As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[Escierto]

The shorter guys I've known felt forced to be tough. First to get aggressive, but also the first to defend their friends. Big guys relied on size, but the littler guys knew how to scrap. That changed, though, if the guys were in martial arts. One of the guys I did kung fu with was smaller than me, and year over year, his scrappitude went calm. If you're ever in danger at night, pray for a calm short dude to show up.

Why yes, I do know kung fu. Also yes, the tits and ass have thrown off my balance a bit.

My sons are short guys but they prove the adage, "It's not the size of the dog in the fight that counts, it's the size of the fight in the dog!"

 

[subbyclarajane]

My sons are short guys but they prove the adage, "It's not the size of the dog in the fight that counts, it's the size of the fight in the dog!"

OMG I LOVE THIS! I HAVE TO GO FIND MEMES!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Quite true. There are tough short guys lol

They didn't have any trouble dominating and demeaning me, and not in the good way.

 

[SPARTAN047]

The shorter guys I've known felt forced to be tough. First to get aggressive, but also the first to defend their friends. Big guys relied on size, but the littler guys knew how to scrap. That changed, though, if the guys were in martial arts. One of the guys I did kung fu with was smaller than me, and year over year, his scrappitude went calm. If you're ever in danger at night, pray for a calm short dude to show up.

Why yes, I do know kung fu. Also yes, the tits and ass have thrown off my balance a bit.

Wow, nice! I've always wanted to learn how to fight because of bullying issues. I used to do a bit of taekwondo long ago but didn't get any belt. It was pointless.

Yes, it's true that a calm short dude is much more dangerous that even a calm tall fella. The stories I've heard about them would strike fear in anyone. Just look at the Gurkhas.

My sons are short guys but they prove the adage, "It's not the size of the dog in the fight that counts, it's the size of the fight in the dog!"

 

[subbyclarajane]

Wow, nice! I've always wanted to learn how to fight because of bullying issues. I used to do a bit of taekwondo long ago but didn't get any belt. It was pointless.

Yes, it's true that a calm short dude is much more dangerous that even a calm tall fella. The stories I've heard about them would strike fear in anyone. Just look at the Gurkhas.

Taekwondo is a sport. It might give you time to runaway, but it’s not going to suppress multiple attackers. I did it for about 3 months before I realized I wouldn’t feel any safer in the city at night. Did my research. Kung Fu got my allegiance.

 

[Jeph77]

I think uninhibited female feels much safer than uninhibited male. Never really understood that until I grew tits and started passing, especially after being followed to my car. A woman uninhibited feels like ecstasy. A man uninhibited feels... dangerous. And hey, danger is exciting as long as I trust him.

I think an uninhibited woman can be extremely dangerous. They have the power to rip families, even countries apart.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Taekwondo is a sport. It might give you time to runaway, but it’s not going to suppress multiple attackers. I did it for about 3 months before I realized I wouldn’t feel any safer in the city at night. Did my research. Kung Fu got my allegiance.

True. It's very easy to knock someone down while they're kicking. And I didn't get very far at all, I only learned a lot of kicks, blocks and some holds, but not any practical application of them. I don't think it counts.

I don't have the time to take up a martial art even as a sport now, but I'd love to learn specific types of kung fu such as wing chun, jeet kune do, xing yi quan and the one I want to learn the most, xingyi liuhe Quan due to its reputation, powerful strikes and the history it shares with my religion in China.

 

[HollyS]

I feel like your question was directed more toward men, but I'm happy to add my perspective.

For me, I think I am equally attracted to both genders in most ways. Women are beautiful, sensuous and sexy. Men are handsome, verile and sexy. I like having sex with both, and I would have a hard time choosing based on sex alone.

In my experience, I have never had a man eat my kitty like my favourite female partners have. Likewise, being fucked with a strap-on is not the same as a real cock. Soo, they are different, without a doubt!

All that said, I think it comes down to the person, really. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, so my behaviour is based on commitment to a person rather than a gender.

 

[subbyclarajane]

I feel like your question was directed more toward men, but I'm happy to add my perspective.

For me, I think I am equally attracted to both genders in most ways. Women are beautiful, sensuous and sexy. Men are handsome, verile and sexy. I like having sex with both, and I would have a hard time choosing based on sex alone.

In my experience, I have never had a man eat my kitty like my favourite female partners have. Likewise, being fucked with a strap-on is not the same as a real cock. Soo, they are different, without a doubt!

All that said, I think it comes down to the person, really. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, so my behaviour is based on commitment to a person rather than a gender.

Ugh. I thought so re: cock vs strap. The strap seems so impersonal. I wanna try the real deal.

 

[Escierto]

All that said, I think it comes down to the person, really. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, so my behaviour is based on commitment to a person rather than a gender.

Yes.

 

[subbyclarajane]

True. It's very easy to knock someone down while they're kicking. And I didn't get very far at all, I only learned a lot of kicks, blocks and some holds, but not any practical application of them. I don't think it counts.

I don't have the time to take up a martial art even as a sport now, but I'd love to learn specific types of kung fu such as wing chun, jeet kune do, xing yi quan and the one I want to learn the most, xingyi liuhe Quan due to its reputation, powerful strikes and the history it shares with my religion in China.

I learned a bastardization of many styles, drilled forms and white belt technique selected from close-combat and viable against several opponents at once. This was not a school where you could buy your test and get your next belt. We sat in white belts for YEARS repeating holds, blocks, and grapples, because street fights almost always go to the ground. The focus was immobilizing your opponent and maximizing pain with minimal risk of jail time. It was pretty intense (and I loved being a subordinate and having the black belts boss me around, heh).

