Oral fixations- fingers, thumbs and more

cascadiabound

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Let's talk about oral fixations. Why do you like pushing a thumb or finger into your lover's mouth? Why do you think you go weak in the knees when your lover invades your oral cavity? How does it make you feel?

I love the intimacy of having his thumb (or fingers) in my mouth... the way his invasion of my oral cavity exudes control and immediately pushes on my submissive buttons.

It's an erogenous zone
It's sexy as fuck
It implies his ownership of all other orifices
It reminds me viscerally that my mouth is his
.... to kiss
.... to fuck with his fingers, cock, toys
.... to gag and to train
.... to use for his pleasure and mine


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I love every element in this image... but his fingers pushing into her mouth, that heavy ring on the verge of pushing against her tender lower lips amplifies the other elements.

His firm grip on her ponytail means she can't pull away from his probing fingers.
The wide collar wrapped around her throat means that her attempts to accommodate his fingers as she swallow hard, as he pushes into her throat beginning to gag her will absolutely amplify her submission. Is he murmuring to her... telling her that he is going to train her to take his cock? Encouraging her... you're doing fine baby darling... take my fingers... just think of my cock. I want to turn you into my perfect little cock sucking slut...."

And the CMnf.... as he pushes her to her knees. His fingers pushing and thrusting until she is gagging and drooling on herself.
He loves when she submits to him. When there is nothing in the world but him and his fingers in her mouth. Her brain unable to think or process... just reacting. Just submitting. Just determined to please him.
As he owns her with his fingers... he owns every part of her.
 
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I love every element in this image... but his fingers pushing into her mouth, that heavy ring on the verge of pushing against her tender lower lips amplifies the other elements.

His firm grip on her ponytail means she can't pull away from his probing fingers.
The wide collar wrapped around her throat means that her attempts to accommodate his fingers as she swallow hard, as he pushes into her throat beginning to gag her will absolutely amplify her submission. Is he murmuring to her... telling her that he is going to train her to take his cock? Encouraging her... you're doing fine baby darling... take my fingers... just think of my cock. I want to turn you into my perfect little cock sucking slut...."

And the CMnf.... as he pushes her to her knees. His fingers pushing and thrusting until she is gagging and drooling on herself.
He loves when she submits to him. When there is nothing in the world but him and his fingers in her mouth. Her brain unable to think or process... just reacting. Just submitting. Just determined to please him.
As he owns her with his fingers... he owns every part of her.
And though her eyes are closed … this photo absolutely captures a sense of focus and perhaps concentration to the task at hand.

What an evocative image.
 
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What about gags? How do they fit into oral fixation?

They definitely are part of it for me. Having my mouth full of a ball gag because he likes that extra level of control sometimes. I have such mixed feelings about being gagged.
In some ways I love it. I love that having my mouth full and starting to get sore from being forced open to accommodate the gag deeply reinforces the control/the power dynamic/my willing submission.

I love that with the gag he has taken control of my mouth. And he has taken away my voice - reducing me to moans and whimpers, as I start to drool around the gag - which is weirdly sexy while simultaneously humiliating.

In this image she seems deep into subspace - her head tipped back, her body seemingly relaxed within a leather strap garment of some kind in combination with a rope chest harness.

For me a gag is all about control and denial. I'm denied my voice, I'm denied the opportunity to kiss and lick him. I'm denied the opportunity to give him my oral servitude. He controls all of the when and what.

The flip side is that when he removes the gag, I will so happily and gratefully give him my mouth for kisses, for finger sucking, for teasing and licking his skin, for licking, sucking and pleasing his cock.

Use a gag on me. Watch how it makes me squirm. How it pushes me into subspace. Hear how I moan your name around it.
 
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"On nights like this, I can think of nothing more enticing than you kneeling before me with my thumb in your mouth. Your eyes meet mine and without a word, they plead for me to replace my thumb with my sex."

YES. Exactly this. ❤️
 
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Gag in place as he uses his thumb to caress my upper lip. Her submission here is payable and so beautiful. Her mouth is his to fill, quiet, caress, own. There is something so peaceful about surrendering to all that. To voluntarily give up all speech.

No arguing, no trying to tell him what I want, no verbalizing fantasies or begging. In the way that a good effective spanking clears my busy brain from all those anxious thoughts, being gagged forces me to just submit. Wipes away the need to speak, to find the right words.

So all that is left is his will. His words. His desire to drown you in pleasure and consume you in his.
 
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What about gags? How do they fit into oral fixation?

They definitely are part of it for me. Having my mouth full of a ball gag because he likes that extra level of control sometimes. I have such mixed feelings about being gagged.
In some ways I love it. I love that having my mouth full and starting to get sore from being forced open to accommodate the gag deeply reinforces the control/the power dynamic/my willing submission.

I love that with the gag he has taken control of my mouth. And he has taken away my voice - reducing me to moans and whimpers, as I start to drool around the gag - which is weirdly sexy while simultaneously humiliating.

In this image she seems deep into subspace - her head tipped back, her body seemingly relaxed within a leather strap garment of some kind in combination with a rope chest harness.

For me a gag is all about control and denial. I'm denied my voice, I'm denied the opportunity to kiss and lick him. I'm denied the opportunity to give him my oral servitude. He controls all of the when and what.

The flip side is that when he removes the gag, I will so happily and gratefully give him my mouth for kisses, for finger sucking, for teasing and licking his skin, for licking, sucking and pleasing his cock.

Use a gag on me. Watch how it makes me squirm. How it pushes me into subspace. Hear how I moan your name around it.
I could not understand gags - until my Goddess used one on me...
 
There was a gif on my BDSMlr once, where a little had a pacifier in her mouth, then her Daddy gently removed it and replaced it with his cock. (Sorry, guys, I'm too lazy to go look for it and find it now.) I've been wanting to replicate that gif with my Daddy ever since.

*off to Google adult-sized pacis*
 
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