Do you have any fantasies/kinks where you aren't turned on in the moment, but are later on?

[Luv4hotwives]

So things that turn you on, but might not turn you on when they are actually happening. However, in the aftermath you are really horny and either masturbate or fuck to what you experienced previously.

SPH is like that for me. I've had some embarrassing situations with my size where I was not turned on when they happened. I wouldn't get hard, my penis would shrink even further because I was so embarrassed. However, even by the next day I am masturbating to it and having a huge orgasm. Hotwife/Cuck stuff was sometimes like that as well.

Do you have any kinks or fantasies that aren't hot for you in the moment, but turn you on like crazy later on?

 

[Justtina]

This has definitely happened to me a few times

 

[Treeview]

I didn’t read things right twice. Slow learner me

Both were nice Ladies who were 10-15 years older. Fun and sexy. I didn’t get that they wanted a boy toy when I was looking for a long term relationship. Both were city girls and I wanted camp/hike/kayak. Could have had more great sex for a while

 

[secretthing]

I had a dream in which I was about to be fucked against my will by someone… In the dream, I was embarrassed and tried to stop what was happening, but when I woke up I was extremely horny.

 

[WonderPonder]

I'm the same somewhat with sph. When I was fully exposed to 3 radiation technicians who were all young women I was a little embarrassed the first time because flaccid I'm a 1" little nub. Later on I got hard knowing they had a good look.
Right now we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle and my wife is away with her other man in the Caribbean. We agreed on no contact between us while they're away so I've been dealing with major cuck angst.
At times I feel heavy anxiety at the thought of losing her but afterwards extremely intense arousal of her becoming completely his. Mixed together at the same time is stomach churning pain, pleasure mix.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I'm the same somewhat with sph. When I was fully exposed to 3 radiation technicians who were all young women I was a little embarrassed the first time because flaccid I'm a 1" little nub. Later on I got hard knowing they had a good look.
Right now we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle and my wife is away with her other man in the Caribbean. We agreed on no contact between us while they're away so I've been dealing with major cuck angst.
At times I feel heavy anxiety at the thought of losing her but afterwards extremely intense arousal of her becoming completely his. Mixed together at the same time is stomach churning pain, pleasure mix.

I wonder if the pain is a key factor in the intensity of the eventual arousal

 

[lily_wall_]

Drunk sex. I don't like it, don't plan for it. But it happened twice so far, both times with someone I was already sexual with. When I think about it, I get all tingly at the thought of me being used even after I passed out drunk

 

[Easypeter]

I had a dream in which I was about to be fucked against my will by someone… In the dream, I was embarrassed and tried to stop what was happening, but when I woke up I was extremely horny.

I’ve had fantasies about that same situation and would love to be taken like that

 

[Dearelliot]

I met with and paid a pro tranny for sex but once meeting her/him, I couldn't go through with it... not into guys at all...Now I did meet once or twice with ladyboys in Bangkok, and that was different they were so feminine, attractive women, breasts etc.

 

[Schiavone]

A few actually one is when in college living with gf and 2 other roommates. I was coming out of the shower when one of the female roommates walked in. She was very hott. She looked at me as I was dripping wet. She stared at me and my flaccid cock smiled said sorry! And left.
She was a good friend of my gf and nothing happened but…

 

[LMWM321]

SPH is like that for me. I've had some embarrassing situations with my size where I was not turned on when they happened.

I don't follow what you're saying.

SPH? So did you ask the person to say humiliating things about your penis? If so, why be surprised by it?

And if you didn't ask her/him and they just decided to insult you on their own, ...Well, I'm not shocked you were turned off by it. And if that's what happened, you need to find some kinder sex partners. That person is a douche.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Dirty porn I don't want to mention here, sexual slavery, cages for subs, flogging, anal creampies, pussy creampies, interracial, cum play (the dirty type), WAM, food play, feet, etc.

All of these were before I discovered their porn and experimented with some of them.

 

[peter49parker]

So things that turn you on, but might not turn you on when they are actually happening. However, in the aftermath you are really horny and either masturbate or fuck to what you experienced previously.

