Well if it's a choice between one or the other, of course I'd rather give a girl pleasure, but there is something incredibly sexy and erotic about watching a woman pleasure herself, watching her take control of her own pleasure. And to me, it's hot as hell that she would let me share in what is typically a very private and intimate moment.
agreed. i love watching, my ex and i would watch each other all the time. it didn't always lead to sex, but it was so fucking sexy either way. i love to watch a lady's facial expressions when she gets close, lip biters make me melt.