Why did i become bi?

[PFWilly]

I have been bi since I was a teenager having been seduced by an older neighbor, I learned to enjoy it quite fast and so i believe I was meant to be that way

I was seduced by an older neighbor. Took me a couple of years to realize how much I enjoyed it. Then, I seduced my best friend, he didn’t resist much and really enjoyed it when I swallowed his cum the first time. He enjoyed it even more the second time…lol.

Definitely meant to be bi.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I was seduced by an older neighbor. Took me a couple of years to realize how much I enjoyed it. Then, I seduced my best friend, he didn’t resist much and really enjoyed it when I swallowed his cum the first time. He enjoyed it even more the second time…lol.

Definitely meant to be bi.

Bet the neighbor seduction story is a hot one!!!!!!!

 

[passn3r0tic]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

Same here, and still no clue. And I had a bi threesone which was awesome, and I wasn’t sure how I would feel. (Had a straight threesome too, and to me, comparing the two, is like apples and oranges; I loved them both, but for different reasons, and I couldn’t pick one over the other if I had to)

I think a lot of my hi experiences and the ‘feeling’ had much to do with the company. It was hard to find a good match, someone you know to a certain extend, and getting uninhibited and lost in the lust and pleasure.

 

[passn3r0tic]

I was seduced by an older neighbor. Took me a couple of years to realize how much I enjoyed it. Then, I seduced my best friend, he didn’t resist much and really enjoyed it when I swallowed his cum the first time. He enjoyed it even more the second time…lol.

Definitely meant to be bi.

Love that. Sometimes I like getting face fucked and forced to choke on it so it spurts out of my throat (safe word and tap, of course).

I used to hate the taste of cum, but now I love it (mostly; had a few that I gave head to that were nasty, but I am a sub so their aggression sidetracked me and made me cum while swallowing a load and choking on their explosion).

 

[passn3r0tic]

Now I’m wishing I could video chat or get gangbanged relentlessly lol. Phew

 

[Litme2]

This pretty much describes it, but I was in a near-sexless marriage, and I agree with others above, sex is exciting, new is exciting, getting off is fun and guys are easy.

Id like to meet up with you...same issue here..59swm..

 

[JiminNC]

That sounds like me now I enjoy sucking cock more than sex with my wife

Yup, me too

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

Yup, me too

Isn't it awesome now.

 

[Mike302]

I was in my mid-20's I guess. But I've only had one encounter and that was much earlier.

Why? Why not. My wife doesn't have a dick I could suck or put in my ass. (she does peg me, though) I just love sex and want to do everything. To suck a real dick or have one pushed into my butt requires a man.

So, that's really it. I don't have any other attraction to men. A passable trans woman would be even better, actually.

 

[stargame]

I was seduced by an older neighbor. Took me a couple of years to realize how much I enjoyed it. Then, I seduced my best friend, he didn’t resist much and really enjoyed it when I swallowed his cum the first time. He enjoyed it even more the second time…lol.

Definitely meant to be bi.

Hey, best friend

 

[Uncut1969]

My wife is very vanilla and has no desire to fuck anymore! I want the satisfaction you pleasuring someone and them me

 

[drobert44]

Coz women wanna own me.

 

[CharlieBoker]

I gave up trying to figure out the "why" long ago........IT JUST IS.

 

[Donniemti24]

I gave up trying to figure out the "why" long ago........IT JUST IS.

I agree 100% just go with the flow and enjoy!

 

[muycurioso]

bi curious and loneliness, prob. To be on the female side for a few things, see how it feels to stroke and suck a cock.

 

[need2please72]

who was your first male partner

 

[Richiebottom]

When I was young I had a friend that was gay. I always wondered why he was gay. One day after school we went to his house. I was still a virgin at the time. Sitting on his couch, he leaned me back turned my head to his and kissed me. He was trying to get his tongue in my mouth. I fought it for as long as I could. Then. I opened my mouth and his tongue was in my mouth. At the same time he reached in my pants and took my cock in his hand. That’s when I just moaned and gave in to him. But, when he put my cock in his mouth that’s when I knew I liked to be with a boy also. Before we were done, I sucked his cock and found myself in his bed on my back, naked with my legs wrapped around his waist and he was using me. I loved it. I am now 75 years old, married and want to be with a man again, so bad. I am now a submissive oral bottom and love sex with another man.

 

[SissySalina]

She wanted a sissy and sissy wanted to dress full time, perfect match.

 

[lifeExplorer88]

I wish I had a story of being seduced by a neighbor or having experimented with a friend or similar "origin" story. I don't. All I've got is a story of nagging desires and attractions that I buried because society told me that men should be heterosexual, marry a woman, and to be monogamous. And now I have decided to give society the finger and embrace what I am feeling.

 

[JoeSmith2022]

I think I've always been bi. Was open to real-life encounters in my early 20s.

 

[stargame]

She wanted a sissy and sissy wanted to dress full time, perfect match.

I had little no choice. My X made made me wear cute panties.

