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[Wat_Tyler]

Yeah I get it.... I see a little of that but it isnt too bad...
90percent they are awesome but that 10 percent is something else
In some ways my parents should have stopped at one child.
There is a lot of unresolved trauma that luckily I have fixed some of that in myself

If you can see it and be realistic about it, and are willing to try something else, you can be rid of such things.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

You know i'm starting to feel old l o l

Sure thing, small muffin.

 

[Lilianna23]

Which is why I said it.


Pretty sure that I'm two-and-done, too.

I didn't think there would be a second.

 

[Lilianna23]

Very spicy beef jerky.


And you can take that every single way that comes to Tiny Brain.

You wouldn't be saying I have a tiny brain, now, would you, Mr. Wat???

 

[Lilianna23]

Morning everyone! Brunch day mimosasView attachment 2515387View attachment 2515388.

Yum! I love mimosas! And bellinis! And Kir Royales!

 

[Lilianna23]

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What a spread! Thanks, OM!

 

[Lilianna23]

Morning people!

Waking up. Coffee going. Another day in paradise.

Which is better than the alternative. Vacation next week. Cannot wait. Kinda burnt out.

Vacation time will be here before you know it!

 

[Lilianna23]

Funny, I have never gotten high with tea.

Then you're not drinking the right kind of tea!

 

[Lilianna23]

Thanks OM for the memes.

Grandpa taxi runs this warm morning. It’s going up to 70 F today. Then the storms come in and down go the temperature again. It’s March so it’s expected.

After taxing then brunch with my life partner, a massage and on the patio for dinner!

Enjoy your day as each is precious!

Sounds like a perfect day to me! I hope you enjoyed it!

 

[Lilianna23]

Nice moon, lil!!

Yeah. You said that last night, too!

 

[Lilianna23]

Chaplin sez hello.

Found him hiding and sleeping squished in some pillows today.

https://imgur.com/a/Ahi8zGV

Hi, pretty Boi!

 

[Lilianna23]

I met a nice b&w girl yesterday. In a closet, hiding. I met another one the day before. There are cats on the job.


I miss the chat is all.

They find you, Wat!

 

[Lilianna23]

Happy HumpDay…it’s my day and I share with everyone! . Weather is here, but I’m on nursing duty. Going to call in reserves today so I can have a little break. She Who is Laid up in Recovery isn’t too happy bout that. We’ll see…it’s time for a granddaughter visit to cheer her up.

Everyone hunker down. Halfway through! Santa Fe Bataan memorial MZ…

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Keep her walking, doing range of motion exercises, resting, and taking fluids. How is her pain level? Medicating for pain about 30 minutes before exercise is so much better than medicating after when she's already in pain.

 

[Lilianna23]

I feel both sides of this. Neither of my siblings are really talking to my dad these days. And he's disinherited both. I'm the oldest, the blackest of the sheep, and the one my dad learned how to be a parent on. So there are scars from the past that are part of who I am. There's also the knowledge that in many ways he did his best with the tools he had. And the knowledge that he's not going to change at this point. So...I can choose to cut off my past and go forward without him, or I can acknowledge that he is who he is and respect the journey he's on.

This is both very loving and forgiving, K!

 

[dkak001]

Lil, I had a panic attack type moment just now! What are you doing here so early!!!

Makes me think I'm running 6 hours late for heading to bed!

Anyway, Tag! You're it!

 

[Lilianna23]

Tell me what phone you have.... I need to replace my android s9+

I just bought the Samsung S25 Ultra, thinking it would be a significant upgrade from my S22 Ultra. It doesn't seem to be. I like it fine, I'm just not overwhelmed by it.

You can get the S22 Ultras fairly inexpensively now. Look for refurbished ones on Amazon or used, not necessarily refurbished, on Swappa or Back Market. You might be able to find deals on the S25 Ultra nearer to the end of the year.

My husband's phone was an S9+. I cleaned it up and gave it to my housekeeper.

 

[Lilianna23]

I went and saw the boys next door last night..... they went nuts

Here is sven he is just 13 months old.... he is so sweet.

He is sitting like a human on the couch....

Look at that gorgeous boy just chilling on the couch!

 

[Lilianna23]

I had one of my famous wall of texts describing my two siblings currently and how different they are now but decided to not waste the space.

Suffice it to say that one let my dad's death be a closure and one did not. Their level of success followed accordingly.

Man, do I have stories. Heh.

Just know your "walls of text" aren't wasted here, M!

 

[Lilianna23]

Morning all. The kidney alarms went off time to move. Lol

I hate it when that happens!

 

[Lilianna23]

Oooo, I found a box of hazelnut Folgers coffee pods in the walk-in pantry this morning. Opened but not even close to expired.

I'm guessing it went like this:

Sister - "I'll try hazelnut coffee because everyone says it's good even though it's different and I don't like change." **Sip** "Ugh! Gross! Why did I try that? And why did I buy such a large box of it?"

Proceeds to make Folgers coffee and adds hazelnut flavored creamer to it.

"Aaah! Much better. Why do they even sell that other stuff? Don't they know I don't like it that way?"

Seriously though, she is that self absorbed. I'm not exaggerating even a little bit. When I point it out that people are allowed to like different things than her, she kind of shuts down and goes quiet like she can't process it as fact.

My brother, a confirmed bachelor, is similarly self absorbed. He doesn't understand people that are different than he is.

 

[Lilianna23]

hello people. Can someone give me something that make me fall asleep immediately?

I can't but maybe one of the boys can!

Do you have any benadryl in the house? 25 to 50 MG should put you to sleep. Don't use it every day, however. If you need a sleep aid on the regular, see your provider.

 

[Lilianna23]

My a1c is lower Woot! Woot!

Now to avoid sounding like a car insurance ad

I just saved up to 15% on my insurance....

Congratulations! Just don't go celebrating with a big piece of cake!

 

[Wat_Tyler]

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[Wonderer67]

Yeah. You said that last night, too!

I’m going to the well one too many times.

 

[Lilianna23]

I had to stop and read all the words. All I saw on scroll was "furry going commando"

I wish I knew what was going through your mind then!