Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Escierto]

I sure wish I was in your situation! Being fucked into submission regularly. Yes please! I do feel the same way. I like to dress up and I love watching trans porn and reading the stories. But a hairy guy I have a hard time with. But that’s just me. If you ever get tired of your girlfriend…… lol

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:

 

[Maddiesnewlife]

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:
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Very pretty. Lucky!!

 

[Escierto]

Very pretty. Lucky!!

Thank you. She is my little doll. Plenty like her in Thailand and the Philippines!

 

[AnalLady]

Submissive? Yes. Feminine? No. As a submissive bottom, I feel the ultimate in sexual energy and release when I have been fucked by a guy with the passion and energy to make the experience HOT and fulfilling.

Exactly

 

[htobeme5]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

yes, i feel very feminine when wearing lingerie, have good anal sex, and love semen running down my legs, Hormones take over and i feel feminine all over, Wish i could feel that way, all day.I'd want to keep thinking like the female you are, half a day.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

yes, i feel very feminine when wearing lingerie, have good anal sex, and love semen running down my legs, Hormones take over and i feel feminine all over, Wish i could feel that way, all day.I'd want to keep thinking like the female you are, half a day.

As a masculine man who fantasizes about making love to a femme guy/gurl, I will admit that what you have written in your posts is exactly what I want to experience. As the lovingly dominant male partner, I have a strong urge to “seed and breed” a sensual femme man, one who will let the woman in him emerge… I want to be held in a loving embrace while you wrap your arms and legs around me and milk my life giving seed so deep into your body… rejoicing in the pump and thrust and the strong body holding you powerless to the bed…

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:
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Your woman is such a beauty, thank you for sharing your pics and experiences….
It’s funny how people have such different desires. When I look at her pic it makes me want to move to Thailand and find just such a lovely woman who wants her lovingly dominant man to breed her on a daily basis…

 

[Escierto]

Your woman is such a beauty, thank you for sharing your pics and experiences….
It’s funny how people have such different desires. When I look at her pic it makes me want to move to Thailand and find just such a lovely woman who wants her lovingly dominant man to breed her on a daily basis…

There are many many more like the woman that you desire than women like my girlfriend. She is a rarity as a pure top but others like her can be found. However most are bottoms who want a man to fuck them like the women they are.

 

[sftopbottom]

it's all about pardigms and perspectives, right? It's very individual. For me, it depends largely on the partner(s) and how they approach the encounter.

I sometimes get fucked and feel very submissive. I don't equate that with femininity, per se, just moreso with passivity and sweetness. I might say words like, "You fill me up so good, baby."

I sometimes get fucked and feel extremely dominant and virile, which just feels more raunchy and aggressive, like i'm giving back as good as i get. This is usually when, "yeah, fuck my pussy!" might come out of my mouth more than once. However, I'm not really feeling anything feminine in that moment, despite the anatomy fantasy.

 

[CambridgeBi]

I've asked myself this question. I'm quite a hairy, muscular guy but I really enjoy being flat on my back with my legs around a man's waist. I do think I'm being feminine when I'm doing it but that might just be conditioning.

I don't dress in female clothes and I'm straight acting but in those moments...

 

[Escierto]

I've asked myself this question. I'm quite a hairy, muscular guy but I really enjoy being flat on my back with my legs around a man's waist. I do think I'm being feminine when I'm doing it but that might just be conditioning.

I don't dress in female clothes and I'm straight acting but in those moments...

I know exactly what you are talking about. I don't dress nor have a desire to do so and there is nothing feminine about me physically. When my girlfriend is balls deep in my ass about to cum, I do feel like a woman getting fucked by her man.

 

[TrailerHitch]

And if feminine is what you feel hurray for you. I don't feel that way at all. Is one of us weird? No, because like every other human reaction they are individual to that person. I think you are attempting to force every square peg into the round hole that fits your ideal.

