Constantly daydreaming of BDSM throughout the day

[OddLove]

Does anyone else constantly find themselves fantasizing about BDSM stuff?

Cause I always catch myself fantasizing about random scenarios, and I often get lost in them. Sometimes it bothers me because I'll be thirty minutes into a show or something and realize I wasn't even paying attention the whole time.

Like earlier today, I was watching a YouTube video, but at some point I started daydreaming about a guy who went hiking with a couple friends so they could have fun with him.

They took all his clothes and put him on a leash, then walked him far into the woods where they did a bunch of stuff too him like taking turns using his ass, throat fucking him, choking him, and making him drink their piss.

Around the time I was fantasizing about them tying him between two trees and used him as target practice with their airsoft guns, leaving welts all over his body, I realized I wasn't even watching the YouTube video.

Sometimes I wonder of the fantasizing/daydreaming is normal for people into BDSM/Kink, or is there actually something wrong with me.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Yes. Though, in your fantasy, is the guy hiking with friends into what is going on, or not?

I've found that I get into these periods of sub-frenzy where all I can think of is being that guy in the woods, (or in similar predicament) though with female companions. Also, I've found that the longer I go without any kind of sexual release, the more I get into this sub-space frenzy and crave the desire to live out these kinky fantasies.

 

[OddLove]

Yes. Though, in your fantasy, is the guy hiking with friends into what is going on, or not?

I've found that I get into these periods of sub-frenzy where all I can think of is being that guy in the woods, (or in similar predicament) though with female companions. Also, I've found that the longer I go without any kind of sexual release, the more I get into this sub-space frenzy and crave the desire to live out these kinky fantasies.

Yeah, it's always consensual in my mind. Like the guy is surrendering to the will of others. Kinda like a CNC situation. It's not always involving male doms either.

I think the sub-frenzy phrase describes my mindset perfectly at times. I've never hear the phrase before.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

I find myself lost in daydreams sometimes, they can become quite elaborate. Usually when I'm watching porn, I find myself replacing the scenario I'm watching with another one entirely. Good inspiration for stories, usually...!

 

[lilmissdarling]

Not constant.. but definitely randomly.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I think most of us will have been in work meetings where it was very hard not to think about something much more interesting instead...

One of my series was conceived during a few particularly tedious lectures on an awayday. Out the window I could see various landmarks, including the house of a guy I knew, and a couple workplaces and clubs and pubs. How they might all fit together was a much better intellectual challenge than concentrating on someone droning on about achievements of the year, which were all in a handout anyway.

 

[FuckMelater]

This happens to me often! Lately, as I should trying to get to sleep, I find myself building detailed fantasies instead. I eventually realize that it’s been an hour, I’ve made myself terribly aroused, and I’m even further from sleep. It’s my nice little escape though, I don’t have any regrets.

 

[Boat1]

Does anyone else constantly find themselves fantasizing about BDSM stuff?

Cause I always catch myself fantasizing about random scenarios, and I often get lost in them. Sometimes it bothers me because I'll be thirty minutes into a show or something and realize I wasn't even paying attention the whole time.

Like earlier today, I was watching a YouTube video, but at some point I started daydreaming about a guy who went hiking with a couple friends so they could have fun with him.

They took all his clothes and put him on a leash, then walked him far into the woods where they did a bunch of stuff too him like taking turns using his ass, throat fucking him, choking him, and making him drink their piss.

Around the time I was fantasizing about them tying him between two trees and used him as target practice with their airsoft guns, leaving welts all over his body, I realized I wasn't even watching the YouTube video.

Sometimes I wonder of the fantasizing/daydreaming is normal for people into BDSM/Kink, or is there actually something wrong with me.

I constantly fantasize about what my Lovely Domme Wife have done, might do and will do!
But I have to say, you might've just gotten an airsoft gun added to Her Birthday list!

 

[TrainMe24]

I definitely have the same experience. I go through phases were I feel like I'm operating in a fog because I'm so hyperfixated on play scenes/fantasies.

Spoiler : I'm in one now

 

[samantha647]

Wow, same …. I randomly fantasize about wearing a collar and leash and what would happen if I was “owned”.

 

[Boat1]

My Wife Domme gave me a leather band for my wrist to symbolize Her ownership of me... I just put it on and edged INTENSELY for 30 minutes... I LOVE and cherish Her and what she does to, for and with me!

 

[roxanne1971]

I would say it is on my mind all the time yea

 

[EoghanDubhara]

Definitely. I especially fantasize about cnc scenarios, being exposed and fingered, and having my pussy objectified.

 

[EoghanDubhara]

we are gonna need more details than that...

