Cheated-on husbands and boyfriends

[Kolejdayz]

Well she liked to explore. We tried a lot of new things from exhibitionism, water play, mutual masturbation, pegging, dildos, 3person.

I basically did whatever she desired and still would for the right one. She’s still in Japan I’m back in the uk

Are you Japanese? I have only been with one Japanese woman

 

[Japansurfer]

Are you Japanese? I have only been with one Japanese woman

I’m English. Lived in Japan for 12 years. Back in England now as I mentioned

 

[Kolejdayz]

How did you find Japanese girls (I'm English originally but have lived in the US most of my life)

 

[Japansurfer]

How did you find Japanese girls (I'm English originally but have lived in the US most of my life)

Living there it is normal. Just like a British girl in uk

 

[Kolejdayz]

I see

 

[Scotchlander]

When I worked away from home, I was cheated on lots of times by g/f’s

I just wish they had been honest with me. Instead I found out from others and they all lied and lied.

I don’t do lies, so these g/f’s got dumped

 

[Kolejdayz]

If they had been honest would that have turned you on

 

[Scotchlander]

If they had been honest would that have turned you on

Yes of course. We all mess up and I have too. But to lie through their teeth, you know they cannot be trusted, ever.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Yes of course. We all mess up and I have too. But to lie through their teeth, you know they cannot be trusted, ever.

And perversely lack of trust can be a turn on too

 

[Swuchrow]

If they had been honest would that have turned you on

Being lied to or being truthful can both be a turn on.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I had a lying cheating girlfriend once and couldn't stop fantasizing about her with another guy inside her

 

[Swuchrow]

I had a lying cheating girlfriend once and couldn't stop fantasizing about her with another guy inside her

My wife has a bf. When we fuck or she sucks my cock I love to think how she performs for him.

 

[peruchica]

I cheated on my husband quite a bit early on in our relationship. Of course, I kept it all under wraps. Years later, I realized that he actually found the idea of me cheating on him hot, so I told him about all of my fun from back in the day and he absolutely loved it. We've had an open relationship for most of our relationship, but we do integrate that cheating kink into our lifestyle from time to time.

 

[whenagain]

I cheated on my husband quite a bit early on in our relationship. Of course, I kept it all under wraps. Years later, I realized that he actually found the idea of me cheating on him hot, so I told him about all of my fun from back in the day and he absolutely loved it. We've had an open relationship for most of our relationship, but we do integrate that cheating kink into our lifestyle from time to time.

How did you find out he found it hot?

 

[Nellie60]

I had a lying cheating girlfriend once and couldn't stop fantasizing about her with another guy inside her

Same I still fantasise about an ex having an an affair when I followed her without her knowledge and witnessed her working on another man's cock.

 

[Nellie60]

My wife has a bf. When we fuck or she sucks my cock I love to think how she performs for him.

This is part of my pleasure. When she touches me, I imagine her touching her previous boyfriends and I am now enjoying it!

 

[Kolejdayz]

Same I still fantasise about an ex having an an affair when I followed her without her knowledge and witnessed her working on another man's cock.

It was the fantasy above all -- I can't say that I really know what happened

 

[Kolejdayz]

I cheated on my husband quite a bit early on in our relationship. Of course, I kept it all under wraps. Years later, I realized that he actually found the idea of me cheating on him hot, so I told him about all of my fun from back in the day and he absolutely loved it. We've had an open relationship for most of our relationship, but we do integrate that cheating kink into our lifestyle from time to time.

I can understand that -- I have enjoyed it too. I wonder if there are special men who wives and girlfriends can confess to?

 

[JR284]

I had fantasized about my wife being with other men early on in our relationship, but it was always in some kind of ethical non-monogamous type of situation. I never mentioned it to her though since she never struck me as the type that would be into something like that. A couple of years into our relationship so, I discovered that she had been cheating on me and it was a massive turn on. Obviously, it wasn't the way I had fantasized, but there was something about her doing it behind my back with multiple men, that made it even hotter. That's what really sparked our eventual entry into non-monogamy which we enjoy to this day.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I had fantasized about my wife being with other men early on in our relationship, but it was always in some kind of ethical non-monogamous type of situation. I never mentioned it to her though since she never struck me as the type that would be into something like that. A couple of years into our relationship so, I discovered that she had been cheating on me and it was a massive turn on. Obviously, it wasn't the way I had fantasized, but there was something about her doing it behind my back with multiple men, that made it even hotter. That's what really sparked our eventual entry into non-monogamy which we enjoy to this day.

Yes I have had that experience with wives and one particular girlfriend

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Yes I have had that experience with wives and one particular girlfriend

I had fantasized about my wife being with other men early on in our relationship, but it was always in some kind of ethical non-monogamous type of situation. I never mentioned it to her though since she never struck me as the type that would be into something like that. A couple of years into our relationship so, I discovered that she had been cheating on me and it was a massive turn on. Obviously, it wasn't the way I had fantasized, but there was something about her doing it behind my back with multiple men, that made it even hotter. That's what really sparked our eventual entry into non-monogamy which we enjoy to this day.

That was my spark too - finding out that my loving wife of 20+ years, my high school sweetheart, mother of my children, had been getting the shit fucked out of her behind my back for years by a good looking, horse-hung single stud who works for her company in another part of the country. I was totally shocked at first, hurt, incredibly angry, but once those feelings started to fade the whole thing turned around 180 degrees and became this intense, humiliating turn-on for me. Now she plays with my knowledge and encouragement.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Is your wife really hot?

 

[peruchica]

How did you find out he found it hot?

There was a couple that we were friends with who broke up because the wife had cheated on the husband. My husband started making comments about how even though it sucks, he also found it kind of hot and would start asking me if I ever had a little thing on the side. He would get really turned on talking about it so it became clear that it was a turn on for him.

 

[bps]

I'd never downplay how traumatic it was, but we worked through it together and after a few years of processing and open, honest discussion I was able to forgive her and restore trust, which allowed me to get past the negative aspects of her betrayal and opened the door to focusing on the intense eroticism of her sexual (mis)conduct. No shame for me, no guilt for her. She knows very well how much it turns me on and we're able to enjoy it together. Counterintuitively, the whole experience has brought us closer and strengthened our relationship.

I’ve experienced some of that kind of thing with my wife, though the instances of infidelity in her case happened many decades ago, and also many years before we married.

I wonder how you enjoy it together.

Do you think you’d wish for her to cuckold you in a consensual way…today?

 

[Cardinal]

Years ago my wife accused me of cheating because an ex and I had texted and DM’d, on my part there was zero emotional connection and because we lived in different time zones there was definitely no physical connection, just chatting.
My wife couldn’t get over it, we went to counseling and I eventually got to the point where I told the counselor that maybe she should “get even with me” by cheating or sleeping with someone else. It got to the point that I literally didn’t care! Make it make sense”even” then let’s move on together.
That was the first time I knew I could handle her fucking someone else and I would be okay with it.
I know it sounds fucked up but that’s the truth