Kinkier as we get older?

[skitzoid]

I also am bored with the "normal" vanilla sex. I would like to try something new and exciting, but what. I've never thought of same sex play or someone using me as a throw-away toy. But at 73 and a very slow sex life, maybe turning the page is worth a try. In summer I spend time at a nudist resort in western N.Y. which has many "switch hitters". This may be the place to try a new idea. I don't know. As of now, I have never even touched another man, would not know where to begin.

 

[RO33RT]

I'm a lot younger than some of you guys. But I can tell already that I'm getting kinkier

 

[VWSinger]

I was always ragingly kinky, so I don't think age affected me at all.

 

[Dirtyoldbob]

Yes, she's probably in her late 40's.

 

[Sgts19]

I also am bored with the "normal" vanilla sex. I would like to try something new and exciting, but what. I've never thought of same sex play or someone using me as a throw-away toy. But at 73 and a very slow sex life, maybe turning the page is worth a try. In summer I spend time at a nudist resort in western N.Y. which has many "switch hitters". This may be the place to try a new idea. I don't know. As of now, I have never even touched another man, would not know where to begin.

You only go around once why not try something new. In the last couple years, it lets do it now and not wait until it's to late. At that age where friends are older their bodies breaking down and they couldn't do it anyways even if they wanted to

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Ive always been a horny black masturbating cumslut but now I have kinks and fetishes. So thank you Lit (and Pornhub and LushStories etc)

 

[Papi34]

Most definitely getting kinkier,more adventurous, and more daring as I get older

 

[smooth-boy]

I think I've always been into kink before I knew what that was. Getting older, the benefit was just being able to communicate that more effectively and just not settle if I couldn't find what I was looking for.

 

[TheVegasMark]

Ive always been a horny black masturbating cumslut but now I have kinks and fetishes. So thank you Lit (and Pornhub and LushStories etc)

That's Funny...!!!

 

[missmixalot]

i have had experience of men encompassing a wide range of ages in a submissive role. I think older men are possible more focused and experimental. They want to use and experiment with (younger) women and know exactly what they want.
Surprisingly, some quite old gentlemen have a playfully perverted energy.

 

[BiliBottoms]

I hope so!!! I am only 24 and I like to think there is still new things for me to learn and discover!

 

[CumInMyWifemmf]

I’ve always been kinky even in my twenties. As I’ve gotten into my 40s now, I just don’t care what people think and enjoy the kinks worry free. Same with the wife and now we’re opening up to even spicier kinks and pleasures

 

[Fuckinghorny70]

I would agree that the older I get, the more willing I am to trying new things. When I was younger I would wonder about things but never try. Now I am at the point in life that I say f this, why not try it. As a result I have become much happier.

Try everything once. Twice if you like it.
As many times as you want when you love it.

 

[Uncut1969]

Most definitely I am wish I had had these cravings in younger days !

 

[ATLfoto]

Same here. I've had a strong interest/curiosity about kink since I was very young and often incorporated that when masturbating, but Not until I was past 50 did I finally have some real play with a domme. I crave it now.

 

[Erosfan]

i have had experience of men encompassing a wide range of ages in a submissive role. I think older men are possible more focused and experimental. They want to use and experiment with (younger) women and know exactly what they want.
Surprisingly, some quite old gentlemen have a playfully perverted energy.

Yes we do! I love my playful, perverted energy. A dirty mind is a horrible thing to waste!

 

[Erosfan]

Once you both retire from work, you naturally have more free time. That can go two ways. Some guys I know are on the golf course all the time and their wives have to make their own entertainment.
I would rather go for country walks with my wife than drag a bag of golf clubs around the local course.
We are both healthy and play a lot of sport together, which helps to make the bond much closer.
We enjoy our extra time together and we put it to good use in the bedroom.
I am helping my wife to overcome some lifelong inhibitions (thanks to her family history and religion) and we are enjoying the best sex in more than 45 years together.
She has reignited her wonderful oral skills and enjoys some gentle pussy slapping during our regular lovemaking sessions, when she now has multiple orgasms.
We are both 71 and aim to keep this spark alive for as long as possible.

I love your story!
I am a widower and I am seeing a widow. We have been together for almost 2 years now. We are enjoying an amazing sex life and we are exploring our sexuality with amazing energy. I have had the good fortune to have experienced and enjoy many of my kinks, over the years. She has been somewhat sheltered and hasn't had the opportunity to explore. We are enjoying exploring together. She is very excepting of my craziness and is open to trying new things. We are having so much fun.
She is getting into my exhibitionism and CFNM. She has some exhibitionist tendencies, in a shy kind of way. She took me for a naked ride in her golf cart, late one night last summer. I was naked and she was fully dressed. We stayed out for about an hour and she made sure I stayed hard. I have had her tits out while driving, in the daytime, a couple of times and she says it was exciting. I know these are minor things, but such an amazing start. We are openly talking about these things and planning for more adventures as time and weather permits.
We aren't getting older, we are getting better.

I am retiring soon and I plan for us to spend lots of time together. No golf for me!