I fantasize about being in cmnf cnc situations where men enjoy feeling, probing, groping, and penetrating my pussy, and very often in these scenarios, I'm restrained in some way so I can't resist being exposed, objectified, and penetrated. They make me cum and laugh when I do. They film my wet pussy wrapped around their fingers and rocks. Calling me a good girl as they rub the tip of their cock against my slick slit and then push it inside, moaning in my ear and telling me how good my pussy feels. It makes me so wet to think about.

 

[ChuckWolf]

In trying to stay as close to the OP's question, most of the YouTube videos I watch, don't lend themselves to erotic daydreams.

Will say that a lot of mainstream TV shows will lead my imagination to Femdom/CFNM fantasies (that are BDSM-adjacent), usually seeing old school, sexy actresses in tight leather clothing and/or being dominant in a role.

One area I discovered fairly late in life, was how much CFNM content there is in Latin (mostly Portuguese) telenovelas and comedies.

Although often played for laughs or to be mildly titillating, there are SO many scenes of the (often young) male protagonist finding himself standing naked in front of a horny and predatory woman (usually a cougar) and in spite of his obvious embarrassment, she doesn't leave, but instead corners and sometimes chases him out into public.

And again, often played for laughs, but very erotic to me and often in my imagination.

 

[DreamingOfMyEx]

Does anyone else constantly find themselves fantasizing about BDSM stuff?

Cause I always catch myself fantasizing about random scenarios, and I often get lost in them. Sometimes it bothers me because I'll be thirty minutes into a show or something and realize I wasn't even paying attention the whole time.

Like earlier today, I was watching a YouTube video, but at some point I started daydreaming about a guy who went hiking with a couple friends so they could have fun with him.

They took all his clothes and put him on a leash, then walked him far into the woods where they did a bunch of stuff too him like taking turns using his ass, throat fucking him, choking him, and making him drink their piss.

Around the time I was fantasizing about them tying him between two trees and used him as target practice with their airsoft guns, leaving welts all over his body, I realized I wasn't even watching the YouTube video.

Sometimes I wonder of the fantasizing/daydreaming is normal for people into BDSM/Kink, or is there actually something wrong with me.

Were you in the story? The guy on the leash, or one of the friends?

Do you have any experience with online role play? It could be interesting for you if you're wanting to explore these ideas a bit further - and talking about it with others could help. By virtue of the fact you made this post here, I'm guessing that's a possibility.

 

[EoghanDubhara]

Yeah I am going to need you to put on your shortest skirt, a halter top and hop in the front seat of my truck... we have some things to do lol

And what would you do with me in the front seat of your truck?

 

[Lustygirl23]

I fantasize about being in cmnf cnc situations where men enjoy feeling, probing, groping, and penetrating my pussy, and very often in these scenarios, I'm restrained in some way so I can't resist being exposed, objectified, and penetrated. They make me cum and laugh when I do. They film my wet pussy wrapped around their fingers and rocks. Calling me a good girl as they rub the tip of their cock against my slick slit and then push it inside, moaning in my ear and telling me how good my pussy feels. It makes me so wet to think about.

I’ve had very very similar fantasies! Something about being restrained while a group explores my whole body is so erotic

 

[J D Danger]

I’ve had very very similar fantasies! Something about being restrained while a group explores my whole body is so erotic

sounds fun for sure

 

[EoghanDubhara]

I’ve had very very similar fantasies! Something about being restrained while a group explores my whole body is so erotic

Yes! Samesies. That feeling of no control. Complete objectification, while being touched and explored and penetrated.

 

[9to5]

Yes! Samesies. That feeling of no control. Complete objectification, while being touched and explored and penetrated.

and you cant stop it. just lay back and cum

 

[EoghanDubhara]

and you cant stop it. just lay back and cum

That's the hottest part for me, I think. I fantasize daily about not being able to stop it. The taboo of asking for it to stop, but not using the predetermined safe word to actually end the scene, and so it doesn't stop is so hot to me.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Not every day, but most days. Sometimes it's hard to get things done at work. I imagine a secretary coming in thrice a day with my coffee, and groping her absentmindedly while I take a call. Or being in an office zoom call while she stands behind the screen, tits out, nipple clamps dangling, taking notes.

 

[9to5]

That's the hottest part for me, I think. I fantasize daily about not being able to stop it. The taboo of asking for it to stop, but not using the predetermined safe word to actually end the scene, and so it doesn't stop is so hot to me.

just seeing how much you can take and your doing it for others

 

[Dearelliot]

Reminds me of a woman I know, she used to be my Mistress a pro...She was into BDSM and she went to a few of their couple weekends I never went. She told me about the times she had...and one issue was a sub male with domme ..and they had a slave auction, and his mistress sold him to a group of Gay men. And they used him in the most abusive way...they made him suck and drink their pee, ass fucking ball slapping, he had to rim them, and he was str8...and when they returned the poor fellow to his Mistress he was crying...So she slapped his face and made him sleep outdoors...and it was drizzling...Claire said she felt so sorry for the guy...but he did what he was told...he had a choice.