 

[agadea]

I think most of the people on those forums are mostly bi and know it for sure, but definitely there is a point with age when you start to see sex with different eyes, specially when you are in a LTR. Sometimes you are tired and don't perform great, sometimes you don't feel the passion for the older body of your couple. Sometimes you need to just please the other person when you are not in the mood. And many marriages are really dead bedrooms. When we are younger it is all about sex, as much as we can, and later we start to see sometimes is not so great, at least physically.

Then there is also the female perspective in sex, with more and more experience one get to understand how they see and enjoy it differently to us.Multiorgasmic women are a minority, but actually all the others are more interesting and they usually enjoy sex for itself, and the part of pleasing more than being pleased. And it is very common they enjoy being dominated in bed. With the years you get to understand the main character is the person receiving the spanking, doing the blowjob. The active role is like the people who cook the food in the restaurant or the personal working in Disneyland. They might be in control, but the real fun is for the others.

So I think all this takes us to think about how it would be being in this role. But this is not realistic to find in a woman (if you are in a LTR). It is extremely difficult to find a woman while you are in this situation without a lot of risks and lies, finding a particular type of women that likes to be on the other role, is almost impossible (switching roles is like acting, doesn't feel realistic when the person don't feel it).

And then one day we find about gay sex and when we investigate a bit, are really surprised that a lot of gays want to suck your cock no question asked. In gay forums people who want to be sucked is the minority, everyone is there just to find what to suck. I don't know, but from the hetero perspective, it is a really mind blowing idea we could not imagine before.

So combine all the pieces, you start to understand how pleasant might be for them to be on the 'passive' role, the mental conflict of pleasing someone without being pleased. I think this situation is really fascinating, living the experience we have seen in women all the time, being so easily available. Definitely tempting.

It also feels like a new continent to discover, after trying almost all possible options with your wife, still there are endless options to try in new territory. From reading in the forums, anyone who try it, end up repeating, so even when you are not attracted to men/cocks at all, you know there is an interesting world there. Curiosity, alcohol, a bad day, a discussion with your wife, and you might trying it one day.

 

[E_C65]

I'll have to be careful how I write this but I was flashed by a guy when I was younger, nothing else happened as I was able to leave the situation and go on my way, but from then on I did wonder what caused me to think over and over on that experience. As I got older (over 18) I found that getting a girlfriend was tricky as I was new to a city where I had no natural social circle (I hadnt been to school there and had no social network outside of my job).

I started to go out to pubs and clubs in the evenings and found myself often in the company of more mature men. One such regular haunt had me striking up a friendship with a group of older guys, and one in particular offered me a comapionable walk back to his flat after a particularly heavy nights drinking.

He flattered me and asked on my dating status (then single, and a virgin), before offering me a blowjob. Although nervous, I was intrigued as it wasnt going to be anything more, and like most 18 year-old guys was happy to bust a nut at the drop of a hat. I certainly enjoyed the release.

Shortly afterwards I started dating a girl about my age, who I met via a bar job, and started my assumed straight acting persona in life. It was only about 25 years later that those memories returned, and over time I found that I couldnt ignore them as easily as perhaps I could have in the throws of the sexual headonism I experienced in my early 20's.

I had to re-visit my past memories and find out. The fascination was still there, and as I expored more I relised that I had never been entirely straight. Ever.

 

[dobbins1]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

Good analogy. I equate it to hitting puberty when your hormones are going crazy and though the opposite sex (for most of us) is the main attraction, you share a common "lust" with your male friends. And since most of us are ill equipped mentally/emotionally to bed a female at that age, we turn to the next best opportunity..our male friends!! That's where my "bi" interest started for me. Then as mentioned, when the interest/attraction starts to wane in a marriage, guess what? We're reliving some of our youth and satisfying our adult needs at the same time!! (at least for me).

 

[kutag]

I had been straight a big part of my life, when things changed when I was 50. I have always been addicted to skimpy G Strings. One day at a remote beach in Greece, I noticed that men were much more interested in watching me wearing strings then women. One guy who was 50 meters away even started to wank.

I searched the Internet for thong forums, most of them were dominated by men. In the course of the time, I got into contact like minded thongers over the internet, also looking at their pics. One moment I didn’t only admire their strings but the butts, at the same time I got a lot of positive reaction about my sexy butt. This evolved, and today, I love to see sexy strings as well as sexy cocks.

Last summer, I spend a day at a clothing-optional gay Ressort, and I had a nude tantra message. These days, I lol be in Berlin, and I plan to have another tantra massage - it goes without saying that I will go to a male masseur.

Mike

Hi Mike, I am a bit like you. I have always worn small G Strings. On holidays by the pool or beach my wife would wear a modest bikini I would be next to her in one of my skimpy G Strings. I loved looking at men and women in small swimwear the smaller the better, nice breasts and maybe a cameltoe, but always got turned on with a guys bulge. Seeing the outline of his cock in a wet pouch and if he had a G String on I was hard. When my wife stopped coming to the nude beach with me I went on my own but moved down the beach to the gay section wearing my G Strings, that's how I started out.