SPH is like that for me. I've had some embarrassing situations with my size where I was not turned on when they happened. I wouldn't get hard, my penis would shrink even further because I was so embarrassed. However, even by the next day I am masturbating to it and having a huge orgasm. Hotwife/Cuck stuff was sometimes like that as well.

Do you have any kinks or fantasies that aren't hot for you in the moment, but turn you on like crazy later on?

I can't think of anything, that works like that, to make me horny. I have a lot of kinks/fantasies that make me horny in the moment.

 

[cuck72]

I've had my share of guys that can be real A-HOLES, and I can get pretty hot headed myself. I've had arguments with guys at my jobs and can get so pissed. But later on, I think of my submissive bi fantasies. So, I'll think of that guy and us yelling and I'll masturbate thinking of that guy at work getting me on my knees as he fucks my mouth calling me every faggot name in the book. The next day I see that guy at work and think, MAN if he ever knew I jacked off thinking of sucking his cock. Then I actually look forward to my next argument with a guy.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I've had my share of guys that can be real A-HOLES, and I can get pretty hot headed myself. I've had arguments with guys at my jobs and can get so pissed. But later on, I think of my submissive bi fantasies. So, I'll think of that guy and us yelling and I'll masturbate thinking of that guy at work getting me on my knees as he fucks my mouth calling me every faggot name in the book. The next day I see that guy at work and think, MAN if he ever knew I jacked off thinking of sucking his cock. Then I actually look forward to my next argument with a guy.

I hate any kind of asshole. Male or female. But I love licking & worshiping their assholes... If they're nice to me.

I think my fantasies differ from yours in that way. I don't think I'd want to be dominated and sexually used by someone who's an asshole to me. I usually dream of the ones who are actually nice and sweet outside the bedroom but take full charge when we're naked in bed. I want those supposedly nice and gentle men and women, and trans girls, I guess, to both dominate me gently and use me like a whore. I want them to call me names which they don't in public, make me lick their feet, pussies, cocks and assholes ,b put collars and leashes on me, lead me around like a bitch, fuck me on all fours, pimp me out to their friends, force me to try A2M, pissing, etc, slap me around a bit, spit on me, spit and cum on the ground and make me lick it up, and any nasty thing they want.

I think I'd be so mad if someone who was already mean to me started dominating and using me outside my normal life too. I hate confrontation. I'd probably be angry enough to punch them, though I see why that's an exciting fantasy.

I hope you didn't come to blows with those guys. What else do you fantasize about - maybe wrestling them and they win, then they drag you away to use you?

I actually dream of being physically dominated by any of those sexy in shape guys and cis or trans gals. The ones with huge muscles, strong quads, and six packs. I wish any or all of them fight me without hurting me too much, and when I lose as I obviously will to someone so much stronger or even a trio /quad/ several of them, they throw me over their shoulder and slap my naked ass all they want the way you see in those BLACKED videos. They tie me up, use me, write humiliating things on me, share me with each other fully, cum in and on me, make me service their pussies, cocks, assholes, feet, bellies, backs... Doesn't matter. I want them to use me without us even showering after the match. They sit on my face, make me suck and lick them off, and force me to lick their whole naked bodies all over while they're all sweaty and horny. I want to feel used and degraded.

I'd hope they're nice to me outside of sex, and sometimes during it, but I want to be a used sweaty whore in the bedroom.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

A maid walked in when I was masturbating. I was around 19 or so. I was really freaked out that she was going to complain to my parents, and i avoided her like the plague after that. Thankfully i only came home once ever couple of months, but I was notified for a long time.

With the benefit of time and distance however, it turned into a fantasy, and when I was living alone for a while when I started working, i started purposefully doing it around a maid I was trying to seduce. She later told me she found it hilarious that I would do something that silly to try and seduce her instead of actually seducing her.

 

[Erosfan]

I didn’t read things right twice. Slow learner me

Both were nice Ladies who were 10-15 years older. Fun and sexy. I didn’t get that they wanted a boy toy when I was looking for a long term relationship. Both were city girls and I wanted camp/hike/kayak. Could have had more great sex for a while

I've missed a couple of experiences that could have been fun. I had a girlfriend that wanted to take me out and drive around. I was naked at the time, and I backed down when we reached my front door. I have often wished I had walked out that door with her. I never got her to tell me what she would have done with her naked man, had I gone with her. I was too nervous to go, but I get super turned on thinking about what might have happened. I've jerked off thinking about it, many times.

