Sex & Shenanigans

[SalaciousMonkey22]

You've never been turned on by lingerie or something your wife or girlfriend wore? I get that there's a person inside that thing that's at the core of the turn-on, but the thing is contributing to the effect.

The desire to present themselves in a particular way is the turn on. Not whatever thing they use to do so. The attraction is always and only for the person.

 

[MrMakersMark]

You've never been turned on by lingerie or something your wife or girlfriend wore? I get that there's a person inside that thing that's at the core of the turn-on, but the thing is contributing to the effect.

I think you logically seperate.

If I see lingerie lying on a bed with no person in it, I become inquisitive. An eyebrow raises.

Put her in it, everything changes

So its not the "thing".
It's her.

 

[MissLabelled]

I don’t know that I’ve ever been turned on by a thing?

Nope.

I've nothing to add.
These are correct answers.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

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[MrMakersMark]

Clive could fucking write, Man.

 

[MissLabelled]

OMG that turned me on!

 

[vagrantx]

What is a non-sexual item / object that for some reason you find sexual?

Non-sexual? There's nothing hotter than a woman with a mic or an instrument who knows how to use it! Literally makes me go weak at the knees. Like Brody Dalle... god fffff....

https://www.nme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/GettyImages-454090190_brody_dalle_new_album_1000.jpg

What type of sexual aids have you used in your sexual adventures … this can be toys, equipment, wearable stuffs, etc ..??

Pretty much every kind of dildo and vibrator and clit-sucker you can think of. A fucking-machine. Tried a sybian at a faire once. Want! So expensive... Ropes, chains, straps, handcuffs... Whips, paddles, even a cattle-prod once! That was intense. I have a couple of electro-stim toys that are really fun! Suction cups, nipple pumps, so many ball-gags.

I'm not into lingerie at all, actually, and clothes aren't really something I find particularly sexy - stylish fits are attractive, sure, but it doesn't turn me on per se.

I could probably go on but I'll cut myself short

 

[MisterAlice]

So she takes off the lingerie, you see it on the bed, and you guys have no thoughts on it? You don't feel any differently, any arousal over that thing compared to, say, a clown suit she may have worn also? Both the lingerie and the clown suit are things, but they elicit different responses even though they were both worn by the same person (assuming you guys don't have clown fetishes, which if you do -- I'm not judging!).

 

[MissLabelled]

Non-sexual? There's nothing hotter than a woman with a mic or an instrument who knows how to use it! Literally makes me go weak at the knees. Like Brody Dalle... god fffff....

https://www.nme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/GettyImages-454090190_brody_dalle_new_album_1000.jpg


Pretty much every kind of dildo and vibrator and clit-sucker you can think of. A fucking-machine. Tried a sybian at a faire once. Want! So expensive... Ropes, chains, straps, handcuffs... Whips, paddles, even a cattle-prod once! That was intense. I have a couple of electro-stim toys that are really fun! Suction cups, nipple pumps, so many ball-gags.

I'm not into lingerie at all, actually, and clothes aren't really something I find particularly sexy - stylish fits are attractive, sure, but it doesn't turn me on per se.

I could probably go on but I'll cut myself short

Please, go on!

 

[MrMakersMark]

So she takes off the lingerie, you see it on the bed, and you guys have no thoughts on it? You don't feel any differently, any arousal over that thing compared to, say, a clown suit she may have worn also? Both the lingerie and the clown suit are things, but they elicit different responses even though they were both worn by the same person (assuming you guys don't have clown fetishes, which if you do -- I'm not judging!).

No.
If she isn't in it, then its just a thing.

It's a Pancakes association.
Tasty! Sweet! Yum. Not arousing.

But if I see them being made while she's wearing my Johnny Cash T-Shirt and Panties?

Trouble inbound.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

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Reminds me of California’s concrete titties

Well you see, there was this small statue of the Virgin Mary ...

Mmmmm sacrilicious.

 

[MisterAlice]

On another note, I put down Barker's Hellbound Heart, the book Hellraiser was based on, and never picked it back up after that one particularly awful scene where a naked demon used a coughed-up lump of phlegm to masturbate with. I like reading horror but that was way too much even for me.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Clive could fucking write, Man.

