What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[artgorden]

Nothing turns me on like being submissive to a another man who's dick is bigger than mine. When she's telling me how good his dick is while she riding, I could explode.

 

[Nellie60]

I've seen, heard firsthand and second hand. If she's having a good time, it excites not only her but me. The different way she looks the different way her body moves the sounds and things she says make the whole experience better.

Actually watching her give hand to another man live, gave me the erotic pleasure of seeing how she was with another man's cock compared to with me. It was extraordinarily arousing.

Even just the fact she was pleasuring him the way she did me was absolutely a turn on.

It was also her whole body language..

 

[robbiewillsucku]

First - I will do anything to make her hot and kinky and make her cum so I want her to enjoy bigger cocks. Second I am a sub sissy cuckold faggot.

 

[write_or_wrong]

Actually watching her give hand to another man live, gave me the erotic pleasure of seeing how she was with another man's cock compared to with me. It was extraordinarily arousing.

Even just the fact she was pleasuring him the way she did me was absolutely a turn on.

It was also her whole body language..

I have experienced that as well, and totally loved it. When he came, it almost triggered an orgasm from me. If I had be out with my bi-ness, I would have licked his semen off of her hand.

 

[Belong2Her]

When my Wife is being the bottom during sex with another Man, it turns me on to know just how low i am on the Top/bottom heiarchy considering i am always submissive to my Wife/Mistress, and a bottom to Men.

 

[Sgts19]

I think I mentioned in another thread that I had a list of questions for my spouse. We met much later in life so several are about her early years. She’s been reluctant to talk because she gets embarrassed but yesterday she broke the sheild a little. I learned that her high school years included some hands over pants making out with her top off and that it was more than one individual that got that pleasure. Then I learned that her most risky adventure was sex on the beach with her long term boyfriend. This sounds very PG but for her this is a breakthrough.

Always excited me when she tells me something about the old days before me. A lot of it is because I'd love to see what she was like when sex was all new and exciting. What she liked what she didn't

 

[Sgts19]

Exactly- I actually had her sharing a little this morning but now she is running errands before she replied to my follow up questions. I am trying to work but I’m clearly focused on hoping to get more information from her.

It drives my wife crazy when I start asking questions about her past lol. BUT every once in a while, something will slip out and I'll start asking her about that. Weird? Probably but that's me lol

 

[Brittttlvr]

If it’s weird I am right there in the boat with you. A long time ago I might have been jealous or insecure but experience has completely flipped that on its head. Even the smallest story turns me on

The same. I had some jealousy when younger. Now, it seems, none.

 

[Sgts19]

If it’s weird I am right there in the boat with you. A long time ago I might have been jealous or insecure but experience has completely flipped that on its head. Even the smallest story turns me on

We must be twins lol

 

[Nellie60]

I have experienced that as well, and totally loved it. When he came, it almost triggered an orgasm from me. If I had be out with my bi-ness, I would have licked his semen off of her hand.

I admit I tried to avoid stroking myself and instead just rubbed my crotch through my pants as I watched.

It wasn't just the voyeurism aspect of it. It was was watching her get overwhelmed with excitement, her soft moans, some of the words she said to him during the act and the heavy breathing and towards the end the sign she may even had an orgasm. It was pure pleasure to watch how she stroked another man.

And the best thing I immediately replaced him after he left, so I was able to experience the same and I must add by that stage she was insatiable...

 

[Nellie60]

I admit I tried to avoid stroking myself and instead just rubbed my crotch through my pants as I watched.

It wasn't just the voyeurism aspect of it. It was was watching her get overwhelmed with excitement, her soft moans, some of the words she said to him during the act and the heavy breathing and towards the end the sign she may even had an orgasm. It was pure pleasure to watch how she stroked another man.

And the best thing I immediately replaced him after he left, so I was able to experience the same and I must add by that stage she was insatiable...

In the end of the day I was particularly aroused by what she said to him amongst all the sounds of their excitement.

In been many years since but I freely admit to having thoughts about what I allowed her to do everyday.

It was the reason for this posting but of course everyone is different here.

I know what she was like but hearing her say it to a stranger was devastating hot.

