High sex drive during ovulation - Tips?

[Filipinawife]

I get this way too. 3 or 4 days a month it feels like my body is screaming "PUT A BABY IN ME". Just have to make do with what you have. I'm sure jumping your man's bones every chance you can will help. Happy Humping!

I have the same challenge when I am fertile. Suddenly get horny for no reason and if I don’t release it becomes uncomfortable so I can be in the mall. Suddenly I’m horny so I go to the ladies bathroom and make myself cum. My body needs to breed. My husband always tries to take me on holiday knows I’m gonna be fertile.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife had similar issues when ovulating. It wasn't a problem when we were dating since we were not having sex other than mutual masturbation. I could finer her clit much longer when she was ovulating, but it worked. It was more difficult with the other men she was having sex with. They wanted to enter her as soon as possible, and she wasn't ready. That led to some uncomfortable times when she would push them away and masturbate until she was ready for their cocks. After we married and started having sex, I knew how to allow for extra stimulation to satisfy her.

 

[Filipinawife]

My wife had similar issues when ovulating. It wasn't a problem when we were dating since we were not having sex other than mutual masturbation. I could finer her clit much longer when she was ovulating, but it worked. It was more difficult with the other men she was having sex with. They wanted to enter her as soon as possible, and she wasn't ready. That led to some uncomfortable times when she would push them away and masturbate until she was ready for their cocks. After we married and started having sex, I knew how to allow for extra stimulation to satisfy her.

I have the same issue

 

[StillRain]

Can identify. My sex drive is through the roof during ovulation. I’m insatiable, horny for no reason, want to fuck at any time, anywhere.

I’m generally a sexual person but during ovulation that is taken up a notch. You’re going to have to keep up. I hope.

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

So it's a common thing that female sex drive is naturally higher during ovulation (mid way through cycle) and find that mine goes through the roof during this time.

As someone that has pretty much always had multiple orgasms I can keep going a lot longer and find that I need to masturbate 4-5 times a day or right after penetrative sex to relieve the high arousal state during this time. I think the husband would deserve an Olympic gold medal to keep up with me as he cant have multiple orgasms.

Any tips, tricks or experiences from other females? Do you just go with the flow and take the time to enjoy your own company more or try and get your partner to keep up with you?

Would also love to hear a male perspective/exeprience if they also find their partner has waves of high sex drive and if they can keep up with the high demand!

I have noticed this with my wife… specially when she is like… “yes, fuck me, I need to feel you inside… cmon…” and just as I am entering her… “I dont think so, but we might get pregnant”… no way… enough kids already…
Night for me…

 

[tristantrotsky]

So it's a common thing that female sex drive is naturally higher during ovulation (mid way through cycle) and find that mine goes through the roof during this time.

As someone that has pretty much always had multiple orgasms I can keep going a lot longer and find that I need to masturbate 4-5 times a day or right after penetrative sex to relieve the high arousal state during this time. I think the husband would deserve an Olympic gold medal to keep up with me as he cant have multiple orgasms.

Any tips, tricks or experiences from other females? Do you just go with the flow and take the time to enjoy your own company more or try and get your partner to keep up with you?

Would also love to hear a male perspective/exeprience if they also find their partner has waves of high sex drive and if they can keep up with the high demand!

There is almost something sacred and primal about kissing her pussy during ovulation

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I can relate. Hence why Im a member of Lit

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I can relate. Hence why Im a member of Lit

Do you think that, by keeping a record of when you post, I can track your cycle?

 

[DaddysYogaBabyGirl]

Do you think that, by keeping a record of when you post, I can track your cycle?

If a cycle runs like clockwork and is consistent then a woman can tell you precisely when she is primed for impregnating. I also know that if we start and stop birth control it can alter our ovulating calendar cycle. Mine starts without exception every month at this time. I know without fail at the end of the month I will feel like a relentless emotional "cat in heat" in a need to breed.

