ImpishSeraph
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I like shaved. trimmed everywhere else. If I'm watching two together, I prefer at least trimmed short.
Should men shave their pubes bald?
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Bi4Older84
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I keep my pubes trimmed short, and I shave my shaft, balls, and perineum. I'm not super hairy, but I feel like shaving it all off wouldn't look right, and I don't want to worry about having to trim/fade my hairier parts with smoother parts. I have tried Nair/Veet and it was nice and smooth, but I hated the smell and I'm always worried about possible chemical burns.
StrongMaster7
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Warning: Here comes too much info, maybe.
I use an electric trimmer to trim my moustache, eyebrows, armpits, and pubes. I also use a razor to shave the base of my cock and my balls. I leave a rectangle of trimmed hair above my genitals.
Although my wife has never commented on any of the "intimate" grooming, I think that having lots of hair tends to hold on to moisture and odor. So, I do it for myself as much as her.
I use an electric trimmer to trim my moustache, eyebrows, armpits, and pubes. I also use a razor to shave the base of my cock and my balls. I leave a rectangle of trimmed hair above my genitals.
Although my wife has never commented on any of the "intimate" grooming, I think that having lots of hair tends to hold on to moisture and odor. So, I do it for myself as much as her.
How did that work for you???
SoCalAshley
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I have been with men that are trimmed and men that are bald. Both are okay as long as the hair is not so bad that you can't give a dessent blow job. I think the more important part of the question is that your GF asked you to do it. Did you ask her why that was important to her?
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Particularly well, especially in, let's say uneven areas
FloridaJoe
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I shave my cock and balls bald. It entices my wife for better oral sex for her like her shaving her pussy entices me for better oral sex. Nothing is as distractive as pulling hair out of your mouth while trying to pleasure your spouse.
BiliBottoms
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My BF and I are both smooth all over. I don't really get much in the way of pubic hair, but I prefer to not have any. My BF shaves for me because I think cock and balls tastes better without hair in the way.
Bottomlover
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My GF likes my genital area smooth. She doesn't lick my balls when they're hairy, but is enthusiastic about it when they're smooth. We've been together for a long time, and I tried shaving and then using depalitory products regularly. She would help by shaving my asshole with the little bikini razors that were popular for a while.
I discovered a local lady who is superb at waxing and is comfortable with males. We talk about almost everything while she is waxing me and then goes after stray hairs with my asshole and genitals under a big magnifying glass. She is a total professional and while I sometimes find it to be a bit erotic, I behave myself and let her do her job. She knows this and we sometimes joke about it, and that is huge in being comfortable with each other for so long. She's been waxing me every 6-8 weeks for the last 15 years.
I still get my balls licked every time I get home from an appointment.
Women have their own preferences, and there is no universal body hair groomong scheme that will please all women. What I do feels good to me and pleases the lady I care about.
I discovered a local lady who is superb at waxing and is comfortable with males. We talk about almost everything while she is waxing me and then goes after stray hairs with my asshole and genitals under a big magnifying glass. She is a total professional and while I sometimes find it to be a bit erotic, I behave myself and let her do her job. She knows this and we sometimes joke about it, and that is huge in being comfortable with each other for so long. She's been waxing me every 6-8 weeks for the last 15 years.
I still get my balls licked every time I get home from an appointment.
Women have their own preferences, and there is no universal body hair groomong scheme that will please all women. What I do feels good to me and pleases the lady I care about.
Northsidejoe
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She shaves and thinks that pubic hair is gross. She does really like to give me blow jobs, so I guess I understand. I love to give her oral so her shaving is nice, but I've eaten out women with full bushes and it was okay too. The hair retains some of her scent better than bald but hair in my mouth isn't so pleasant. I already keep my pubes trimmed a bit. I think I'll do it to please her. I'm not a very hairy guy especially for a man with a nice full beard. I'm just concerned what my doctor or the guys at the gym will think.
Stromer
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Lol, I'm the same way. Where do I stop? Back when we were having fun in the lifestyle, I kept it trimmed. Now, what a jungle.
TinaG_2023
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Prefer shaved or at least closely trimmed.
Britva415
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I don't understand. You say you tried it - Did you get chemical burns?
lily_wall_
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I think no one would have the right answer of "should". Pubes don't make or define a man
Dhfranklin94
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Shaved clean and smooth here and love it.