The whole experience of watching live their make out, the sounds and the emotional aspects was topped off from hearing her tell this guy " how turned on she was giving a handjob to another man," and "how hot she was feeling" and "wanting to watch him cum"

Accumulating in a furious handjob with her right hand.

I am no longer with her sadly but as I said I wish I had the courage to allow her to have gone further, allowing another man to go down on her, yes in car and see her ride hard and fast different men while I watched from the front.

Its the knowledge of what she was like and what turned her on, that was so erotic and hot.

 

[SissySalina]

Hearing about how She uses and abuses others to get Her pleasure.

 

[artgorden]

Being submissive to the man who fucks my wife with a big dick makes my little dick hard.

 

[Burstplayer]

For me it's strictly seeing her as a sexual object, not my loving wife. Objectifying her makes her hotter for me and seeing her as a slut that I want for my own pleasure and others to share.

 

[Nellie60]

For me it's strictly seeing her as a sexual object, not my loving wife. Objectifying her makes her hotter for me and seeing her as a slut that I want for my own pleasure and others to share.

Its not about being cuckolded or seeing another man fucking her with a bigger cock scenarios.

Like you say seeing her being desirable to other men. Hearing them talk about her in a sexual manner but knowing she yours.

It's watching her let herself go with another man and pleasing him.

 

[Burstplayer]

Its not about being cuckolded or seeing another man fucking her with a bigger cock scenarios.

Like you say seeing her being desirable to other men. Hearing them talk about her in a sexual manner but knowing she yours.

It's watching her let herself go with another man and pleasing him.

Exactly. I've always wanted my wife to be more adventurous and open sexually. She had almost no experience when we met. Over the years, she's improved, but I've always wanted to see her more of a sexpot and wild.

 

[Nellie60]

Exactly. I've always wanted my wife to be more adventurous and open sexually. She had almost no experience when we met. Over the years, she's improved, but I've always wanted to see her more of a sexpot and wild.

Has she "improved" and in which way?

There is one thing watching a very experienced woman with other men who is your wive/ girlfriend compared with one less experienced.

Your wife could be rather hot to watch if she hasn't been with other men..

 

[Burstplayer]

Has she "improved" and in which way?

There is one thing watching a very experienced woman with other men who is your wive/ girlfriend compared with one less experienced.

Your wife could be rather hot to watch if she hasn't been with other men..

She's improved sexually over time. Swallows now, blowjobs are much better, likes porn, tried Anal and is more orgasmic for sure. There's still some roadblocks and apprehension, but much less than when she was in her 20's/30's.

She hasn't been with other men, that i know of, and I believe that..so yeah, seeing her get something she's never had would be a treat for sure.

 

[Nellie60]

She's improved sexually over time. Swallows now, blowjobs are much better, likes porn, tried Anal and is more orgasmic for sure. There's still some roadblocks and apprehension, but much less than when she was in her 20's/30's.

She hasn't been with other men, that i know of, and I believe that..so yeah, seeing her get something she's never had would be a treat for sure.

Have you suggested it to her or is it still your fantasy? To be with someone else.

 

[Burstplayer]

Have you suggested it to her or is it still your fantasy? To be with someone else.

We've been discussing it now for about a year. She's knows I want it, but she's not there for real yet. We do play role games where she does fuck a stranger or her masseuse, but she thinks it will potentially hurt the marriage if she makes the leap for real. I can't comprehend how she could go her whole adult life with one cock, and now get the opportunity, and still hold back.

 

[Nellie60]

We've been discussing it now for about a year. She's knows I want it, but she's not there for real yet. We do play role games where she does fuck a stranger or her masseuse, but she thinks it will potentially hurt the marriage if she makes the leap for real. I can't comprehend how she could go her whole adult life with one cock, and now get the opportunity, and still hold back.

Understand both sides. The reality made not be as it appears in your fantasy.

She being reluctant is understandable. There will be different reasons for that.

Your pursuit of idea is understandable but clear consent both sides and there will be emotional aspects that you may not be aware of as we.

But is it works, it probably will be pretty hot to see her react to another man's cock.

