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Wait a minute. I'm getting mixed messages here.
It starts with this (referring to having someone feel your ass when you wake up):
I wanna feel this as I wake up

To, my joking reply. (Maybe the joking wasn't clear enough, my bad.)
I get slapped when I wake her up like this...

To being scolded about consent, and how it's important to get is from someone who's sleeping.
Consent is key! And especially important for messing around with someone who is sleeping

Wasn't the implication about desiring to be woken up with someone fondling your ass???
So exactly how would someone approach a situation like this?

Maybe you weren't scolding, but it sure feels like a pointed PSA.
 
Consent isn't an issue. She's just grumpy when she wakes up.

She plays with and fondles my ass when I'm sleeping too...

Wait a minute. I'm getting mixed messages here.
It starts with this (referring to having someone feel your ass when you wake up):


To, my joking reply. (Maybe the joking wasn't clear enough, my bad.)


To being scolded about consent, and how it's important to get is from someone who's sleeping.
Wasn't the implication about desiring to be woken up with someone fondling your ass???

Yeah, I mean my post was about me liking to be woken up like that. And my partner is well aware of that with blanket enthusiastic consent already given.

You say consent isn’t an issue and your partner is just grumpy, but if she’s slapping you for sexual advances and you know she doesn’t like that in the morning, consent is an issue. I don’t think it’s funny to joke about unwanted sexual advances.

And the fact that she gropes your ass is neither here nor there. Unless you don’t like it, in which case consent is an issue there, too.

So exactly how would someone approach a situation like this?
“Do you like being woken up with playful touch in the morning or do you prefer a little space to wake up first?”
Maybe you weren't scolding, but it sure feels like a pointed PSA.
It was definitely a pointed PSA. Not really a scold but a clarification about what I think is okay and not okay.
Hopefully you can understand the distinction I’m trying to make clear for the space I’ve created here.
 
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