🫧Chloe's Curiosities Captivated🫦

[Chloe_Harper]

Isn’t that amazing? My eyes are blue, my hair was blonde and has gotten darker with age. I spent my life being mesmerized by brown or hazel eyes. So beautiful! I look in the mirror and see my blue eyes, and think, whatever. Boring!!!

In the 90’s, I worked in an office where a caregiver would come in for one of my colleagues. She had these beautiful, green eyes. And amazing legs! I was astounded at how comfortable she was wearing these short skirts!

And… a co worked (who I adored) pointed out, I am an idiot. She wore contacts. And talking to her, she confirmed that. Her eyes were blue, but her contacts were green.

And my awe and admiration for her wearing these really short skirts? Nope. They were skorts… or whatever they were called. Shorts, sewed to look like skirts. So, I learned I am a total fucking idiot, and my heroes are fakes.

Yeah, me!

Brenda dear, you are not a fucking idiot. None of that self-deprecating talk. Don't make me have to learn how to be a switch just to make you realize the things you say about yourself aren't nice or accurate

Also, isn't it funny how we all see someone with different color eyes and just find them so enticingly beautiful

 

[BrendaBear]

Why is this thread so emotional, I have a tough image to uphold, but my toughness is cracking lol.


Chloe it is a great thing to have and is a beautiful thing.


Brenda while it's nice to have that support from a lover or parent, no one determines your value and importance, except yourself in how you carry yourself. Hope you find that happiness within, which is the most important love that can be had. I see you making people laugh and happy on this site, look at all the great things you do, the great music you play to make people feel good. You make an impact on people, never give up on yourself.



All meant in the best of ways.

Thank you!

I have had a long, shitty, life. But … I am still here (no idea why) I choose to believe it is to be here for my (in spirit, to me), daughters. @Chloe_Harper, @Sammysub07 , @Fiestykitten , @dawn_of_night , @DannieB , @NewStartQueen …

There are many more. They, (to me), are my daughters and granddaughters. Being here, for them, is so much more important to me, than I know how to convey. And a great honor to me.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Thank you!

I have had a long, shitty, life. But … I am still here (no idea why) I choose to believe it is to be here for my (in spirit, to me), daughters. @Chloe_Harper, @Sammysub07 , @Fiestykitten , @dawn_of_night , @DannieB , @NewStartQueen …

There are many more. They, (to me), are my daughters and granddaughters. Being here, for them, is so much more important to me, than I know how to convey. And a great honor to me.

 

[DannieB]

Thank you!

I have had a long, shitty, life. But … I am still here (no idea why) I choose to believe it is to be here for my (in spirit, to me), daughters. @Chloe_Harper, @Sammysub07 , @Fiestykitten , @dawn_of_night , @DannieB , @NewStartQueen …

There are many more. They, (to me), are my daughters and granddaughters. Being here, for them, is so much more important to me, than I know how to convey. And a great honor to me.

I love you, Brenda! Your style, your music, your dance, your hair, your little kittie ears, everything that is YOU! Don’t ever change! I can only hope to learn to be as me as you are one day!
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[Sammysub07]

Thank you!

I have had a long, shitty, life. But … I am still here (no idea why) I choose to believe it is to be here for my (in spirit, to me), daughters. @Chloe_Harper, @Sammysub07 , @Fiestykitten , @dawn_of_night , @DannieB , @NewStartQueen …

There are many more. They, (to me), are my daughters and granddaughters. Being here, for them, is so much more important to me, than I know how to convey. And a great honor to me.

Brenda!! MamaBrenda! Your love for those you care about knows no bounds, past or present. Thank you for taking this once-old-back-to-lit-newb under your wing! I love you!

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[Strixaluco]

"In French, Mardi means “Tuesday” and gras means “fat.” That’s why the day is also referred to as Fat Tuesday.

Finland doesn't really have carnivals (if something, the modern times May Day would be it). But we have "laskiainen" which comes from "laskea" (to count - or to let down or to go downhil - or to go down in fastingl). We usually still have snow at this time of the year. So, going downhill with sledges, toboggans (wonder if I can trust the translator there), maybe even skis, was the joy of the day!

And in the past people used to shout "Pitkiä pellavia!" (long flax/linen) and competed in who got the longest ride downhill.

And then afterwards they of course needed to drink lots of warm etc.
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[MischiefMakerAlways]

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Depression comes in many forms. When you are alone, it can hit harder simply because there's nothing around to distract you from the deepest pains. The traumas you've endured, the empty feelings that somehow weigh heavier than the feelings you can name.