 

[Tony195756]

My go to favorite fantasy bi incest

 

[CEOescape]

it has happened to me on more then one occasion.... my wife my bf had been having sex when an old football team mate of our saw them at a hotel lounge , they all came home and I saw her with her first black ..I was guided to suck his cock which freaked me out some as my wife finger fucked me .

 

[Jimm12380]

Cum eating is one for me. I always get super hard thinking of licking up my own cum. I love to cum on my wife's feet and the thought of licking them clean is a huge turn-on. But right after I cum the feeling disappears.

 

[ronitamisha2824]

I hate any kind of asshole. Male or female. But I love licking & worshiping their assholes... If they're nice to me.

I think my fantasies differ from yours in that way. I don't think I'd want to be dominated and sexually used by someone who's an asshole to me. I usually dream of the ones who are actually nice and sweet outside the bedroom but take full charge when we're naked in bed. I want those supposedly nice and gentle men and women, and trans girls, I guess, to both dominate me gently and use me like a whore. I want them to call me names which they don't in public, make me lick their feet, pussies, cocks and assholes ,b put collars and leashes on me, lead me around like a bitch, fuck me on all fours, pimp me out to their friends, force me to try A2M, pissing, etc, slap me around a bit, spit on me, spit and cum on the ground and make me lick it up, and any nasty thing they want.

I think I'd be so mad if someone who was already mean to me started dominating and using me outside my normal life too. I hate confrontation. I'd probably be angry enough to punch them, though I see why that's an exciting fantasy.

I hope you didn't come to blows with those guys. What else do you fantasize about - maybe wrestling them and they win, then they drag you away to use you?

I actually dream of being physically dominated by any of those sexy in shape guys and cis or trans gals. The ones with huge muscles, strong quads, and six packs. I wish any or all of them fight me without hurting me too much, and when I lose as I obviously will to someone so much stronger or even a trio /quad/ several of them, they throw me over their shoulder and slap my naked ass all they want the way you see in those BLACKED videos. They tie me up, use me, write humiliating things on me, share me with each other fully, cum in and on me, make me service their pussies, cocks, assholes, feet, bellies, backs... Doesn't matter. I want them to use me without us even showering after the match. They sit on my face, make me suck and lick them off, and force me to lick their whole naked bodies all over while they're all sweaty and horny. I want to feel used and degraded.

I'd hope they're nice to me outside of sex, and sometimes during it, but I want to be a used sweaty whore in the bedroom.

Too hot. Will of a lady being a whore is too big turn on for most men I guess. Hot fantasy indeed

 

[SPARTAN047]

Too hot. Will of a lady being a whore is too big turn on for most men I guess. Hot fantasy indeed

Depends. A woman being a whore for them is a turn on for men but being a whore for everyone else can be a turn off.

A woman might enjoy her man being her stud but him being a romantic stud for everyone else but her is a turn off. Goes both ways and there are exceptions, sure.

 

[Erosfan]

Cum eating is one for me. I always get super hard thinking of licking up my own cum. I love to cum on my wife's feet and the thought of licking them clean is a huge turn-on. But right after I cum the feeling disappears.

I'm right there with you. When I am aroused and working on cumming, I often plan to eat my cum when I am done, but I lose all interest immediately after I cum. I keep telling myself, I'm going to overcome this issue and actually eat my cum.

 

[OpenToAll76]

I want to lick my wife's ass after a guy fucks her

 

[desire30]

I have been at meeting and conventions where I am one of the few women. At one such convention my then husband was with me, I hosted a hospitality room and as the drinks flowed and night got late. I was cornered by my drunk husband and three men. before I know it my husband had his hands on my tits and one guy was feeling my ass . Lets go to into the bedroom with our new friends and see how you like 4 men at one time.

I went in the bedroom first and slammed the door! yelling fuck you David..