 

[whiteasianlvr]

As a masculine man who fantasizes about making love to a femme guy/gurl, I will admit that what you have written in your posts is exactly what I want to experience. As the lovingly dominant male partner, I have a strong urge to “seed and breed” a sensual femme man, one who will let the woman in him emerge… I want to be held in a loving embrace while you wrap your arms and legs around me and milk my life giving seed so deep into your body… rejoicing in the pump and thrust and the strong body holding you powerless to the bed…

I found this to be very helpful as I'm always trying to understand myself by comparing myself to opposites. You've expressed the mentality of a top - the man I look up to as he's thrusting powerfully into me - and seeing the look of conquest cross his face as he seeds me. Loved it. THANKS!

 

[whiteasianlvr]

Man, did this thread get derailed in a major way.

Back on topic, has any biological male here been compelled into feminine feelings due to being the receptive partner? I would suspect that those feelings long existed prior to any sort of realized act of same sex intimacy.

I think the experience was was confirmative of the pre-existing feelings.

 

[Nekidinaz]

I like the idea of being strictly a bottom and it doesn't make me feel any way other than wonderful ... and excited

 

[Missmister]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I love getting fucked and feeling feminine, and submissive.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Every other situation I have some degree of control. With oral, I feel dominant because I control his orgasm. Not so when on the bottom though. So yes definitely submissive and probably a little feminine.

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

 

[Jordanjack]

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

That actually sounds wonderful. I've never had the pleasure of being a bottom, but I fantasize about it frequently.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

That actually sounds wonderful. I've never had the pleasure of being a bottom, but I fantasize about it frequently.

Find the right guy and take the plunge, you won't regret it!!!

 

[Jordanjack]

Find the right guy and take the plunge, you won't regret it!!!

I'm sure you're right. Unfortunately, I'll likely never experience it. Unless the wife divorces me, or wants to see me get fucked by a man.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

If the cocksucking bottom is doing it right, of course he will feel feminine, that's part of the fun...

 

[saintcero]

I would feel a little bit fem even for a pencil dicked Top

 

[Bill_Doubleu]

I am fascinated by this consideration. Navigating the semantics coupled with concepts is a wonderful exercise. I've heard of "I'm a woman trapped in a man's body" for 60 years. I wondered about this, then, and, I still do. I don't feel I am a woman trapped in a man's body. Though I do feel I have feminine qualities. The semantics of what is feminine and what is masculine need to be very clear. But, there are fuzzy abstractions. The Toaists believe that everything is Yin-Feminine and Yang-Masculine. Breathing in is Yin, as it is receptive. Breathing out is Yang. The notion is Yin becoming Yang. This may not fit into how a person relates to the world. It needs to be more definitive.

"Is it real. Or, is it Memorex?" I wonder about the legitimacy of my inner fem feelings. One things people do is mimic and act in artificial ways. Some have said that all persona and the sense of a separate self is an artifice. That leads to the higher halls of wisdom. I see a chick wrinkle up her nose while giggling and it affects me strongly. I want to do that expression. Is it an actual feminine feeling I am having or, is it simply a reflection?

I love to feel I have a pussy, an inner subtle energy body pussy. I love to be sexy. When I am on cam and showing off my cock and receiving a boatload of flattery, I feel like a chick.... or do I? I do know I love the idea of a man coming onto me and wanting me sexually.

I love the conversation!! I could go on and on about it.

 

[Escierto]

When I consider what is "masculine" and "feminine", I am really stumped as to how to differentiate these qualities or even if it is a useful endeavor.

I feel like a man but when I think about what makes me a man, I can only think of my attraction to women. Any other quality I have can be possessed by a woman as well.

 

[rc1989]

I bottomed when younger. I would start feeling less manly as I prepped for anal. Still dressed manly. When I went over to the guys house that was older than me I felt like I smiled more. I had long hair for a guy and I played with it. He would call me a hot bitch or sweet ass. Not exactly super manly.
The only other guy we fucked each other and I didn't feel less many than him. Because I knew I was going to be fucking his ass too.