Do you like being handled gently or roughly as you suck cock and do you like being debased or spoken to sweetly to while doing it?

The appeal of being debased grows on me. I think as my confidence in being a cocksucker and bottom grows so does my eagerness to be “abused”. A nice cock whipping before I can suck it would be fun. Multiple hand prints, red and stinging, on my ass would be fun too.
 
I am tolerant I guess you would say.

I think it is a much better blowjob when he lets me control the tempo, but there is a sense of pride when what I am doing for him makes him so passionate he gets overwhelmed and wants to just take over.

It is the same way with his words. Generally, I do not like being called foul words or names, but if its impossible for him not to hold back because the pleasure is so intense, while its not a turn-on for me, I can easily tolerate it in that context.
 
I like your take on it; if it pleases your partner, it's his/her choice and go along.
She is the top and she likes to be in control. I have found that it's better if I let her take charge so she has a good orgasm and gives me a big load down my throat or up my ass. It's her cum that I want.
 
How about you?
I think I get off more with the guy being more selfish and a little degrading- because I’m submissive that’s the turn on. I like feeling like a sexy slut pleasing this man and I like feeling slutty wearing panties while I’m sucking cock on my knees. It’s strange but me knowing I’m getting him off excites me so it really is my pleasure
 
I didn’t think I would ever be okay sucking a guys cock with multiple people in the room, I really would not have guessed I would be okay with the kind of talk I heard from them.

His girlfriend called me names as I sucked him off, even as he was cumming. Afterwards I remained naked in front of them, five people. It was awesome, it not so much in the moment.
 
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