 

[graysilver]

I love your story!
I am a widower and I am seeing a widow. We have been together for almost 2 years now. We are enjoying an amazing sex life and we are exploring our sexuality with amazing energy. I have had the good fortune to have experienced and enjoy many of my kinks, over the years. She has been somewhat sheltered and hasn't had the opportunity to explore. We are enjoying exploring together. She is very excepting of my craziness and is open to trying new things. We are having so much fun.
She is getting into my exhibitionism and CFNM. She has some exhibitionist tendencies, in a shy kind of way. She took me for a naked ride in her golf cart, late one night last summer. I was naked and she was fully dressed. We stayed out for about an hour and she made sure I stayed hard. I have had her tits out while driving, in the daytime, a couple of times and she says it was exciting. I know these are minor things, but such an amazing start. We are openly talking about these things and planning for more adventures as time and weather permits.
We aren't getting older, we are getting better.

I am retiring soon and I plan for us to spend lots of time together. No golf for me!

Maybe minor kinks, but exciting ones. Keep going!!

 

[Erosfan]

Maybe minor kinks, but exciting ones. Keep going!!

Baby steps!

 

[KentLondon]

I love your story!
I am a widower and I am seeing a widow. We have been together for almost 2 years now. We are enjoying an amazing sex life and we are exploring our sexuality with amazing energy. I have had the good fortune to have experienced and enjoy many of my kinks, over the years. She has been somewhat sheltered and hasn't had the opportunity to explore. We are enjoying exploring together. She is very excepting of my craziness and is open to trying new things. We are having so much fun.
She is getting into my exhibitionism and CFNM. She has some exhibitionist tendencies, in a shy kind of way. She took me for a naked ride in her golf cart, late one night last summer. I was naked and she was fully dressed. We stayed out for about an hour and she made sure I stayed hard. I have had her tits out while driving, in the daytime, a couple of times and she says it was exciting. I know these are minor things, but such an amazing start. We are openly talking about these things and planning for more adventures as time and weather permits.
We aren't getting older, we are getting better.

I am retiring soon and I plan for us to spend lots of time together. No golf for me!

Well done! I hope your relationship continues to blossom at a gentle pace and your new partner enjoys learning so many new and fun things that a healthy sex life brings to a relationship.

These things bring you closer, which is so important.

Losing a partner is devastating, but I'm so glad that you found a new and exciting love in your life.

Enjoy the minor advances. Take your time and I hope you will both be happy, healthy and horny for many decades to come!

 

[Erosfan]

Well done! I hope your relationship continues to blossom at a gentle pace and your new partner enjoys learning so many new and fun things that a healthy sex life brings to a relationship.

These things bring you closer, which is so important.

Losing a partner is devastating, but I'm so glad that you found a new and exciting love in your life.

Enjoy the minor advances. Take your time and I hope you will both be happy, healthy and horny for many decades to come!

Thank you for the kind words. We are definitely going to continue our exploration. I love that she is so willing to explore with me.

 

[Boat1]

Thank you for the kind words. We are definitely going to continue our exploration. I love that she is so willing to explore with me.

It's a true testament to the trust that you two share IMHO.
Kudos to you both!

 

[KentLondon]

I like this discussion. I’ve a thought I would perhaps like to add to this and it goes like this…. When I was younger sex was much more available… good sex too and intimate and emotional as well. With some dry periods of course and the usual mismatched relationships. And so forth. Now it’s become much rarer and if I’m honest with myself some of my more wild and kinky fantasies (of which I have enough) are driven by frustration. The less I have on my table the wilder my desires become. Does that make sense to anyone?

Yes, it does. Simple analysis: the less you have the more you dream.

Also, please take a moment to think about the importance of the tiny details of an ongoing relationship.

For me, that might be remembering to trim my nose hairs before joining my wife in bed.

And ironing those two shirts I promised to do, plus any other household chores that may be on the list.

If I pull my weight around the house and garden, and attend to the boring bills and paperwork, I know my wife appreciates those things and responds in a loving way.

Once you clear the decks of the marital minutiae, and my wife is in a loving mood, that's when we can talk about exploring new things.

 

[Erosfan]

It's funny, I'm 42, my wife is 40, and I've gotten more open-minded and kinky and exploratory and she's become much more conservative. We used to play outside, have sexy adventures in public spaces, and she would indulge me in my exhibitionism kink. That was in our 20s and 30s. Maybe having kids has slowed her down but she's much less interested in trying new things or experimenting or doing anything outside some fairly vanilla sex. We have sex regularly but when I suggest or offer new or different or novel things, she'll decline.

I'd rather see more or different just to keep things interesting. I have more excitement with 'new' while she's drawn back.

Playing outside and being adventurous in public are major turn ons for me. I just love the risk and it is so special when your partner is okay with it. It's even better when she initiates it.

 

[Boat1]

Playing outside and being adventurous in public are major turn ons for me. I just love the risk and it is so special when your partner is okay with it. It's even better when she initiates it.

I couldn't agree more!!