Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Spoogecup]

Me too honey

OMG thanks hun.... I'm glad you know that feeling !

 

[AvgMan9000]

I am bisexual. When I am with a man, I am a total bottom and I don't feel feminine in the least. My entire point is to please my partner. Doing that does not diminish my masculinity.

 

[Spoogecup]

Me too honey

 

[Spoogecup]

I was bottoming in my teens and early twenties. I usually didn't get hard. I would push my ass out and moan more like a girl. The older guy I was with was hairy and I was mostly smooth because I don't grow body hair well. He called me bitch or baby and that kind of put me in a feminine place. That and leaning over the back of his couch and him slamming his cock in my ass.

It was WAY latter in life for me but the scenario was the same... I'd sucked him first once before but this time he decided to fuck me as well (later he told me he had planned to fuck me the first time but forgot to bring the lube)... He held my hips firmly as he put me on all 4s and positioned me as he wanted for his entry... He began slapping his hard cock against my butt cheeks and rubbing the head against my pussy... I felt something happing inside me big time.... When he started rubbing and slapping my butt check and told me I have a nice ass, I quivered inside like never before and started leaking a little from my totally soft, sunken little clitty dicklet... When he had penetrated almost his full length, he had wrapped his forearm around my waist and finally moved it to around my neck.... I was noticeably quivering and he definitely noticed and seemed to enjoy it... He kept asking me: "You like that big dick don't you ?"... I squeaked out "Yes I do...Yes I do".... He called me hun and babe when he spoke to me... I NEVER thought I could love cock that much !....

 

[Spoogecup]

Me too honey

That's SO reassuring to me sweetie.... that I'm not the only faggot that admits to having known the feeling !

 

[Spoogecup]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

For me, feeling feminine while he's fucking me accounts for the lion's share of the pleasure I receive taking cock... I answer to whatever he calls me: bitch, gurl, sissy, hun, slut, cunt, etc. He knows how it effects me and that excites me even more...

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

It's been a while since I posted on this thread, but I've been following it. It seems like a majority of the posts are from those who do feel feminine while being fucked. It also seems that they are mostly or exclusively bottoms. Now the psychology of being mostly or exclusively bottom is foreign to me, so I can't relate to that.

I'm top/versatile and I rarely bottom. It takes a certain combination of circumstances, both mental and physical, to get me in the right frame of mind to bottom, and when I do, there's not the slightest sense of being feminine. I just get the urge to feel a cock in my ass, to feel the pounding against my prostate, to get the incredible orgasm that results from that.

I'm curious to know if there are other like-minded top/versatile men who have similar thought processes to me. Or if there are men who are mostly or exclusively bottom who do not feel feminine when being fucked. There seems to be a very different psychology going on, and it fascinates me.

 

[cdstefi]

I've honestly not had a lot of experience, but enough to know that when I'm with a guy it's totally male-on-male (even if we're both dressed in lingerie).

I get quite verbal during sex, and love to encourage him with ideas like "fuck, your rock hard cock in my arse feels amazing".

 

[Astroman72]

For me as a bi guy, the whole submissive/feminine, dominant/masculine aspect is not a major part of my sexual makeup. I don't have any fantasies of being really dominant or submissive--in fact, those extremes are a turn-off for me.

I just love the genitalia and all the options they offer!

 

[Escierto]

For me as a bi guy, the whole submissive/feminine, dominant/masculine aspect is not a major part of my sexual makeup. I don't have any fantasies of being really dominant or submissive--in fact, those extremes are a turn-off for me.

I just love the genitalia and all the options they offer!

You just like to play with all the moving parts lol

 

[Spoogecup]

Whenever I'm 'dressed to impress ' I feel like a total feminine faggot bitch

Oh honey .... That excites and makes me envious at the same time ... I'm a total sissy faggot inside but, as far as dressing to impress, I've never gone past my bra and panties underneath my street clothes .... I'm mr. average beta male as far as looks go.... 5'8", 175 lbs., medium brown average length hair and a moustache .... I'm fairly decent looking as far as beta males go, but I couldn't come close to being passable.... The ability to confidently "dress" like you would be the ultimate thrill for me .... I've been the same guy's bitch for over 5 years now and he knew I'm a sissy faggot on the inside right from the beginning and that's how he treats me... I've come to him in bra and panties dozens of times and he even said that I should try bringing a pretty wig with me to wear while I'm sucking cock and being fucked.... I ALWAYS feel feminine when with him and the fact that he knows it always makes me quiver like a slutty little gurl inside .... The overpowering feminine desire to submit to him is the main reason I love being his faggot.