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How we do or don't face depression is different for everyone individual, as well as different points in our lives. These pictures are only some of the few that spoke directly to me. Sometimes we have to wallow in the pain. We have to let the sorrow wash over us, through us, around us, until we know nothing but it.

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When you have someone in your life who does suffer this way, it's not always about making them feel better. Chances are, in those moments, they won't hear it anyway. But, being present, letting them know someone is there, holding them or just being as close as they will let you be, all of that is what is important. As the pain, the emptiness, the sadness begins to fade and they become attuned to the rest of their soul again, that's when you remind them of its beauty. View attachment 2505994View attachment 2505995View attachment 2505996

I hate talking about it, but I saw this post yesterday (I'm MIA most of this week, I have a TON of work to do, but specifically wanted to weigh in on this topic), and it was the push I needed to have a very raw conversation with MLT. Nothing she didn't already sort of know, but the extremes and broad scope were new.

Depression scares me, more than any other "natural" thing on earth. It has damaged or shattered countless lives. The funerals I've attended in the past 15 months from the aftermath of untreated depression... there are no words. And then the toll of what nearly 30 years of conflict and war has done to my brother and sisters in arms - 22 a day; It's not a perfect statistic, but it is the one that people know... the veterans, which make up less than 6% of the US population (down from 18% in 1980), 22 veterans succumb to depression every single day.

No one is alone - no one! I don't care who you are, what you believe, or what you've done (mostly... let's be real) - YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Message me, call me, call 988 (veterans, dial 1 after you do), talk to someone.

There are so many things to be depressed about, it's too easy. And all the various clinical depression diagnostic options... we have a real problem. Thanks for bringing this up, making space for it.

I love Godsmack, but had never heard this!

If you ever need me, my sweetest bestie, I’m here for you! I love you!

This shower photo called to me! Got me a little in the feels. Every time I’ve gone through any major depression in my life it was utterly alone. With kids, the only way I sheltered them from my pain was alone in the shower. When I went through PPD with my last kiddo and my spouse was against seeking help, I cried alone in the shower many times with my daughter asleep in her bouncer just outside of the shower. I sought help anyway. I worked through it.

When I realized my marriage was ending with separation, I found myself alone again in the shower while my kids were at school so he wouldn’t hear me.

Never again, my little treasure - never again.

Love you bestie and I'm always here for you too!

I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that alone. I can't imagine. PPD was something I worried about for my little sister when she had nephew. I'm so sorry you've had to go through so much alone. The shower has definitely been where I've found myself sobbing during one of my breaks. That's why that one spoke to me. Easy to hide yourself from others that might ask questions, or worse, not ask at all.

We aren't alone anymore

Amongst all of us, you are correct. And I mean it. NO ONE is alone, but they have to be brave enough to let others know what's needed.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

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[BrendaBear]

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I'm such a dork. I saw this... and I'm looking out the window... "Hey, that's my town!"

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

When you have someone in your life who does suffer this way, it's not always about making them feel better. Chances are, in those moments, they won't hear it anyway. But, being present, letting them know someone is there, holding them or just being as close as they will let you be, all of that is what is important. As the pain, the emptiness, the sadness begins to fade and they become attuned to the rest of their soul again, that's when you remind them of its beauty.

Just here to say that, from the perspective of someone who suffers from periodic but chronic bouts of depression, this is really important. What I've learned is that for me, the only way 'past' is to go 'through' which can be a hell of a thing. It's easy to feel lonely, for sure.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

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[TXRafe]

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[Chloe_Harper]

Okay... since we've been getting all up in our feels in here lately let's change it up...

I have found one of my favorite things to do with a sexual partner, especially one I have a real connection with, is oral servicing.

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There's something so equally submissive and powerful about being on your knees for your partner. Speaking from a female enjoying giving a blowjob, but I'm sure there are those who feel the same about going down on a lady.

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Looking up at him as I work my tongue and mouth along his length, around his thickness. A lot of my stories on Lit go into details about various kinds of blowjobs because of how much I personally enjoy them. Rough and deep, slow and controlled, sloppy and slobbery, or a long, adoring cock worship. Hearing the hiss through his teeth, the deep intakes of breath, his groans, moans, and words of praise just make the whole thing that much more arousing for me.

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Oh, and his hands in my hair, holding it back for me, or using it to help guide my movements... lord yes! Being encouraged to go deep, gag and choke myself on him, not be afraid to have the drool running down my chin, all of that makes it so much better. But also, the use of the tongue! It can do so much teasing, massaging, tasting, feeling all without your entire mouth wrapped around him.