When a girl starts to ovulate NO ONE tells us why we feel this way. "Babygirl, what you need is a deep internal massage and a proper seeding. That will extinguish the terrible yearning ache you feel in your belly". This is a blessing and a curse God gave to all us woman. Unfortunately, society isn't mature enough to tell the truth about the monthly feminine Need to Breed. They shouldn't just call it "the cycle" it would be more appropriate to call it "the vicious cycle". lol

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

If a cycle runs like clockwork and is consistent then a woman can tell you precisely when she is primed for impregnating. I also know that if we start and stop birth control it can alter our ovulating calendar cycle. Mine starts without exception every month at this time. I know without fail at the end of the month I will feel like a relentless emotional "cat in heat" in a need to breed.

When a girl starts to ovulate NO ONE tells us why we feel this way. "Babygirl, what you need is a deep internal massage and a proper seeding. That will extinguish the terrible yearning ache you feel in your belly". This is a blessing and a curse God gave to all us woman. Unfortunately, society isn't mature enough to tell the truth about the monthly feminine Need to Breed. They shouldn't just call it "the cycle" it would be more appropriate to call it "the vicious cycle". lol

It is certainly the case that, even girls who are well-prepared for the onset of menstruation are not prepared for the increased sexual urges which accompanies sexual maturity.
But
I'm unclear about one thing. Are you saying that having orgasms without impregnation leaves you deeply unsatisified?

 

[DaddysYogaBabyGirl]

It is certainly the case that, even girls who are well-prepared for the onset of menstruation are not prepared for the increased sexual urges which accompanies sexual maturity.
But
I'm unclear about one thing. Are you saying that having orgasms without impregnation leaves you deeply unsatisified?

It's not about OUR orgasm...
I'm saying that a man's penis is designed to extinguish the lingering aches and yearnings that happen during the entire ovulation process. Once his seed is implanted into the egg all those urges and emotional desires subside. Until, our aches are tended to....we will continue to feel the NEED TO BREED month after month after month after month... 365 days of bed writhing and feeling a deeply rooted NEED to be seeded. You Men will NEVER understand.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

It's not about OUR orgasm...
I'm saying that a man's penis is designed to extinguish the lingering aches and yearnings that happen during the entire ovulation process. Once his seed is implanted into the egg all those urges and emotional desires subside. Until, our aches are tended to....we will continue to feel the NEED TO BREED month after month after month after month... 365 days of bed writhing and feeling a deeply rooted NEED to be seeded. You Men will NEVER understand.

Perhaps not.
But I have known women who purport to disagree.

 

[Mr_Neb]

It just so happens that I wrote a story a long time ago with this topic as its main plot point. If you care to read it, here is the link...

"The OTHER Time of the Month"

 

[Vivian251]

During ovulation, my drive peaks too. Most of the time, I just use toys to help relieve the arousal, especially since I can’t always get my partner to keep up. It’s a bit of a solo mission, but it works!

 

[SexyAruna]

I get super horny during ovulation too. I usually need to just masturbate a ton and I’ve had some partners in the past who could keep up, but usually it’s something I have to deal with on my own
On the flip side, my sex drive is obviously kind of low during my period and I guess guys need to handle their needs solo during that time, so it evens out

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

So it's a common thing that female sex drive is naturally higher during ovulation (mid way through cycle) and find that mine goes through the roof during this time.

As someone that has pretty much always had multiple orgasms I can keep going a lot longer and find that I need to masturbate 4-5 times a day or right after penetrative sex to relieve the high arousal state during this time. I think the husband would deserve an Olympic gold medal to keep up with me as he cant have multiple orgasms.

Any tips, tricks or experiences from other females? Do you just go with the flow and take the time to enjoy your own company more or try and get your partner to keep up with you?

Would also love to hear a male perspective/exeprience if they also find their partner has waves of high sex drive and if they can keep up with the high demand!

The edging technique really helps to avoid ejaculating before the woman has climaxed. It involves getting aroused through stimulation, backing off on the stimulation and going to a lower arousal level, and then repeating the arousal/backing off cycle. This is repeated over and over again until finally the final arousal with ejaculation is done. Since it takes a woman much longer to climax than the man, it is very beneficial for the man to practice some form of edging. Sex Therapist Helena Nista also created a YouTube video, "How To Have Stronger Orgasms With Edging", that describes the edging process. To find the video, search for:

Helena Nista YouTube How To Have Stronger Orgasms With Edging

 

[naughty_shygirl]

I get super horny during ovulation too. I usually need to just masturbate a ton and I’ve had some partners in the past who could keep up, but usually it’s something I have to deal with on my own
On the flip side, my sex drive is obviously kind of low during my period and I guess guys need to handle their needs solo during that time, so it evens out

Oh I get extremely horny like 3 to 5 days before my period!! I masturbate a lot during this time every month and that’s usual when I have the dirtiest fantasies .