 

[Spoogecup]

It's been a while since I posted on this thread, but I've been following it. It seems like a majority of the posts are from those who do feel feminine while being fucked. It also seems that they are mostly or exclusively bottoms. Now the psychology of being mostly or exclusively bottom is foreign to me, so I can't relate to that.

I'm top/versatile and I rarely bottom. It takes a certain combination of circumstances, both mental and physical, to get me in the right frame of mind to bottom, and when I do, there's not the slightest sense of being feminine. I just get the urge to feel a cock in my ass, to feel the pounding against my prostate, to get the incredible orgasm that results from that.

I'm curious to know if there are other like-minded top/versatile men who have similar thought processes to me. Or if there are men who are mostly or exclusively bottom who do not feel feminine when being fucked. There seems to be a very different psychology going on, and it fascinates me.

I realize that you wanted to hear from those who are top/verse like yourself but I have something to add as a total bottom... I've heard similar things from other top/verse guys over time... I guess it's just human nature that a man who is basically top oriented likes the stimulation and change of pace to just try bottoming from time to time and never experiences any feelings or desires that would be considered to be feminine in any way.... I also know that nowhere near all bottoms experience feminine feelings while being fucked.... I identify in the group of total bottoms that definitely DOES experience and enjoy the feminine feeling of submitting to a man .... I have NEVER topped and never even thought about the possibility .... I don't have an ED situation but almost NEVER get even slightly erect when with a man.... I don't consider my little clitty dick to have any sexual function when with the guy who's been fucking me for over 5 years now.... For him, I have 2 holes that he knows are HIS to use.... I experience strong desire to assume a feminine posture whenever he presents me with his rigid, thick manly tool .... He told me he knew this from the beginning and that was a major reason he wanted to make me his regular "side bitch"... He likes to bring out the fem in me because that's my role as his bottom bitch and he knows I love it ,,,,

 

[Escierto]

I realize that you wanted to hear from those who are top/verse like yourself but I have something to add as a total bottom... I've heard similar things from other top/verse guys over time... I guess it's just human nature that a man who is basically top oriented likes the stimulation and change of pace to just try bottoming from time to time and never experiences any feelings or desires that would be considered to be feminine in any way.... I also know that nowhere near all bottoms experience feminine feelings while being fucked.... I identify in the group of total bottoms that definitely DOES experience and enjoy the feminine feeling of submitting to a man .... I have NEVER topped and never even thought about the possibility .... I don't have an ED situation but almost NEVER get even slightly erect when with a man.... I don't consider my little clitty dick to have any sexual function when with the guy who's been fucking me for over 5 years now.... For him, I have 2 holes that he knows are HIS to use.... I experience strong desire to assume a feminine posture whenever he presents me with his rigid, thick manly tool .... He told me he knew this from the beginning and that was a major reason he wanted to make me his regular "side bitch"... He likes to bring out the fem in me because that's my role as his bottom bitch and he knows I love it ,,,,

We are very much alike and I can completely relate to how you feel. It's how I feel with my top girl and like your top, she told me exactly how our sexual relationship was going to be. In bed, I love to be her "woman" and submit to her masculine sexual organ.

 

[Spoogecup]

We are very much alike and I can completely relate to how you feel. It's how I feel with my top girl and like your top, she told me exactly how our sexual relationship was going to be. In bed, I love to be her "woman" and submit to her masculine sexual organ.

You ae SO lucky hun !!!

 

[Escierto]

You ae SO lucky hun !!!

Yes, I am but then I think you are too!

 

[Biguy77578]

Its funny to me the you say it's inevitable that bottoms feel feminine. I don't remember that ever coming to mind while being fucked. I love the way it feels having my ass full of cock and the nastiness of it all but never felt feminine

 

[Escierto]

Its funny to me the you say it's inevitable that bottoms feel feminine. I don't remember that ever coming to mind while being fucked. I love the way it feels having my ass full of cock and the nastiness of it all but never felt feminine

That's cool. It takes all kinds and maybe it's just something in my own personality that causes me to feel that way. Sucking my girl or being fucked by her, I always feel feminine.

Outside the bedroom, I never feel feminine. I look the part and act the part. If you saw me with my girl, you are NEVER going to imagine that she is doing the fucking. We always chuckle that knowing the facts would actually make peoples heads explode.

 

[Spoogecup]

Yes, I am but then I think you are too!