I will talk on the release and where/how I like to take it in another post. I will say though, swallowing or messes on me are both high on my list

This is my take on giving oral. I would love to speak on this. Not on giving/receiving for a woman, but specifically blowjobs. So, share what you like about it from a man's or woman's perspective... or imagery that conveys what you like. Anything explicit in image, remember to hide behind a link please!

 

[barefootgirl69]

This is my take on giving oral. I would love to speak on this. Not on giving/receiving for a woman, but specifically blowjobs. So, share what you like about it from a man's or woman's perspective... or imagery that conveys what you like. Anything explicit in image, remember to hide behind a link please!

Just real quick before my name is called.

There's a difference between blowjobs and cock worship, imo.

Ymmv

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Just real quick before my name is called.

There's a difference between blowjobs and cock worship, imo.

Ymmv

Oh, I agree. 100%. I mention both in giving oral because I love both. I said specifically blowjobs just to deter conversation from falling down the rabbithole of giving to women. I suppose I could have phrased that part better.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Okay... since we've been getting all up in our feels in here lately let's change it up...

I have found one of my favorite things to do with a sexual partner, especially one I have a real connection with, is oral servicing.

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There's something so equally submissive and powerful about being on your knees for your partner. Speaking from a female enjoying giving a blowjob, but I'm sure there are those who feel the same about going down on a lady.

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Looking up at him as I work my tongue and mouth along his length, around his thickness. A lot of my stories on Lit go into details about various kinds of blowjobs because of how much I personally enjoy them. Rough and deep, slow and controlled, sloppy and slobbery, or a long, adoring cock worship. Hearing the hiss through his teeth, the deep intakes of breath, his groans, moans, and words of praise just make the whole thing that much more arousing for me.

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Oh, and his hands in my hair, holding it back for me, or using it to help guide my movements... lord yes! Being encouraged to go deep, gag and choke myself on him, not be afraid to have the drool running down my chin, all of that makes it so much better. But also, the use of the tongue! It can do so much teasing, massaging, tasting, feeling all without your entire mouth wrapped around him.

I will talk on the release and where/how I like to take it in another post. I will say though, swallowing or messes on me are both high on my list

This is my take on giving oral. I would love to speak on this. Not on giving/receiving for a woman, but specifically blowjobs. So, share what you like about it from a man's or woman's perspective... or imagery that conveys what you like. Anything explicit in image, remember to hide behind a link please!

I can count on one hand how many partners have ever had their mouth on me, so far, only one was exceptionally good, the one with the most interactions is kind of terrible. Rumor has it, I have an amazing experience awaiting me - and I fully believe this will shatter all previous experiences.

That said - this is obviously just my thoughts and opinions and represents no one but myself.

Anyone who says a bad blowjob is still a good blowjob has never had a bad one. It isn't complicated to be decent at blowjobs, fellatio, etc. Find the right rhythm, don't let it get dry, and find a moderate and pleasing level of pressure. Voila! A perfectly fine attempt. You don't have to be a throat-GOAT, you don't have to be a cumslut, you can be a normal woman (my preference is a woman), doing something to make her man happy, and enjoy some part of it. You don't have to swallow, you don't have to take a facial, etc.

To me, like any sexual encounter and any high-functioning relationship, it comes down to authenticity, energy, and communication. If my partner isn't having a good time, get my penis out of your mouth. This is a waste of both of our time.

I would rather have a partner who enjoys the act of fellatio for her own reasons; it could be she enjoys pleasing her partner, she loves the art of the blowjob, she likes ejaculate, she is a submissive who will do almost anything to please her Dominant, etc. Authentically having a good time as the servicing person makes me as the receiver feel good.

The energy will vary wildly based on all of the factors possible. Is this meant to be a cock worship session, or is this about getting that orgasm from me as quickly as possible? Is this more romantic and loving or is it a throat fuck? Are we trying to keep this moderately tidy or is lots of spit and drool and making a mess is part of the fun? Am I sitting/laying back and enjoying the servitude, or am I face/throat fucking? Is the desire to paint your face or chest, for my partner to accept and swallow every little bit, or take the orgasm, then allow it to be drooled out and all over – or some other option? I like each and every option possible and all for different reasons. I could fill your thread with explanation, but if there’s something you want to know, just ask.

Communication! This is always the most important. Long before any activity has been initiated, we will know where limits and boundaries are, what is or is not acceptable, and all of those other critical points. I am a communicator and I want to have it be a two way street. I will say all sorts of sweet things, or all sorts of extremely NOT sweet things – depending on the situation and what has been agreed upon. Please, PLEASE tell me, as my partner, that you are enjoying what you’re doing to and for me. Use words when able, moan, groan, choke, gag, etc. These are all ways to communicate back to me that my partner is into what she’s doing for me.

