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Wish I could say it was that easy here.


Anyway, the cold weathers gone and Im very sad about it. I hate the sun. 😫
 
Wish I could say it was that easy here.


Anyway, the cold weathers gone and Im very sad about it. I hate the sun. 😫
Are you serious? OMG I am a sun worshipper. We had some very cold weather (for us) and I am glad it's behind us. I am not looking forward to the endless summer of 100+ degree days but for now, it's good.
 
I'm here. Just chilling in the background. Bit of a self absorbed and toxic trans woman. Been on Lit as a reader and editor, though not as much in the last few years. Think I am on my 4th or 5th account, since even before my transition. Need to reschedule bottom surgery, or find a new surgeon all together. Lonely as hell, no real friends anymore, don't talk to my family. Only joy/escape I get is reading these days.

Unfiltered me enjoying the sun this evening/afternoon...
https://ibb.co/Xrk9QWN7
So peaceful and serene looking
 
Are you serious? OMG I am a sun worshipper. We had some very cold weather (for us) and I am glad it's behind us. I am not looking forward to the endless summer of 100+ degree days but for now, it's good.

I mean...as Ive gotten older the bitter cold season def has its downsides, but Id still always rather be too cold than too hot.
Esp since one of my rounds of covid really fucked up my body heat regulation to where its extremely difficult for me to cool down.

I get seasonal depression but in summer lol
 
I mean...as Ive gotten older the bitter cold season def has its downsides, but Id still always rather be too cold than too hot.
Esp since one of my rounds of covid really fucked up my body heat regulation to where its extremely difficult for me to cool down.

I get seasonal depression but in summer lol
Wow. I grew up in Canada so I have had enough of snow, ice and cold for one lifetime. I also get depressed - when I don't see the sun! Lol.

Covid messed a lot of people up. I was part of a Covid study over the past 4 years that actually studied the antibodies in my blood. I can definitely say that I have never had covid which is a mystery because I have been swimming in a sea of covid for the past five years!
 
Wow. I grew up in Canada so I have had enough of snow, ice and cold for one lifetime. I also get depressed - when I don't see the sun! Lol.

Covid messed a lot of people up. I was part of a Covid study over the past 4 years that actually studied the antibodies in my blood. I can definitely say that I have never had covid which is a mystery because I have been swimming in a sea of covid for the past five years!

Yeah covids wild. Very glad to hear you've been spared.

Canada sounds nice. Not cause of politics, basically everywhere is fucked but its cooooooold all the time.
People aeem very nice too.
Plus Bret Hart lol.
 
Ive been kinda depressed. Im normally very optimistic and bubbly but latley humanity has just been showing me its worst and I need a soft reset.
 
What are yall having for dinner/breakfast/lunch rn?

Its dinner here and weve got pork belly on rice. We thought it was the kind of pork belly you can turn into cracklins but its all good, pork is pork ya know lol
 
What are yall having for dinner/breakfast/lunch rn?

Its dinner here and weve got pork belly on rice. We thought it was the kind of pork belly you can turn into cracklins but its all good, pork is pork ya know lol
I had a wonderful BLT for lunch. Lotta bacon lol
 
The only trans women I ever see are in the Philippines. They are everywhere. My girlfriend will tell me "She is trans." after we pass a pretty woman in the street or at a shopping mall. I can never tell but she says Filipinos can tell.
 
The only trans women I ever see are in the Philippines. They are everywhere. My girlfriend will tell me "She is trans." after we pass a pretty woman in the street or at a shopping mall. I can never tell but she says Filipinos can tell.

The Filipinos where are work are the coolest towards us trans employees. Each one knows or is related to someone considered transgender. The ones that have the biggest issues with it are a few of the Africans (Somalia, Chad, Kenya, etc) and its hit or miss with the Latinos, though they represent the bulk of the trans masc here. I work in a building with something like 70 different countries represented, gives me a chance to converse with everyone, most are pretty chill at least. I've got someone from India and another from Saudi Arabia that love to flirt with me...
 
Full disclosure, I'm not Trans, Sissy, or CD. I'm just an ok looking senior/mature bi guy.

That said, I stumbled across this thread and found it so interesting reading the thoughts, concerns, and passions of the commentators.

I began thinking about the Trans and Sissy people in my everyday life in a new way.

There are three I know and likely more, I'm sure, who are closeted(?) and only open up at home or while out of town.

But the three I know are really nice people. They work in local service businesses and I always see them and chat when I do business where they work.

They present as female and while they don't approach 'passing', they are attractive and lovely in their own personable way.

I watch them as they interact with other customers and most seem unbothered by their gender selection. In fact, most treat them like young girls and it's cute to watch them enjoying the respectful attention.

I wish I knew them better and after reading some of these posts I intend to get to know them better. Not sexually, but know them better as nice people I see often.

Does anyone else know people like this?

I need to update my og post to specify anyone can post here as long as its not an e-booty call or a porn post.
But if anybody is curious what our lives are like on a day to day they are very welcome to be here. ☺️
 
The only trans women I ever see are in the Philippines. They are everywhere. My girlfriend will tell me "She is trans." after we pass a pretty woman in the street or at a shopping mall. I can never tell but she says Filipinos can tell.

I know of two in my tiny rural town.
One is a really pretty latina gal who works at a local pharmacy. I want to say hi and chit chat when I see her but Im psure shes stealth and may not appreciate me drawing attention to her.
 
:rose: I've been strangling my news feed since the orange man got in.
That's helped but I still have a morbid fascination for the news media which is so unhealthy.

Normally Im very bubbly and chill but yeah shits been rolling off me for awhile now and I guess I need to empty the runoff tray, so to speak.
 
In times like these, a community like this one matters, a place to share stories, support each other, and hopefully find inspiration...

Im glad this thread is doing well. I know Lit is a kink site but its good to have a balance and like you said with the world like it is, building community matters a lot.

Im not on socials, but if someone here would like my discord, dm me. Bit easier for chit chat than the forum.
 
I know of two in my tiny rural town.
One is a really pretty latina gal who works at a local pharmacy. I want to say hi and chit chat when I see her but Im psure shes stealth and may not appreciate me drawing attention to her.
You are probably right. I think trans are the best at clocking other trans like my girlfriend does but there is solidarity among the sisterhood.
 
You are probably right. I think trans are the best at clocking other trans like my girlfriend does but there is solidarity among the sisterhood.

Well, in older trans folk in my own experience. Younger ones tend to want to tear eachother apart for not doing something "right". :(
It saddens me deeply.
 
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