Horror novels ain’t generally my thing and I don’t know that I’m either queer enough nor uncomfortable enough in my body to really get him. But I like what I have read.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Non-sexual? There's nothing hotter than a woman with a mic or an instrument who knows how to use it! Literally makes me go weak at the knees. Like Brody Dalle... god fffff....

https://www.nme.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/GettyImages-454090190_brody_dalle_new_album_1000.jpg


Pretty much every kind of dildo and vibrator and clit-sucker you can think of. A fucking-machine. Tried a sybian at a faire once. Want! So expensive... Ropes, chains, straps, handcuffs... Whips, paddles, even a cattle-prod once! That was intense. I have a couple of electro-stim toys that are really fun! Suction cups, nipple pumps, so many ball-gags.

I'm not into lingerie at all, actually, and clothes aren't really something I find particularly sexy - stylish fits are attractive, sure, but it doesn't turn me on per se.

I could probably go on but I'll cut myself short

Brody is so fucking hot.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

It's a good day for coloring...

 

[vagrantx]

So she takes off the lingerie, you see it on the bed, and you guys have no thoughts on it? You don't feel any differently, any arousal over that thing compared to, say, a clown suit she may have worn also?

I mean there are items that are turn-offs, sure, but it's like a negative scale where it tops out at 0. I have the same response to an old comfy sports-bra as I do to some fancy lacy thing. I just wanna rip it off

A clown-suit in the bedroom would be a massive no-go, but, if the person is actually a skilled clown and we'd met at the circus or something, then knowing they're doing something they probably love is massively attractive!

Please, go on!

Inflatable dildos are really exciting! Feeling something grow inside you is such an odd, hot feeling Tried needle-play once, wasn't my thing but my then-partner got really turned on by it. They were super thin, like acupuncture ones, so it didn't hurt at all which is why I was okay with it. No blood. Blood is a super turn off.

Candles and wax! Literally hot!

Brody is so fucking hot.

SO. FUCKING. HOT! Preach!

 

[MissLabelled]

Horror novels ain’t generally my thing and I don’t know that I’m either queer enough nor uncomfortable enough in my body to really get him. But I like what I have read.

But on that note, there is nothing that Camus, or any other writer may have written that has ever given you a twinge of arousal?

Ever?

Poems are a thing.

 

[MrMakersMark]

Horror novels ain’t generally my thing and I don’t know that I’m either queer enough nor uncomfortable enough in my body to really get him. But I like what I have read.

Same.
But some of his lines weigh a ton.

"Your suffering will be legendary, even in hell."

That would have to be some pretty epic suffering.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I've nothing to add.
These are correct answers.

Don’t agree with him!!!

 

[MrMakersMark]

On another note, I put down Barker's Hellbound Heart, the book Hellraiser was based on, and never picked it back up after that one particularly awful scene where a naked demon used a coughed-up lump of phlegm to masturbate with. I like reading horror but that was way too much even for me.

Oh yeah, totally bent.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Thought I'd pop in and ruin Christmas carols for everyone. You are welcome

This one will never be the same forever after

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Welcome to 2 years ago on TikTok.

 

[MisterAlice]

Clive Barker is a great writer. His Books of Blood series of short stories are really great. Forbidden, the short story Candyman is based on, is in the fifth one.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

But on that note, there is nothing that Camus, or any other writer may have written that has ever given you a twinge of arousal?

Ever?

Poems are a thing.

Written words can certainly elicit an emotional response, even a sexual one (see site name). But it’s not really the words that are the thing, nor do I think it’s really the spirit of the question? I don’t want to fuck any words. But plenty of words make me want to fuck a person.

 

[SWR101]

Ok shenanigang … let’s get weird today.


What is a non-sexual item / object that for some reason you find sexual?

What type of sexual aids have you used in your sexual adventures … this can be toys, equipment, wearable stuffs, etc ..??

1: tunnels, i guess my juvenile mind still goes “car goes in hole…”

2: cock rings, fleshlight, various vibes and rabbits, and a prostate massager

 

[MrMakersMark]

Written words can certainly elicit an emotional response, even a sexual one (see site name). But it’s not really the words that are the thing, nor do I think it’s really the spirit of the question? I don’t want to fuck any words. But plenty of words make me want to fuck a person.

Precisely.
A person has to be involved or it's not arousing.

So its never the "thing" or "object".
That's just a tool box.