My wife gave me the same ultimatum as you when I asked her to shave her pussy for me. It came as a dare, "I will if you will", so to shock her I did. That was over 30 years ago and I would NEVER go back to having hair down there again. Long before it was the cool thing to do, I was shaven down there.
But I do want to point out that you are woefully misinformed... though it is not your fault. Us men do not talk about this so you would think your statement was correct, but 66% of men shave their genital regions now. To put it another way, if three men are talking in a break room, two of the three shave their genitals. If you DON"T SHAVE, you are now in the minority.
As for the "sleek" look, which you may not be ready for; 15% of men shave the other parts of their body. While hardly 2/3 of men, that still means for every 100 guys you see, 15 of them shave their legs, stomach, underarms, etc; which is a staggering number. Myself, I do, and thought I was weird until I realized a lot of other men do this as well. I think in the future it will just occur more and more as women accept and appreciate the sleekier look.
luckyseven
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My wife prefers to trim short and smooth vulva with a landing strip. In summer she goes smooth as she wants the total nudity look.
I’ve have always shaved my cock and balls and perineum but resisted going full on smooth for many years.
This changed as we saw more and more social nudists going smooth. So I gave it a go and enjoyed the look and feel provided I kept to a strict shaving regime.
So, like my wife I go smooth in the summer but in winter we have preferred to grow a bush. Odd, I know but we prefer to enjoy both options.
I’ve have always shaved my cock and balls and perineum but resisted going full on smooth for many years.
This changed as we saw more and more social nudists going smooth. So I gave it a go and enjoyed the look and feel provided I kept to a strict shaving regime.
So, like my wife I go smooth in the summer but in winter we have preferred to grow a bush. Odd, I know but we prefer to enjoy both options.
Northsidejoe
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Thanks for the information. I'm curious where did you get these stats?
Manscaped.com says:
To say that it’s normal for a guy to shave his pubes is an understatement. Plenty of groups have studied this exact question, and a MANSCAPED Independent Study discovered that 69% of guys regularly trim and 81.6% have at least tried it.
According to Sharpologist:
According to a Facebook poll by the Independent, almost half of all men shave or trim their leg hair. Around 15% shave their legs regularly and 33% use a trimmer to keep their leg hair down. Today, more men are shaving their legs, but they are doing it for a variety of other reasons. Leg shaving is not just about sports and competitions anymore, and it is becoming more about body image.
To say that it’s normal for a guy to shave his pubes is an understatement. Plenty of groups have studied this exact question, and a MANSCAPED Independent Study discovered that 69% of guys regularly trim and 81.6% have at least tried it.
According to Sharpologist:
According to a Facebook poll by the Independent, almost half of all men shave or trim their leg hair. Around 15% shave their legs regularly and 33% use a trimmer to keep their leg hair down. Today, more men are shaving their legs, but they are doing it for a variety of other reasons. Leg shaving is not just about sports and competitions anymore, and it is becoming more about body image.
Manscaped.com says:
To say that it’s normal for a guy to shave his pubes is an understatement. Plenty of groups have studied this exact question, and a MANSCAPED Independent Study discovered that 69% of guys regularly trim and 81.6% have at least tried it.
According to Sharpologist:
According to a Facebook poll by the Independent, almost half of all men shave or trim their leg hair. Around 15% shave their legs regularly and 33% use a trimmer to keep their leg hair down. Today, more men are shaving their legs, but they are doing it for a variety of other reasons. Leg shaving is not just about sports and competitions anymore, and it is becoming more about body image.
NightL
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what does any opinion here matter - if your girlfriend wants you to do it then try it. It is nobody's business other than between the two of you.
"I just need opinions and experiences others have." - you seriously don't. Do it or don't do it. If you have to ask strangers about a request your girlfriend makes then your relationship is in trouble.
You're wrong...
Some personality types need more validation than others. While I am on your side, not needing any validation at all for anyone for whatever I do; for others there is a true need.
While I cannot always relate to someone, not seeing an issue as being a big deal at all, for others not sure what to do, asking opinions and getting experiences is immensely important.
No matter the personality type, we have to accept that and not project our hopes, ideas, morals, ideals and assertiveness on others.
NightL
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does "it is not a big deal - do it if you wish" make you feel more comfortable?
I still feel seeking validation from others over and above simple communication with a partner problematic to a relationship.
The person asked for opinion - I provided one. Now as for projecting onto someone who did not ask a question...
