The 50 Plus Cafe, Pub, All-Nite Greasy Spoon and Dive Bar

[nipplecaresser]

Good morning. Have a humpingly good Wednesday.

 

[subdudeme13]

Not the way B2 and I do it!

I had the wrong perspective!

 

[Wat_Tyler]

I am It's been nice even though I'm busier than a one armed paper hanger. Miss you, ya old

Miss you, too.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

I ended up getting a 100% on my paper with a great review!

Excellent!!!

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Sounds like quite a day.

And people-y, people. Not necessarily bad. But people-y. Or people dealing with people-y people.

I know what I am trying to say. I just can’t articulate it.

Get some rest, brother.

I got it, regardless.

 

[Dayhoosier]

Morning all *.... Need

 

[Wat_Tyler]

People have been people-y here too.....

Dogs cats and horses are better

I think that I need daily doses of cats with some horse(s) sprinkled in, and some Daisy to share a meal with.


Another 45 paychecks or so and I should be there.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Yes, dear!

See?


Wasn't that easy???

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Is orgy part of a belief system???

Perhaps some, but not the one I was fetched up in.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Save me some!

Absolutely

 

[Wat_Tyler]

I don't know that there will be a 3rd!

Which is why I said it.


Pretty sure that I'm two-and-done, too.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

What were you smoking/eating/drinking before bed, W?

Very spicy beef jerky.


And you can take that every single way that comes to Tiny Brain.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

That's just mean of the son!

Yeah, I know. He has a point and so does she. I do know that it's a Gen Y thing to label one's parents as toxic and to detach from them. Annoying as Dr. Tyler is, and she does have toxic moments, Wat isn't there.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

There was a large separation in ages between me and my siblings. They didn't see the polished father he was to me. They experienced the steel sharpening steel side of him while he was learning to be a dad. When he died, I never cried so much as when they were reliving and disparaging him after the funeral.

I felt sorry for what they went thru. I felt guilty for what I received from him. I felt hatred toward their betrayal. I felt their relief of his death. So, damn, I felt like a stranger towards them. I still do.

View attachment 2515356

Your siblings learned a lesson as I did from my not so great mother, what not to do in life or as a parent. When they get past the anger, hopefully they will understand that.

 

[Oldermom935]

Morning everyone! Brunch day mimosas.

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Good morning early risers and up and at it already friends overseas. Coffee for me and pissy tea for G!

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

View attachment 2515392View attachment 2515393

Oooh yummm

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[Wonderer67]

Morning people!

Waking up. Coffee going. Another day in paradise.

Which is better than the alternative. Vacation next week. Cannot wait. Kinda burnt out.

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[Oldermom935]

 

[Wat_Tyler]

At some point, you have to accept your parents without all the fucking judgment, forgive them sumbitches, and grow the rest of the fucking way up.


It's never too late to have a better childhood (in all but the fewest of cases).