Haha they can be really horrible sometimesWe're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...
Preach. Don't get me wrong, I've met some really amazing men through here. But the ratio of them compared to the creeps and assholes is way heavy towards the latter category unfortunatelyHaha they can be really horrible sometimes
No one said all of you were, hun
Obviously I don’t want anyone to feel left out. I just think this can be a very hostile environment especially if you’re a woman posting pics and stories. And it’s always comforting to have recognition in a group.Actually, at the other sites I’ve been on, the women where quite actively .. interactingTo the point of many men feeling left out even.
Gurl, as of two days ago, I'm on a forced hiatus from interacting with these online "men." I mentally & emotionally can't anymore.
A #NotAllMen man strikes again.
The guilty conscience is real
I toatally get that. It often feels like you’re drowning in disappointing messages and never find real connection. That’s why I think solidarity is so important on here.
One way to tell that a man is decent is if he doesn’t try to shift conversations between women to himself.
Preach girlOne way to tell that a man is decent is if he doesn’t try to shift conversations between women to himsePreach
This made me laughWe're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...
Ouch.We're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...
As someone who's been here for a long time, and have met some amazing women over the years, I'm not at all surprised. Unfortunately given the nature of this place, being decent and polite even for an erotic site is utterly lost on some. And just because you're on a website forum doesn't give you license to be a total creep either. Some may respond to that but most don't. Sure it's fun to be flirty and naughty but be respectful. Don't make immediate demands. Get to know someone first. Yes I know some directly jump into the sexual, want that anonymously sexual role play or whatever but the majority of women don't. Be genuine. My two cents FWIW.
I love having conversations with other ladies but they are few and far between on here. There is a "Bi and Lesbian" chat room on the Erotic Chat side of Lit but I never found it to be much fun. I'm not sure what kind of group you have in mind but I would have an interest. I will link this Forum post to another lady my age who I have made friends with.As a woman who is somewhat active posting things in the forum it is sad to me that we have so little contact amongst eachother. Other sites I’ve been apart of often have womens only sections/groups. If you wanna reach out and discuss please feel free. Maybe we can even start a group if we are many.
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Now that makes sense. GaryWe're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...
God that’s horribleWe're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...
Yes, it is horrible how the men have behaved.
