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How many of you like being called degrading or kinky names?

that is a turn on and experience enhancer always, especially while tipsy and mad horny for kink and variety, always during taboo or nasty acts.
 
Universal greeting to us hookers is the term 'Bitch', so that happens all the time.

The punters call me all sorts of shit. Love it. Whatever. If it makes them cum quicker then great!

A x
 
Neither one of us is into humiliation, but my queen likes to call me by names that kind of objectify me and put me in my place a little. "Hunky," "hot legs," and "big balls" are three of her favorites. I love it when my ferocious little redheaded queen is ordering me around and says things like "freshen my wine, hunky." We also enjoy the contrast when she's calling me names like this and I address her as Madam, My Queen, My Lady, etc.
 
sister jenny said:
It’s sexy, dirty, feels forbidden and it turns me on.

Being someone who started watching porn early, I’m sure a lot has to do with that. Idolizing porn stars and wanting to be like them.

But I still watch a lot of porn, so I am ok with that.
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It’s the dirty and forbidden aspect that does it for me. It’s not the way you would ever normally speak, but the taboo breaking of the rules behind closed doors with an intimate partner you trust, it pushes all the right buttons
 
FreeMaggieForAll said:
I completely get it! I like being called a slut but being told I'm a good girl? That makes me cum harder than anything. And it makes me want to do whatever I can to be called "good girl" again
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With me, good girls get foot rubs and pussy worship. I'm a guy but in the right context I like being called a slut too, for example if I'm turned on and I heard "lick my pussy you dirty slut" I'd be on it instantly.
 
I don’t consider being called Slut etc degrading. Being called worthless just crushes my spirit. When I’m being servile I hope I’m doing something useful and worthwhile, otherwise why would Mistress play with me? You can call me little boy, naughty little boy, but in the end I want to be useful and earn a good boy comment.
 
I have always been called names out of meanness growing up... I was "Pinky" for a long time because I have an uncommon type of Albinism; I have milk white skin and bright orange hair, even the fine microscopic hair on my body. It isn't noticeable except under certain lights, like fluorescents, and then I have a faint pink hue. I earned "Boom Boom" in third grade because I have a big butt.
My boyfriend/Master calls me his piglet or just piggie.
 
It’s been so eye opening to me reading this whole thread. I want to understand what gives people joy even if it’s not my jam.

I hope it’s ok to ask here if I’ve understood correctly. I get these may not all be right for everyone. Let me know please if something sounds just way off for everyone. In no particular order, reasons people like degrading names (or actions).

1. The taboo, ‘transgressive’, and forbidden are hot.

2. Makes you feel super sexy and desirable (and you don’t find it degrading)

3. You like feeling like an object (cherished toy, source of pleasure, no need to be responsible, free of decision burden, dehumanization is thrillingly taboo, those are some reasons?)

4. Deepens your feeling of submission. (I get loving subspace!)

5. You *like* the emotional pain it causes the same way some people like actual physical pain. (Masochism playing a part?)

6. You like pleasing your D even if you don’t enjoy the names.

7. It needs to be with a trusted loving partner so you feel safe, they do it because you like it (not ok from everyone, not ok all the time, but with them it is special)

8. …or you prefer it from casual partners because what they think or do doesn’t bother you as much as if your main partner did it (so it’s safer? More fun? When casual)

9. …or you are in 24/7 D/s and degradation reinforces that full time dynamic in a way you like

10. You enjoy the mental aspect of degradation. Physical plus mental is way better than just physical. (That isn’t specific to degradation only but it came up)

11. You are reclaiming words used to hurt. You make them your sources of joy and that takes away their power to hurt.

Did I miss any?

Some of that is liking actual degradation.
Some is using traditionally degrading words but not for degradation.

If I ever write a degradation story to stretch as a writer, I want to be a good ally, make it enjoyable for folks in this thread, and not write dumb ignorant stuff.

That’s why am I asking if I got it right.

I’m not into degradation at all myself. Can’t stand slut, whore, cunt, as they’ve been used to punish women specifically for liking sex in a way men aren’t punished. I can’t mentally separate that use from the loving/fun uses. I am ok with bitch because I feel women took it back somewhat and repurposed it to mean assertive powerful woman. Yet I know it’s also used to demean. (I’m not a gay man but I couldn’t say faggot or sissy convincingly even to someone who wants it, for similar reasons.)

I could willingly call a partner some of those names for their pleasure. Don’t think I could do it if they wanted emotional pain for masochism even though I think I could give masochists physical pain. I’ve been hurt worst by emotional pain so it hurts me to give it. If I did do it, and was convincing, *I* would need a lot of aftercare even if the sub loved it.

Not yucking your yum! Never that! I am happy your jam makes you happy. I’m just here to learn from you all.

Hope that was ok to post and not derailing or intruding. Don’t want to do that.
 
Lotus_Kitty said:
It’s been so eye opening to me reading this whole thread. I want to understand what gives people joy even if it’s not my jam.

I hope it’s ok to ask here if I’ve understood correctly. I get these may not all be right for everyone. Let me know please if something sounds just way off for everyone. In no particular order, reasons people like degrading names (or actions).

1. The taboo, ‘transgressive’, and forbidden are hot.

2. Makes you feel super sexy and desirable (and you don’t find it degrading)

3. You like feeling like an object (cherished toy, source of pleasure, no need to be responsible, free of decision burden, dehumanization is thrillingly taboo, those are some reasons?)

4. Deepens your feeling of submission. (I get loving subspace!)

5. You *like* the emotional pain it causes the same way some people like actual physical pain. (Masochism playing a part?)

6. You like pleasing your D even if you don’t enjoy the names.

7. It needs to be with a trusted loving partner so you feel safe, they do it because you like it (not ok from everyone, not ok all the time, but with them it is special)

8. …or you prefer it from casual partners because what they think or do doesn’t bother you as much as if your main partner did it (so it’s safer? More fun? When casual)

9. …or you are in 24/7 D/s and degradation reinforces that full time dynamic in a way you like

10. You enjoy the mental aspect of degradation. Physical plus mental is way better than just physical. (That isn’t specific to degradation only but it came up)

11. You are reclaiming words used to hurt. You make them your sources of joy and that takes away their power to hurt.

Did I miss any?

Some of that is liking actual degradation.
Some is using traditionally degrading words but not for degradation.

If I ever write a degradation story to stretch as a writer, I want to be a good ally, make it enjoyable for folks in this thread, and not write dumb ignorant stuff.

That’s why am I asking if I got it right.

I’m not into degradation at all myself. Can’t stand slut, whore, cunt, as they’ve been used to punish women specifically for liking sex in a way men aren’t punished. I can’t mentally separate that use from the loving/fun uses. I am ok with bitch because I feel women took it back somewhat and repurposed it to mean assertive powerful woman. Yet I know it’s also used to demean. (I’m not a gay man but I couldn’t say faggot or sissy convincingly even to someone who wants it, for similar reasons.)

I could willingly call a partner some of those names for their pleasure. Don’t think I could do it if they wanted emotional pain for masochism even though I think I could give masochists physical pain. I’ve been hurt worst by emotional pain so it hurts me to give it. If I did do it, and was convincing, *I* would need a lot of aftercare even if the sub loved it.

Not yucking your yum! Never that! I am happy your jam makes you happy. I’m just here to learn from you all.

Hope that was ok to post and not derailing or intruding. Don’t want to do that.
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1thru 4 for me as a male. I’m a switch, so for my sub side.
 
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