in the past and has bought me my own nightgown and panty set. I work from home and she told me I had to wear my satin nightgown during the day. Then I received an Amazon package and she bought me a few more sets. This is adding to the frustration, I love the feel of satin on my body. She’s doing everything to tease me even when she’s not here. We haven’t had sex for two weeks and she hasn’t even pegged me even though when she asked me about the fantasies I’ve been having one of them was that I wanted her to be really rough with me and push me down on the bed and have her rip my panties of and fuck me hard. So far all we’ve done is make out with her, lick her pussy and deep throat her strapon.
 
She has dressed me up in the past and has bought me my own nightgown and panty set. I work from home and she told me I had to wear my satin nightgown during the day. Then I received an Amazon package and she bought me a few more sets. This is adding to the frustration, I love the feel of satin on my body. She’s doing everything to tease me even when she’s not here. We haven’t had sex for two weeks and she hasn’t even pegged me even though when she asked me about the fantasies I’ve been having one of them was that I wanted her to be really rough with me and push me down on the bed and have her rip my panties of and fuck me hard. So far all we’ve done is make out with her, lick her pussy and deep throat her strapon.

I’m sorry to tell you this but she’s doing exactly what she’s supposed to do. You asked her to lock up your penis and hold your key. It’s not about you and you are sure talking about you a lot. A lot of people dream of having a partner that is open minded and willing to do this for you. This is what you asked for and she’s giving it to you. She is a queen to be worshipped. Eventually you will stop thinking about you and focus on her. Maybe she’s waiting for that switch, but it sounds like you’re a ways away from it. You should wear your nightgown and panties and forget about your penis and do as she says. It sounds like she has a plan. Maybe she’s waiting keeps adding levels of frustration because you deserve it. I don’t know but I do know this. You have a gem and you should enjoy her. After all this was your idea.
 
Hi everybody, we are a couple, Anke and Tom, from Germany and we practice male chastity with cock cages. We would like to talk and exchange our experiences with others. Posts and answers will be done by one of us, sometimes me, sometimes Tom. Tom is caged permanent and never inside. Permanent means 24/7 everywhere in his daily life situations. For the beginning I have choose a pic of one cage I like very much. I can tease his locked dick very easy and you can see his arousing as his cock tries to escape out of the cage
Hi Anke and Tom. Great to read your post. Your lifestyle sounds very similar to that of my own. I would be really interested to chat with you and exchange ideas and experiences. I can't find your account anywhere on Lit., but if you look me up in the story section (HottieOlwen) you could pm me and I'll reply with my email address. Best wishes to you both,
Olwen. XXxxXX
 
I have only made myself cum in my cage once. it sure made a mess lol
Do try it if you can. I've documented my experiences in the masturbation threads and it was amazing.

I'm now in the little nub cage and still figured out how to cum in it. It's a sticky mess but worth it.
 
Do try it if you can. I've documented my experiences in the masturbation threads and it was amazing.

I'm now in the little nub cage and still figured out how to cum in it. It's a sticky mess but worth it.
I did it in my nano cage.
 
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