Cheated-on husbands and boyfriends

my 61YO catholic wife had been faithful for most of our marriage. she was a virgin when we got married and, until about 4 years or so ago, i believe that she had never even seen or touched another man's cock.

My wife is very involved with our local catholic church and our diocese. She is on the parish's board of trustees and various diocese committees, she gets involved with different church ministries, she teaches religious education to teenagers and the like. She also started a Bible study group.

A few years back, we started to have some issues with our marriage, at the same time that my wife's sex drive started to increase dramatically. this was also the time that she was studying for her masters in theology, so i assume that younger guys were hitting on her at her classes and that triggered her sex drive. my wife told me that she needed counseling to cope with the situation and started going to our parish priest for counseling. she ended up sleeping with the priest behind my back for about 6 months or so.

The guy she is fucking now is a younger stay at home husband in her Bible study group. she has been bending over for him for around 4 years now. She has no idea that i know about either of her affairs. But I jerk off constantly just thinking about her cheating on me.
 
I guess you either work your way through it, or not. She either stops cheating, or doesn’t. If she stops, you’ll probably always wonder if she’s really stopped. And you may spend quite a bit of time thinking about what she did ….. If she doesn’t stop then you either walk away (as I did) or you accept it and it becomes a part of your arrangement. In that case you might even embrace it. It can be quite erotic ….
 
I became aware of my ex-wife's cheating on me for multiple times. First time I became aware of her cheat was 3 years after the marriage. One of my friend whom is also my best man at our wedding told me she had a foursome with three gigolos while she was stimulant-induced on her bachelorette night. How does he know? He ended up marrying one of the girl that went. One night they were talking and drinking at home; a topic about me came up and she slipped. On this incident i called it fair game since it's before the real wedding and we were already into swinging lifestyle by the time he told me. I have seen she did much more since. She is a party animal and also a groupie. She has very high libido and did a lot of ONS when she was younger. I am aware of her past before marrying her.

However I kept what my friend told me at the back of my mind since. We have put on this strict rules of no sex behind the partner's back. Every couples in our swing circle have the same rule in place. This went on OK for about 5 years. A year before our divorce, wife of one couple told me that my wife was fucking with her husband without my knowledge. I talked to her and ended it immediately but the next month same thing happened. So as the month after.

I had no idea on how to stop her anymore. I made sure I gave her enough satisfaction at home on top of the swinging sessions yet she still goes beyond my back. So i came up with a plan to give her the gangbang of her life. Our swing circle has a gathering once a year. We would rent huge air bnb for a few days and swap whenever. I told all the men (8 total) before the date that they can use my wife as much as they please. No holes barred. I have never seen her get fucked so much in those 3 days.

About a month following the event, I told her it was my plan for her to be targeted for the event. After that we kinda fall apart. But I still masturbate to it from time to time.
 
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My x would sometimes go out after work and not come home until some time after midnight. She would never admit fucking others but she wouldn’t let me near her pussy on those nights. One night while she was out I was sitting out back naked and started stroking just imagining what she was up to. I had an incredibly strong orgasm.
it wasn't until after the first time my cousin and I tag teamed my wife that she finally admitted that all my suspensions of her cheating that she denied over the years were true
 
In my 30s I had a long distance relationship with a girl named Cheryl who cheated on me with her ex. I found out because I became friendly with her neighbors when I would visit. They were a married couple and the husband felt bad for me and sent me an email telling me what she was doing.

When I confronted her she admitted it but said that it didn't mean anything. She said that they were "just friends who occasionally had sex". She said it was just sex and because she and I only saw each other once or twice a month she needed it. After that we kind of split up but we kept talking on the phone almost every day. Everytime we talked it ended as phone sex with both of us playing with ourselves. That led to some wild exchanges where she would tell me in detail about her trysts with Chauncy. Apparently he had a big dick and fucked her better than anyone ever had and for whatever reason I got off hearing about it. Eventually we got back together, with an understanding that she could fuck Chauncy and she agreed to tell me about it. That lasted for almost a year, then Chauncy got engaged to another girl and he stopped fucking her. A few months later we split up and she moved from Boston to Florida. I have been married for fifteen years and my wife is totally faithful but I fantasize about her cheating on me.
 
it wasn't until after the first time my cousin and I tag teamed my wife that she finally admitted that all my suspensions of her cheating that she denied over the years were true
Were you aroused by finally hearing her admit to it?
 