Choking and gagging, why do some guys like it? I don’t know about other guys, but for me, it’s an act of submission and devotion. Did I ever think I’d like to hear someone gag? Nope. But do I? Yup. Why? Because it’s an audible but nonverbal way to say that my partner is submitting her body to me in such a way that she puts her own discomfort after my pleasure; that she’d rather I experience a sensational feeling from fellatio over her gag reflex making her feel ill. It’s heady in that it is wholly submissive. It’s similar to deepthroating and choking; again, it’s about the act and spirit of submission. Those moments of my partner’s face reddening, possibly eyes getting wider, hands may start shaking or flailing a little is submission. It tells me, “I am putting your pleasure so far ahead of myself that I’m willing to sacrifice normal breathing for you.” It may sound crazy to some, but it’s an act of absolute devotion and would only be something I would engage in with a partner I had the utmost care for – which sounds counterintuitive. Especially in situations of bondage or just domination, having the control to use a mouth and/or throat as I see fit, probably denying my partner of air for moments, this is something I would only ever do with someone I trusted; and that’s the crazy part, I’m the person in power! But I have to trust my partner.

So much of more non-traditional sexual exploration is based on deep trust and affection. But I think I have digressed; sorry.

Lastly, a great fellatrix will know that there is a lot more than just suck and squeeze. There is the frenum, the testis, the glans, all around the pubic bone and mound, etc. Not every guy feels the same about this, but there are a lot of options to pay attention to, don’t leave anything out! And don’t be afraid to try and explore boundaries! Milking the prostate? Sounds wonderful. Sucking on a testicle while stroking the shaft? Yes please! Massaging or even licking and sucking the taint? Sign me up! Licking the slit at the end of my penis and getting your tongue in there a bit? I think I died and went to heaven!

The bottom line, for me, is that just like any other part of physical intimacy situations, it’s made better by a partner I trust, better if preferences and boundaries are already discussed, better by truly enjoying it as the provider, and better by a deep and meaningful connection. If these aspects are missing, it just isn’t going to be as great for me.

 

[velona]

I prefer to give slow and sloppy with lots of eye contact. But I'm not against taking direction if my partner wants something different...especially if he wants to tell me exactly what he wants me to do.

For myself (and I think a lot of women) giving a blowjob is the first "sex" they have (I don't know any woman whose first experience was receiving oral). I'd be curious how much those early experiences continue to color what we like or are comfortable doing later.

 

[Dayhoosier]

Okay... since we've been getting all up in our feels in here lately let's change it up...

I have found one of my favorite things to do with a sexual partner, especially one I have a real connection with, is oral servicing.

View attachment 2507847

There's something so equally submissive and powerful about being on your knees for your partner. Speaking from a female enjoying giving a blowjob, but I'm sure there are those who feel the same about going down on a lady.

View attachment 2507849

Looking up at him as I work my tongue and mouth along his length, around his thickness. A lot of my stories on Lit go into details about various kinds of blowjobs because of how much I personally enjoy them. Rough and deep, slow and controlled, sloppy and slobbery, or a long, adoring cock worship. Hearing the hiss through his teeth, the deep intakes of breath, his groans, moans, and words of praise just make the whole thing that much more arousing for me.

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Oh, and his hands in my hair, holding it back for me, or using it to help guide my movements... lord yes! Being encouraged to go deep, gag and choke myself on him, not be afraid to have the drool running down my chin, all of that makes it so much better. But also, the use of the tongue! It can do so much teasing, massaging, tasting, feeling all without your entire mouth wrapped around him.

I will talk on the release and where/how I like to take it in another post. I will say though, swallowing or messes on me are both high on my list

This is my take on giving oral. I would love to speak on this. Not on giving/receiving for a woman, but specifically blowjobs. So, share what you like about it from a man's or woman's perspective... or imagery that conveys what you like. Anything explicit in image, remember to hide behind a link please!

I may just spend my Friday rereading this over and over ..... Dear God! I miss it sooooo much. *Hissing through my teeth just reading this*

 

[Mittering]

Okay... since we've been getting all up in our feels in here lately let's change it up...

I have found one of my favorite things to do with a sexual partner, especially one I have a real connection with, is oral servicing.

View attachment 2507847

There's something so equally submissive and powerful about being on your knees for your partner. Speaking from a female enjoying giving a blowjob, but I'm sure there are those who feel the same about going down on a lady.

