munch2much
Intelligence is sexy
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I use the phrase too. And mostly as you do.I tend to see this in a similar vein as the phrase "no offence, but"...
That it's a heads-up that their honesty is likely to hurt. Just as their words are about to offend. So, it's not that they're not usually honest, but that they normally put more tact into their words.
Or maybe I'm just naive.![]()
It still irritates me TBH

But I often annoy myself

Side note, you put that into words particularly nicely