 

[Glassnslate]

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[Omniluv4U]

I have always been a voyeur since I was young. So naturally fantasying about watching my wife and some other guy having sex is a no brainer. My wife and I have always been open about everything in our relationship and sex is no exception. I had shared my fantasy of her making love to a hot, stud stranger for years and frequently shared all the dirty details with hot talk during our love making sessions. She would listen to every detail as I created the visual encounter in her mind. Sometimes she would ask me questions like, is it ok if he eats my pussy too? These fantasy talk fuck sessions always ended in us both cuming very hard. Nevertheless, she always stood her ground and didn’t give in to going through with it in real life. She said that she felt it would be cheating on me. Even with my incessant attempts to convince her otherwise she wouldn’t relent. That is until the night of our 10th wedding anniversary. We were away for that weekend celebrating and staying at a New England B&B. It was here where she gave in to my fantasy and sensually fucked a total stranger. I can’t say that he was the hot, young stud type in my fantasy. Actually, he was more of an average, somewhat overweight older gentleman. About 20 years our senior. And that actually made it even hotter. But what made the whole experience really hot was the precise moment when my wife sincerely lost complete physical control and orgasmed on his cock. That moment when she truly released all her prior inhibitions and let herself give in to the raw lust of the moment was mind blowing. That happened over 15 years ago and I still get a full hard on when I think of it. Unfortunately, it has never happened again. But that anniversary night is still fresh in my memory.

 

[Nellie60]

I have always been a voyeur since I was young. So naturally fantasying about watching my wife and some other guy having sex is a no brainer. My wife and I have always been open about everything in our relationship and sex is no exception. I had shared my fantasy of her making love to a hot, stud stranger for years and frequently shared all the dirty details with hot talk during our love making sessions. She would listen to every detail as I created the visual encounter in her mind. Sometimes she would ask me questions like, is it ok if he eats my pussy too? These fantasy talk fuck sessions always ended in us both cuming very hard. Nevertheless, she always stood her ground and didn’t give in to going through with it in real life. She said that she felt it would be cheating on me. Even with my incessant attempts to convince her otherwise she wouldn’t relent. That is until the night of our 10th wedding anniversary. We were away for that weekend celebrating and staying at a New England B&B. It was here where she gave in to my fantasy and sensually fucked a total stranger. I can’t say that he was the hot, young stud type in my fantasy. Actually, he was more of an average, somewhat overweight older gentleman. About 20 years our senior. And that actually made it even hotter. But what made the whole experience really hot was the precise moment when my wife sincerely lost complete physical control and orgasmed on his cock. That moment when she truly released all her prior inhibitions and let herself give in to the raw lust of the moment was mind blowing. That happened over 15 years ago and I still get a full hard on when I think of it. Unfortunately, it has never happened again. But that anniversary night is still fresh in my memory.

I presume you watched her. I did something similar years ago allowing my then girlfriend to commit a sexual act on a random stranger.

I watched as it unfolded. Still one of the hottest voyeuristic experiences!

 

[Omniluv4U]

I presume you watched her. I did something similar years ago allowing my then girlfriend to commit a sexual act on a random stranger.

I watched as it unfolded. Still one of the hottest voyeuristic experiences!

I presume you watched her. I did something similar years ago allowing my then girlfriend to commit a sexual act on a random stranger.

I watched as it unfolded. Still one of the hottest voyeuristic experiences!

Yes, I got to watch and experience it all. Below is the full account of what happened…

Back when my wife and I were in our late 30’s we drove to New England for a winter weekend getaway. It was out 10th anniversary and we wanted to spend sometime alone and away from our usual routine. Arriving Friday evening we checked into a bed and breakfast in an quaint little town. We planned to just do a little daytime exploring on Saturday and then have dinner at one of the local restaurants. Other than that our plan was to have some alone time at the B&B. We had breakfast Saturday morning at the inn and ate in a small dining room with a few other guests. One guest seemed to be traveling alone. He looked to be in his mid 50’s. He was a big bearded man that appeared to weigh about 250lbs or so. He had shoulder length graying hair and a trimmed beard. He wore silver rimmed glasses. He wasn’t overly attractive but combined his appearance gave him a unique look. Kind of a stern, stoic mature look. The B&B owner was making her rounds from table to table asking if there anything else we may have needed. When she got the this man’s table we could overhear the conversation. The man explained in a heavy German accent that he traveling through NE on vacation from Germany. That explains his unique appearance I thought.

