Sex & Shenanigans

[dawn_of_night]

Listening is amazing! Sometimes I have to tell myself to shut up so I can hear all of the amazing auditory responses and communication from my partner. Being deaf in one ear makes that a problem

But my ex. Silent. Sometimes I wouldn’t know when he orgasmed.

Right .... I really don't like the silence....

Are you a vocal partner?

Are you asking me specifically??
(Sorry, I wasn't expecting that... Nor had I prepared an answer for interaction)

Kinda? I guess....
I have a bad habit of almost holding my breathe when they're really strong....

 

[Sammysub07]

Are you asking me specifically??

Yes. But really for the purpose to see if men and women alike are either silent or vocal. Sorry didn’t mean to put you on the spot.

 

[ChrisOU812]

I love hearing dirty talk…it gets me so worked up and ridiculously wet. That being said…the more aroused I get, the more difficult it is for me to get my brain to focus on dirty talk…which isn’t to say I’m anywhere near silent I am definitely a moaner and a screamer whenever possible. Sometimes it can be a fun challenge to try not to make so much noise (like when roommates are home, or in a semi-private public space), but I often end up getting carried away anyway. And usually around the 6th orgasm or so, they kinda start rolling into each other and all bets are off, I get LOUD. For me and my multiorgasmic body and easily distracted brain, those moans are a much more primal, authentic reaction than stopping to think about dirty talk.

There are a few guys here who do dirty talk sooooo well though!

I am the dirtiest of all.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Yes. But really for the purpose to see if men and women alike are either silent or vocal. Sorry didn’t mean to put you on the spot.

So... Having had both partners... And such...
I find that my energy matches my partners ... Usually.
So for science.... We try anything once...

 

[morelikeasong]

Alright! So I just saw this and thought I’d share it but it also reminds me of a conversation @MischiefMakerAlways and I had. It’s about the TikTok trend “He sounds like he talks you through it”

I said it’s true because a lot of guys in my experience, outside of kink anyway, don’t really talk, grunt, make noise when they orgasm, etc.

He said, girls in his experience don’t make much noise either. I’m noisy and talk quite a bit!

I think girls are lot more vocal during sex/play then men are.

What’s your experience guys and girls?


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Count me in as a lover of the sounds

I’m on record, probably in this thread, of saying things like phone sex > video sex.
Sometimes I close my eyes when I “watch” porn. Love voice recordings of orgasms. And, call me Narcissus, I even think it’s hot to listen to a recording of myself

I love a vocal partner. I love the dirty talk, the moans, the groans, the breathing changes… all of it. Love being told what to do. Being told what they like. Being praised when I’m good (spoiler alert: always good ). Being vocally admired during intimate times is really hot.
Did I say all of it? Really, all of it.

In my [IRL] experiences, guys have not been particularly vocal and definitely not as much as I’d like them to be. I haven't been with any women.

Myself? Uhhhh… I’m not super detailed or creative, but I’m not silent. Maybe on the quieter side? I have kids so I’m never screaming or anything.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I'd like to add this to the pile of things we need to know....

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[velona]

I love a vocal partner. I love the dirty talk, the moans, the groans, the breathing changes… all of it. Love being told what to do. Being told what they like. Being praised when I’m good

100% agree

 

[Sammysub07]

Count me in as a lover of the sounds

I’m on record, probably in this thread, of saying things like phone sex > video sex.
Sometimes I close my eyes when I “watch” porn. Love voice recordings of orgasms. And, call me Narcissus, I even think it’s hot to listen to a recording of myself

I love a vocal partner. I love the dirty talk, the moans, the groans, the breathing changes… all of it. Love being told what to do. Being told what they like. Being praised when I’m good (spoiler alert: always good ). Being vocally admired during intimate times is really hot.
Did I say all of it? Really, all of it.

In my [IRL] experiences, guys have not been particularly vocal and definitely not as much as I’d like them to be. I haven't been with any women.

Myself? Uhhhh… I’m not super detailed or creative, but I’m not silent. Maybe on the quieter side? I have kids so I’m never screaming or anything.

Girl!! You and I both! I save things of MTK just based on the sound alone!

I’ve never thought of closing my eyes while watching porn! It’s such a good idea! Might have to try!

Yes to audio recordings of orgasms! Such a sensory thing to listen to just that, everything else stripped away. Don’t get me wrong, I also really like video. But audio is amazing!!!

Dirty talk+being praised+being told what they want+admiration. All in one sentence?! Spank me and color me your toy, you’ve pushed the button and I’ll do damn near anything (within limits) haha!

I’ve had IRL vanilla experiences with quiet men and d/s where it’s common practice. But for the most part, outside of any type of dynamic, the men I’ve been with were quiet!

I have kids, too. I’m not quiet. I try to enjoy play when they’re sleeping. But as the older gets older and he stays up later, I told homeslice he’s gonna have to figure out how to enjoy the outdoors or use to AirPods!

 

[UnquietDreams]

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[UnquietDreams]

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[hotoldrguy]

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[hotoldrguy]

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[vagrantx]

Damn it, English... Why you gotta be like this

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[Kitty_so_frisky]

Damn it, English... Why you gotta be like this

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Why do we bake cookies and cook bacon?

 

[vagrantx]

Why do we bake cookies and cook bacon?

 

[MrMakersMark]

Fire trucks are actually water trucks.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Fire trucks are actually water trucks.

Dusting is actually un-dusting.

 

[MrMakersMark]

Why is it peanut butter and jelly when Jelly is CLEARLY the star of the show?

 

[DannieB]

Why is it peanut butter and jelly when Jelly is CLEARLY the star of the show?

Is it though? Blackberry, for sure! All the others fall short to crunchy peanut butter..

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Is it though? Blackberry, for sure! All the others fall short to crunchy peanut butter..

Are we really just tossing classic grape to the side now? Because that's hurtful. And mean.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Is it though? Blackberry, for sure! All the others fall short to crunchy peanut butter..

... crunchy... ?

And here I thought we were friends.

 

[LupineOne]

Is it though? Blackberry, for sure! All the others fall short to crunchy peanut butter..

It’s raspberry for me. But I do have blackberry-raspberry!

 

[DannieB]

Are we really just tossing classic grape to the side now? Because that's hurtful. And mean.

Grape is right out. Got sick on grape flavor as a kid and can’t do it at all.

... crunchy... ?

And here I thought we were friends.

But creamy is like my tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth. We can still be friends without bringing PB into it

 

[MrMakersMark]

Is it though? Blackberry, for sure! All the others fall short to crunchy peanut butter..

hmm.
I do like crunchy peanut butter.
I forgot the crunchy.

And good call on the blackberry.

I still think the Jelly deserves a little more equal pay for equal work.

But...I will concede the point.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Grape is right out. Got sick on grape flavor as a kid and can’t do it at all.

But creamy is like my tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth. We can still be friends without bringing PB into it

But, but, I really like creamy PB and grape jelly....I'm all kinds of a traditionalist like that.