 

[SPARTAN047]

I learned a bastardization of many styles, drilled forms and white belt technique selected from close-combat and viable against several opponents at once. This was not a school where you could buy your test and get your next belt. We sat in white belts for YEARS repeating holds, blocks, and grapples, because street fights almost always go to the ground. The focus was immobilizing your opponent and maximizing pain with minimal risk of jail time. It was pretty intense (and I loved being a subordinate and having the black belts boss me around, heh).

That makes a lot of sense. It's the same principle of JKD, pick what's best from any style and don't stick to one form.

Street fights definitely go that way. It's always best to immobilize your opponent with a lot of pain and it sounds like you learned an ultimate way of kung fu, not form, so good on you. I'll be late when I start with some free time, we'll see. Jail time is a big risk now and stupid when you're the one being beaten up when defending yourself.

I don't doubt you did, maybe I'll enjoy it too! I'm probably sort of the type of guy you described earlier, I might be more pushy out of the bedroom but extra submissive in it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

That's actually true. A cheating whore of a woman can destroy families and countries. Helen of Troy.

A cheating bastard of a man can do that but it'll really take screwing of a few million men's wives who don't want to swing for them to plan on putting him down.

 

[Sol41]

Tbh Im more attracted to masculine energy more than gender.

Thats why my waterfall primes when I see a muscle mommy. OwO

And she could cis or trans.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Considering I’ve only been with 1 guy, I still consider myself bi, because I want to enjoy sucking cock again so badly, saying that I love everything about a woman. I love my wife and always will be in love with her and looking at women in general. I don’t look at a guy in any sexual light. My only experience with a man fell into my lap, so unless it were to present itself again I’m ok.

 

[subbyclarajane]

Tbh Im more attracted to masculine energy more than gender.

Thats why my waterfall primes when I see a muscle mommy. OwO

And she could cis or trans.

Do you follow Body by Daddy on IG?

worth it.

 

[Sol41]

Do you follow Body by Daddy on IG?

worth it.

I dont have IG but I'll look into it!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Tbh Im more attracted to masculine energy more than gender.

Thats why my waterfall primes when I see a muscle mommy. OwO

And she could cis or trans.

Very well put. I don't think I'm attracted to masculine energy, or not too much. I love sweet feminine cis and trans girls much more in general.

However, I've seen plenty of muscle mommies who made me drool and almost get on my knees seeing their pictures. I'd do anything to please them so they'd fuck or dominate me. I'd lick their muscled biceps, asses and little tits all over. Cis or trans.

I do love male bodybuilders with six packs but that's aesthetic.

Am I confused? Am I attracted to slight androgyny or just someone who's feminine enough even if she has muscles? Am I both and just not able to admit it?

 

[Sol41]

Do you follow Body by Daddy on IG?

worth it.

I dont have IG but I'll look into it

Very well put. I don't think I'm attracted to masculine energy, or not too much. I love sweet feminine cis and trans girls much more in general.

However, I've seen plenty of muscle mommies who made me drool and almost get on my knees seeing their pictures. I'd do anything to please them so they'd fuck or dominate me. I'd lick their muscled biceps, asses and little tits all over. Cis or trans.

I do love male bodybuilders with six packs but that's aesthetic.

Am I confused? Am I attracted to slight androgyny or just someone who's feminine enough even if she has muscles? Am I both and just not able to admit it?

Or maybe gender and orientation is a fuck and we should all just enjoy the ride rather than catogorize everything.
(Not aimed at you, Im just thinking out loud.)

 

[Escierto]

These last few posts are intriguing. I am very attracted to my girlfriend because she presents feminine and beautiful. To me, she is a woman, how she looks, how she moves, how she talks. When I am with her, I never think she is a man imitating a woman. She IS a woman.

OTOH, sexually she is definitely masculine. She doesn't take hormones so her natural testosterone seems to govern her in that way. When we have sex, she has sex like a man, a selfish man who only cares about her own pleasure. Which strangely enough, is very fulfilling to me in satisfying her desires.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I dont have IG but I'll look into it

Or maybe gender and orientation is a fuck and we should all just enjoy the ride rather than catogorize everything.
(Not aimed at you, Im just thinking out loud.)

Yes, I get you. Sometimes it's better not to overthink our desires and just fulfill them by fucking around and finding out.

When you're suddenly having post nut clarity after fucking a muscle mommy or getting fucked by her, you feel a little slutty and start asking yourself these questions though. Maybe to feel better about being used.

 

[Sol41]

Yes, I get you. Sometimes it's better not to overthink our desires and just fulfill them by fucking around and finding out.

When you're suddenly having post nut clarity after fucking a muscle mommy or getting fucked by her, you feel a little slutty and start asking yourself these questions though. Maybe to feel better about being used.

Well we as humans tend towards a need or desire to sort things out, but I feel modern technology has made it outright crippling. Ill take this to DM's so as not to clutter the thread with my yammering

 

[Escierto]

Yes, I get you. Sometimes it's better not to overthink our desires and just fulfill them by fucking around and finding out.

When you're suddenly having post nut clarity after fucking a muscle mommy or getting fucked by her, you feel a little slutty and start asking yourself these questions though. Maybe to feel better about being used.

When I had these desires, I really didn't think about them. I was actually afraid of them so thinking about the motivation behind them probably would have made things worse. Now I can actually have some clarity about them and it's ok.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Well we as humans tend towards a need or desire to sort things out, but I feel modern technology has made it outright crippling. Ill take this to DM's so as not to clutter the thread with my yammering

NP, I suppose I was nattering too.

 

[SPARTAN047]

When I had these desires, I really didn't think about them. I was actually afraid of them so thinking about the motivation behind them probably would have made things worse. Now I can actually have some clarity about them and it's ok.

It might be best to think about these things when you're sure it's what you want, I suppose.