About a month following the event, I told her it was my plan for her to be targeted for the event. After that we kinda fall apart. But I still masturbate to it from time to time.
Looks kinda like you took her "thrill" away. She liked being bad and part of that was doing all of this behind not only your back but others in the group.

That could be bad juju.
 
I'm a mature married man who found out years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly while traveling on business. At least three coworkers of hers, one was a tall, good-looking single stud, ex college football player with a huge cock and (apparently) incredible sexual skills who she saw 3-5 times a year for 10 years before I found out. l was shocked, hurt, very angry at first, but we stayed together and over time her cheating became an intense turn-on for me. Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually and enjoys chatting about female infidelity and cuckoldry.
My wife has also cheated on me, and like you, I was hurt, and a bit angry, after she refused to end the affair, but we have stayed together, and I have become very much addicted to the whole idea of female infidelity, cuckoldry and hotwifing.
 
I'm a mature married man who found out years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly while traveling on business. At least three coworkers of hers, one was a tall, good-looking single stud, ex college football player with a huge cock and (apparently) incredible sexual skills who she saw 3-5 times a year for 10 years before I found out. l was shocked, hurt, very angry at first, but we stayed together and over time her cheating became an intense turn-on for me. Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually and enjoys chatting about female infidelity and cuckoldry.
No not me probably because I'm a tall good looking ex football player with ( definatly) incredible sexual skills.
Thanks for your permission and support
 
I'm a mature married man who found out years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly while traveling on business. At least three coworkers of hers, one was a tall, good-looking single stud, ex college football player with a huge cock and (apparently) incredible sexual skills who she saw 3-5 times a year for 10 years before I found out. l was shocked, hurt, very angry at first, but we stayed together and over time her cheating became an intense turn-on for me. Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually and enjoys chatting about female infidelity and cuckoldry.
Damn hot post. I would love to chat with other guys who have been cheated on and had mixed reactions. I like to call it "The Burn". Like holding your hand over a flame. Thats when your asking her for details. It gets HOT !!! Lol. [redacted]
 
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The first time my wife and I broke up was because she cheated on me. After we broke up though, I found myself constantly thinking about her cheating and my imagination drove me crazy. As angry and her as I was, I also found myself constantly turned on by it. We ended up reconciling and eventually I couldn't help but ask her about the details of her cheating. It became a massive turn-on for me and eventually, when she cheated on me again, it only solidified how much I enjoyed it and wanted it.
 
My wife has also cheated on me, and like you, I was hurt, and a bit angry, after she refused to end the affair, but we have stayed together, and I have become very much addicted to the whole idea of female infidelity, cuckoldry and hotwifing.
Do you think she knew you were turned on by this? With her refusing to end the affair? I was in a situation where the married woman I was seeing refused to end it as well to her husband and basically gave him a choice to stay and be ok with it or leave. He decided to accept it and is now a full blown cuckold. Its like she knew about his desires before he did..
 
My wife travels every two weeks to fuck her bf. She says she is visiting her sister. We share find a friend app so I clearly see where she goes. When she comes home she immediately washes her clothes and showers. I have confronted her but she denies. After I approached her she turned off her find a friend app. I even said it was okay but she continues to deny.
Happened to me a couple of times with two different ex girlfriends. First one I actually followed her to national park and caught her.

The other was break-up and her going straight into a relationship with with a close friend. That was most devastating for me at the time.
 
I think if your wife is attractive and has had much pre-marriage sex, the marriage naturally opens up
 
My ex cheated on me. Broke me and I expressed my frustration by submitting to a friend I met through a sex site. Took me down a very interesting path.
 
One of the best things that ever happened to our marriage was when my wife cheated. She developed an attraction to another man. He ended up taking her to a hotel and fucked her! That was Step 1 to getting to the hotwife relationship we enjoy today.

Since it was a cheating situation, my wife is too coy to give me any details. But I’ve still fantasized and masturbated about what happened in that hotel room. They make out a bit. Clothes start coming off. He unsnaps her bra. Stimulates her nipples. She sucks his cock. He slides off her panties. Licks her pussy. They get into a 69. Then he fucks her!!
 
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Well she liked to explore. We tried a lot of new things from exhibitionism, water play, mutual masturbation, pegging, dildos, 3person.

I basically did whatever she desired and still would for the right one. She’s still in Japan I’m back in the uk
 
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