As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[Escierto]

It might be best to think about these things when you're sure it's what you want, I suppose.

I think the difference was when I acted on my desires and I realized how happy and fulfilled I felt, then I could think about it. It was like crossing a line where before, thinking about it just made me more worried and afraid. The first time, I really did force myself almost against my will.

 

[Escierto]

I get that, you have these desires, you know they're "wrong". You finally say fuck it, it's not going away I'm going to do it, then you do, and you don't feel wrong, you feel right and suddenly relieved.

YES. That's exactly it.

 

[Sol41]

YES. That's exactly it.

Like a blockage has been cleared and suddenly you can flow freely.

 

[Escierto]

Like a blockage has been cleared and suddenly you can flow freely.

Yes, then suddenly a lot of things make sense.

 

[G8rman]

Definitely prefer a nice hard cock in my mouth over mine in a woman. Love making him hard and excited.

 

[JiminNC]

Definitely cock. I just can’t seem to get enough.

 

[JodyLynn]

I had male male sex a couple years before sex with a female. When available I preferred female but I wanted sex everyday and most days multiple times so when an opportunity presented itself male or female I tood it. I love women and love sex with either gender. In my 40's I was diagnosed as a sex addict. I'm 72 now and still desire both.

I have been diagnosed a lot of things but not a sex addict. Though I would be proud of that one. I believe sex, a physical connection should be enjoyed by all. Leave gender out of it. Woman as sexy, men are hot.

 

[UnderTheSnow]

I have been diagnosed a lot of things but not a sex addict. Though I would be proud of that one. I believe sex, a physical connection should be enjoyed by all. Leave gender out of it. Woman as sexy, men are hot.

Amen to that!

 

[klippert]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

I'm 55 Bi Married man. I far in away prefer women. When my buddy and I get together. Its a completely different NSA excitement.

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm 55 Bi Married man. I far in away prefer women. When my buddy and I get together. Its a completely different NSA excitement.

Hey klip! Haven't run into you on the threads in quite a while. How ya doin'?

 

[shewantsmore]

im bisexual i have been for so many years,i cant choose between genders i love both men and other women, why choose one over the other

 

[SmokingFap]

im bisexual i have been for so many years,i cant choose between genders i love both men and other women, why choose one over the other

Hi sexy! I'm sure there are many people like you, but it does seem that most people have at least a slight preference. It also seems to have something to do with whether they're looking for romantic encounters or just pure sex.

 

[Soccerfanpen21]

im bisexual i have been for so many years,i cant choose between genders i love both men and other women, why choose one over the other

Due to my age I can't say how many years I've enjoyed both but I heartily agree why choose one over the other or even one in between.

Hi sexy! I'm sure there are many people like you, but it does seem that most people have at least a slight preference. It also seems to have something to do with whether they're looking for romantic encounters or just pure sex.

I'm not ready to settle down romantically yet but sex is fun with all the different variations of partners.

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm not ready to settle down romantically yet but sex is fun with all the different variations of partners.

Frankly, I'd be shocked if you ever wanted to settle down... Soccerfanpen.

 

[Soccerfanpen21]

Frankly, I'd be shocked if you ever wanted to settle down... Soccerfanpen.

Some day maybe, the thought has crossed my mind a few times.

 

[SmokingFap]

Some day maybe, the thought has crossed my mind a few times.

I know, sweetheart. And I think I know who you would settle down with if you ever do. I actually hope that works out for you someday. Doesn't mean you have to be monogamous together, but I would love for you two to truly just BE together.

 

[shewantsmore]

I believe the Kinsey scale lays out the bi spectrum pretty well.

What is the kinsey scale ?

 

[shewantsmore]

Alfred Kinsey in the early to mid 1900's studied sexuality. Published alot of research and came up with a scale to grade sexuality with. Worth a Google search

I will do that now, thank you

 

[shewantsmore]

I will do that now, thank you

Took the test ,im bisexual, scored 3 , im equally heterosexual and homosexual, prefere lesbian than homosexual

 

[SmokingFap]

I also scored a 3

Thanks for bringing up Kinsey in this thread. Very interesting stuff. Can definitely help us understand ourselves better, as well as others.

 

[chapter6plan]

I think it depends on the power dynamic. I can be dom if you insist on being sub, but I'd rather be either equal or sub. The Mrs. refuses to be dom ... I think I'm currently responding by dreaming of being very submissive to a dominant male. In reality though, 50-50 power sharing might be my ideal. Then it would make little difference if my partner is a man or a woman. Grind on my face or fuck my throat ... it's all good!

 

[Newbilifegay]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

Right now I prefer men

 

[trinething1ns]

I am anywhere from 70/30 to 55/45 preferring women over men. Just depends on the day.

 

[lucy_anne21]

I probably go with men around 80% of the time, of which more than half will be experienced mature men. Around 20/% will be other women, if I’m in the right frame of mind of course. But, ohhh that 20/%…..

Lucy.

 

[ears1980]

Alfred Kinsey in the early to mid 1900's studied sexuality. Published alot of research and came up with a scale to grade sexuality with. Worth a Google search

Scored 3.