Oh I KNOW I am for sure hun.... After the first time I felt his cock inside of me, he actually knew what I was feeling as I quivered like a slutty little gurl would.... He said he could tell from the moment I inadvertently rubbed the head of his cock across my lips before I used them to form a seal around it, eagerly accepting it through my mouth and into my throat.... He told me that he loved how I managed to give his cock a lot of tongue action whenever I could... He said I followed his prompts very eagerly and assumed the position when he was ready to fuck me... He told me that fucking me was just like having anal sex with a woman who's very into it ( which there aren't nearly enough who do) .... He said that my body movements while being fucked were very feminine like, and once I got used to him being fully inside me I began to push back on his cock a little at a time but it was noticeable ....He finally told me he wanted me to just be myself because it's ok to feel like a gurl and that's what he likes anyway...

 

[Cardinal]

Agree with above, more submissive than feminine

 

[Swuchrow]

I feel feminine and submissive as my top takes me for his pleasure. I usually wear a thong, light makeup and paint my nails (hands and feet). As part of the build up to meet my top a douche, shave and bleach my pussy pink hole.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Oh I KNOW I am for sure hun.... After the first time I felt his cock inside of me, he actually knew what I was feeling as I quivered like a slutty little gurl would.... He said he could tell from the moment I inadvertently rubbed the head of his cock across my lips before I used them to form a seal around it, eagerly accepting it through my mouth and into my throat.... He told me that he loved how I managed to give his cock a lot of tongue action whenever I could... He said I followed his prompts very eagerly and assumed the position when he was ready to fuck me... He told me that fucking me was just like having anal sex with a woman who's very into it ( which there aren't nearly enough who do) .... He said that my body movements while being fucked were very feminine like, and once I got used to him being fully inside me I began to push back on his cock a little at a time but it was noticeable ....He finally told me he wanted me to just be myself because it's ok to feel like a gurl and that's what he likes anyway...

It sounds as though you and your top are perfectly matched to each other's needs, an enviable situation to enjoy...

 

[wifes_fag]

I always feel very feminine while being fucked and right afterwards. In my mind only girls have pussy and I just give him my pussy. And that's why I tried on my first dress.

 

[Goyl]

As a male cocksucker, I think that I can certainly speak for some male cocksuckers out there who are oral bottom beta males like me. I think how feminine you feel as a male cocksucker when giving another man a blowjob strongly depends upon your individual personality. Many of my feeders who have gotten to know me personally have told me that as a male cocksucker I naturally have a very strong beta male personality. Some of my feeders have told me that the way I hold myself around other men, the way I often dress, and my more submissive people pleaser personality has sometimes sent very strong signals to other men that I’m a male cocksucker.

Whenever I’m giving another man fellatio, then I can’t help but think that what I’m doing definitely has a strong feminine feel to it. I’m on my knees in front of another man’s cock, and about to completely submit my own head as a tool to pleasure another man’s cock. I have many feeders married to women who enjoy regularly fucking my mouth just like they’re fucking a woman’s pussy. So as a submissive male cocksucker who enjoys more aggressive feeders, I really can’t help but think that I’m being at least somewhat feminine by completely submitting myself to another man’s penis to have my mouth fucked like a pussy! However, for me as a cocksucker nothing satisfies me sexually more than giving other men blowjobs and being a cum slut. Giving a blowjobs is actually much more satisfying for me in many ways than my own orgasm.

I feel the same as cocksucker0721- I feel extremely feminine and submissive and even slutty, as I always wear at least panties and maybe more girly things when I’m on my knees servicing a dominant man. That’s exactly what turns me on about sucking men’s dicks. In my mind, swallowing another man’s cum is the ultimate submissive act- whenever I do that I feel I’ve become his little cum slut and hopefully he’ll want me to do it again

 

[load69]

I have never played with a real cock yet but I feel like a real slut when I am riding this big black beauty.
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[Swuchrow]

I always feel very feminine while being fucked and right afterwards. In my mind only girls have pussy and I just give him my pussy. And that's why I tried on my first dress.

Almost every top I see is married and not getting satisfied by their wives. They enjoy fem acting bottoms.

I enjoy being a fem bottom with men because I need it to balance my daily alpha life. I have watched regular porn and mimic how females respond to their man as they pleasure their male partner. I am not just fem acting but I embrace the “slut” that my tops rarely or never experience with their wives.

I am also a smaller guy at 5’8”, 155, smallish cock and feet. I have found that my older tops like smaller bottoms.

It becomes a natural match for me and my tops for different reasons and needs.