After a full day of exploring local antique shops and boutiques we enjoyed diner a nice restaurant before returning late (around 11:00 pm) to the B&B for some adult playtime. My wife and I have always been very attracted to one other since the day we first met and have always enjoyed a healthy and active sex live. And I have always openly shared my favorite fanatsy of watching her fuck other men. She knows it’s my desire to make it a reality but she has always been reluctant to despite my consent reassurance that I would be more than 100 percent okay with it.

When we got back to the B&B we quietly made our way to our room trying not to disturb the other guests. We passed the large living room area which was dimly lit by some faint beams moonlight coming through a large thinly vailed picture window. The living room was just a few steps away from our room and sitting all alone in a large cushioned, winged back chair was the big German. Surprised we said a quiet hello in passing and continued to our room. Once in our room my wife commented on how weird she thought it was that he was just sitting there alone in the darkness. My mind on the other hand started to race with hot thoughts of my wife servicing the big German. And I didn’t hesitate to tell her so. I told her I wanted her to strip down nude and put on the complimentary white terry cloth robe provided by the inn. I told her I wanted her to walk out into the living room and open her robe for him to see her beautiful naked body. Then let things progress naturally from there.

To my surprise and delight she shot back saying, “Really, do you really want me to?” I responded, “Yes, I really do.” Without another word being said she went into the bathroom and a few minutes later returned wearing the bath robe and her beautiful brunette hair up in a ponytail. She walked right past me and before stepping out the door she said, “remember you wanted me to do this.”

Still not totally believing she would actually go through with itI waited a minute or two before I quietly opened the room door and tiptoed down the short hallway. I stopped at the end of the hall and slowly peered around the edge of the wall. In the dim moonlight I saw the back of my wife kneeling before the large man in the chair. She was positioned between his legs and his pants were crumpled on top of his shoes. Her head was barely moving up and down in what seemed like slow motion. My heart began to pound in my chest and a shot of adrenaline raced through my weins. I started to tremble with excitement. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. My reserved wife was down on her knees giving complete stranger a blow job. The big German just sat in the chair quiet and motionless just looking down watching my wife service him.

She only sucked him for a few moments before she stood up and dropped her soft robe to the floor. Now she was standing totally naked in front of him. Still the mature man didn’t move. My wife then climbed up onto the chair putting her knees between each arm of the chair and his heavy legs. In the ambient light I watched her sit upright and reach behind her back. I saw her hand searching and finally grabbing ahold of his cock. His cock looked short but thick and he seemed to have big round balls with lots of pubic hair. Wife wife guided his hard dick up between her legs. Then she slowly eased herself back down. She pushed her hips all the way down until her cute ass cheeks flatten on his big belly. She then started to move her body up and down riding his hard cock. He reached out and placed his hands on each of her hips. She tilted her head back and continued to ride him with a quickening pace. I know my wife and I could tell she was getting close to having an orgasm. For a few moments she continued bouncing up and down on his cock before the stranger let out a series of low moaning sounds. His body tensed and my wife responded by pushing her hips down and grinding left to right. I knew he was cumming and I could tell my wife was too. A few seconds later they both stopped moving. My wife then slowly leaned forward letting his cock slip out of her. She climbed back off the chair and picked up her robe. She leaned into the man and I could hear them both whispering. She then gave him a kiss in the cheek and turned back towards me.

She caught me standing in the hallway and took my hand leading me back into our room. Once inside she said, “happy anniversary, baby.” We embraced I quickly laid her on the bed. Without any hesitation I opened her robe, spread her legs and spent the next hour devouring her warm, freshly fucked pussy. I sucked, licked and swallowed every drop of her mature lovers cum. We spent the rest of night fucking like newly weds. The next day on our drive home I asked her what she said to him after they finished fucking. She just responded with a coy smile and said, “wouldn’t you like to know”. To this day I still masturbate thinking about that night and wondering what she said to him.