Sex & Shenanigans

[Bbl87]

Interesting. Are you able to explain why? I guess they're less likely to leave marks, which maybe a factor, or is it something else? Some people of my experience enjoy marks, though possibly not on "public" areas of the body.

A few reasons for me.

In my not so distant past, I used them for work. So, there's always just been that connection in my brain connecting them to work. On the plus side, it does mean I'm efficient in operating them, ha.

Part of it is marks and comfort as well. It is easier to restrain, and especially "manhandle" (best term I could come up with) someone wearing other kinds of cuffs without causing marks and/or them digging into the skin to the point of causing unwanted/unnecessary pain.

It's also important to have a pair of double locking cuffs and to remember to double lock them when using them, as if you don't its very easy to put enough pressure on them in the heat of things for them to cinch down on the wrist.

I also find leather cuffs to be more flexible in use, as you can attach them to each other to be used like handcuffs, or attach them to a restraint system, straps, other stuff.

Finally, you don't need a key to remove buckle or velcro cuffs like you handcuffs. So, if for some reason you need to remove them quickly, buckle or velcro cuffs are much faster and require less fine motor movement.

 

[BrendaBear]

Interesting. Are you able to explain why? I guess they're less likely to leave marks, which maybe a factor, or is it something else? Some people of my experience enjoy marks, though possibly not on "public" areas of the body.

Everything @Bbl87 said, but they are far more comfortable and I am not into pain. I love being able to pull hard against my bonds and it not hurting me.

 

[MissRadiant]

A few reasons for me.

In my not so distant past, I used them for work. So, there's always just been that connection in my brain connecting them to work. On the plus side, it does mean I'm efficient in operating them, ha.

Part of it is marks and comfort as well. It is easier to restrain, and especially "manhandle" (best term I could come up with) someone wearing other kinds of cuffs without causing marks and/or them digging into the skin to the point of causing unwanted/unnecessary pain.

It's also important to have a pair of double locking cuffs and to remember to double lock them when using them, as if you don't its very easy to put enough pressure on them in the heat of things for them to cinch down on the wrist.

I also find leather cuffs to be more flexible in use, as you can attach them to each other to be used like handcuffs, or attach them to a restraint system, straps, other stuff.

Finally, you don't need a key to remove buckle or velcro cuffs like you handcuffs. So, if for some reason you need to remove them quickly, buckle or velcro cuffs are much faster and require less fine motor movement.

I don't know why when I read key, I'm picturing it falling down an air vent and then not being able to get out.

 

[Bbl87]

I don't know why when I read key, I'm picturing it falling down an air vent and then not being able to get out.

Ha. That's why I have multiple spare keys, including one on my keychain.

 

[Bbl87]

 

[crazychemgirl]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

 

[LupineOne]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

To stay in shape and healthy is definitely one of them

 

[MissRadiant]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

Read more book, continue eating healthier, travel more or be outside in nature and exercise more are the main ones.

 

[hotoldrguy]

 

[LostHorizon]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

New Year resolutions are a waste of effort. Every day marks a new year worthy of a resolution.

It’s the sincerity of the commitment that matters, not the day it’s made.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

I’m going to try and consume more “good” art that forces me to engage and consider rather than simply distracts my from the pain of existence.

I’m still gonna consume the latter too, I mean shit, the world is the world. But more of the former.

 

[Wand3rlust]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

The research begins...

 

[BrendaBear]

…. Every day marks a new year worthy of a resolution.

It’s the sincerity of the commitment that matters, not the day it’s made.

OMG! This is exactly how I feel about it. I purposely never make a New Year’s resolution, instead I just decide on any given day that I want to fix some of my flaws…. There are way too many to only address once a year.

 

[Qky75]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

I tend to do better when I focus on the immediate choices. I'm not who I was last year or a decade ago. I'm just trying to do better than yesterday.

 

[BrendaBear]

I tend to do better when I focus on the immediate choices. I'm not who I was last year or a decade ago. I'm just trying to do better than yesterday.

Two years ago where you O… and last year you were P?

*** giggling away as I run off for more wine ***

 

[Qky75]

Two years ago where you O… and last year you were P?

*** giggling away as I run off for more wine ***

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

As new years approaches …. Who is doing resolutions this year?

Well, 2024 has broken my heart a few times. In 2025, I plan to continue what I started a few months ago... put myself first, do something rather than wait for change to happen, find joy, be present, etc.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I tend to do better when I focus on the immediate choices. I'm not who I was last year or a decade ago. I'm just trying to do better than yesterday.

Q, Dude... that's all you can do.

 

[Sammysub07]

Good Morning, lit!! May the best fucked up minds win! GO!

I’ll hold the nuggets!

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Good Morning, lit!! May the best fucked up minds win! GO!

I’ll hold the nuggets!


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Watch out for my mirror

 

[Qky75]

Good Morning, lit!! May the best fucked up minds win! GO!

I’ll hold the nuggets!


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Can I get a fresh one please

Or

I don't think this is what I ordered

Take this back. I wanted a large one

How much did you say?!?!? Do you accept coupons?

 

[dawn_of_night]

Can I upsize? Please...

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Would you like sauce with that?

 

[Sammysub07]

Watch out for my mirror

Ohh but angling it to watch me bend over and pick up what got dropped is so much better

Can I get a fresh one please

Or

I don't think this is what I ordered

Take this back. I wanted a large one

How much did you say?!?!? Do you accept coupons?

No coupons, Sir. No sales. Same price

Can I upsize? Please...

Since you said please!

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Ohh but angling it to watch me bend over and pick up what got dropped is so much better

Among other things, yes!