View attachment 2507849

Looking up at him as I work my tongue and mouth along his length, around his thickness. A lot of my stories on Lit go into details about various kinds of blowjobs because of how much I personally enjoy them. Rough and deep, slow and controlled, sloppy and slobbery, or a long, adoring cock worship. Hearing the hiss through his teeth, the deep intakes of breath, his groans, moans, and words of praise just make the whole thing that much more arousing for me.

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Oh, and his hands in my hair, holding it back for me, or using it to help guide my movements... lord yes! Being encouraged to go deep, gag and choke myself on him, not be afraid to have the drool running down my chin, all of that makes it so much better. But also, the use of the tongue! It can do so much teasing, massaging, tasting, feeling all without your entire mouth wrapped around him.

I will talk on the release and where/how I like to take it in another post. I will say though, swallowing or messes on me are both high on my list

This is my take on giving oral. I would love to speak on this. Not on giving/receiving for a woman, but specifically blowjobs. So, share what you like about it from a man's or woman's perspective... or imagery that conveys what you like. Anything explicit in image, remember to hide behind a link please!

Ok, here it goes.

None of the other senses are as involved as taste. Touch is feeling. Sight is seeing. Smell is about aroma.

The tongue is about taste yes, but so much more. It involves aroma. Also it involves touch. And all of it is pulled together in a pinprick of sensory delight or a glorious wide lapping of desire.

Oral can be so intimate and sensuous or it can be craven and wild. Once you involve taste you are completing a sensory maelstrom. Once you say "I've tasted you!", there's no more unknowing. You are known.

Now you can settle in for intensity. Your free to taste everything.

Go taste someone.

 

[Dayhoosier]

I may just spend my Friday rereading this over and over ..... Dear God! I miss it sooooo much. *Hissing through my teeth just reading this*

The laughing emoji is nice and I was joking but only partially lol

 

[Chloe_Harper]

The bottom line, for me, is that just like any other part of physical intimacy situations, it’s made better by a partner I trust, better if preferences and boundaries are already discussed, better by truly enjoying it as the provider, and better by a deep and meaningful connection. If these aspects are missing, it just isn’t going to be as great for me.

I love everything you said in your post. Getting to the bottom line, I wholeheartedly agree. I think being with a partner you trust elevates the experience tenfold.

I prefer to give slow and sloppy with lots of eye contact. But I'm not against taking direction if my partner wants something different...especially if he wants to tell me exactly what he wants me to do.

For myself (and I think a lot of women) giving a blowjob is the first "sex" they have (I don't know any woman whose first experience was receiving oral). I'd be curious how much those early experiences continue to color what we like or are comfortable doing later.

Thank you for your input on this topic! And welcome to the thread! Make sure you pay your gif tax as found on page one.

It's interesting that you mention most women's first sexual experience was giving man oral. I didn't realize for many years that that was more than just me. And then, to think about how that morphs our views of fellatio. Some girls hate doing it after feeling like they had to start their sexual experiences that way, others (like me) find themselves drawn to that act more and more.

I may just spend my Friday rereading this over and over ..... Dear God! I miss it sooooo much. *Hissing through my teeth just reading this*

I'm glad you're enjoying the read that much

Ok, here it goes.

None of the other senses are as involved as taste. Touch is feeling. Sight is seeing. Smell is about aroma.

The tongue is about taste yes, but so much more. It involves aroma. Also it involves touch. And all of it is pulled together in a pinprick of sensory delight or a glorious wide lapping of desire.

Oral can be so intimate and sensuous or it can be craven and wild. Once you involve taste you are completing a sensory maelstrom. Once you say "I've tasted you!", there's no more unknowing. You are known.

Now you can settle in for intensity. Your free to taste everything.

Go taste someone.

This is such an interesting take on what has been shared. The tongue definitely gets to be a part of more than one sensation, and perhaps that's why people are so attracted to tongues themselves. But, in giving pleasure, one of my favorite tools, more so than hands most of the time.

 

[velona]

Sorry about the gif tax! I’ve never posted one before, hope this works!

 

[Mittering]

This is such an interesting take on what has been shared.

Interesting takes on intimacy come easy to people with unrequited passion. They spend hours pining over it.

 

[barefootgirl69]

(I don't know any woman whose first experience was receiving oral).

Hi, I'm bfg.

 

[Strixaluco]

For myself (and I think a lot of women) giving a blowjob is the first "sex" they have (I don't know any woman whose first experience was receiving oral). I'd be curious how much those early experiences continue to color what we like or are comfortable doing later.

Receiving was first for me.

I'm not telling about that experience, other than I was pressured into it, and it destroyed receiving for me. It's a turn-off for me. I learned to like giving much later, though - the partner just has to be right.