 

[naughty_shygirl]

Absolutely. I get horny for no reason during that time. I can be in the mall shopping then suddenly I am horny. It gets uncomfortable if I don’t release it so I got to a ladies room or a changing room and make myself cum.

I’ve done the same while shopping . The urge just comes over me all at once and I have to get a release .

 

[naughty_shygirl]

Most of my anal adventures happened during the same period

Mine too because during ovulation I’m in the mood to be fucked as it I were a dirty slut ! I’m truly insatiable at that time of month.

 

[jsmiam]

I’m curious, in general terms what the age ranges are of the responders? And depending on the answer, what did the urges change over time, was there a moment or age range when they changed dramatically?

I have my observations as a male, based on what I’ve personally witnessed, but this is such a great opportunity to hear straight from the source!

 

[nothingatall27]

Oh I get extremely horny like 3 to 5 days before my period!! I masturbate a lot during this time every month and that’s usual when I have the dirtiest fantasies .

now I find myself fantasizing about what your dirtiest fantasies might be

 

[Bigboobbabe]

We were away on a camping trip while I was ovulating years ago. We had our own thirty five foot trailer and brought toys and movies with us.
About 2/3 of the way through the vacation. My ex begged me to leave him alone one night so that he could recharge.
I had apparently born a tender spot on the side of his cock.

Sorry not sorry.

 

[Noor]

Stay away from guys who have already gathered unplanned children, they smell good but the risky is too high.

 

[CajunFisherman]

I was always really horny the week after my period. Needed to cum about every 3 or 4 hours or my pelvic area would hurt. My clit was always really swollen as well and it did not take much to cum. Sometimes I would touch it under my skirt at a stop light and could cum to relieve the pressure. Now in menopause but it seems I still have a week every month my husband calls "porn star week" as I am super horny and need a lotta orgasms. The joy of being a female

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I’m curious, in general terms what the age ranges are of the responders? And depending on the answer, what did the urges change over time, was there a moment or age range when they changed dramatically?

I have my observations as a male, based on what I’ve personally witnessed, but this is such a great opportunity to hear straight from the source!

We are in our 60s, the Mrs. Gets her pelvic pressure and horny feelings even though she is post menopause, she gets a swollen clit and moist in her lady parts, we were camping this past week and she bent over in her sun dress and we done it right there and I deposited, wham bam thank you ma’am, and she promptly asked me for a mini pad, “A cum catcher” to soak up the mess, “Look at what you have done, I might be pregnant from that deposit” our cardio work out is done!

 

[PrettynPetite]

If there's post-nut clarity for men, then ovulation and pms is our version of it. I'm currently in between these phases and coming back and reading some of the things I've liked, commented on or followed makes me honestly cringe it's like I'm a different person all together. So glad to be level headed and focused now. I can't even look at some of these posts now, I'm so over it. But During those times, I'm held hostage to the hormones.

My methods to survive those phases -
1. Lots of masturbation. Cannot rely on the men folks to keep up. They literally do get "Worn out".
2. Continue to eat healthy, exercise well, lots of hydration (all those orgasms feel great, but also are dehydrating)
3. Don't be too harsh on yourself. It's a biological programming. It's hardwired in us over millennia of R&D. You can overcome it with training and will power. You can manage by being focused on something else. But if you can't, it's ok to take some time for yourself.
4. Don't get into minor arguments. Limit exposure to news or triggering content. Limit screen time. Sleep well. Reduce socializing.
5. Don't put yourself in danger. Don't do anything that you may regret later. No drinking, no one night stands, always use protection.
6. For me Lit is a safe space for diverting these energies. When i can't focus on anything else, some thread here will be engaging enough for a few hours. And i get to learn something new.