What was your first kink or fetish?

[nena_banana]

I find it fascinating that as we get older our fetishes and kinks and general sexual interests expand. Now I'm not sure if there has already been a thread about this but I'm curious on how people realized they had a certain thing for something.

For me I found out about two things within the same week. It started off with being here on Lit listening to the audio section and getting really turned on listening to a guys masturbation session. Then later on in the week I was having a phone sex session with a guy in public and I got even more aroused. Which is how I found out I had a thing for both public play and listening to guys masturbate and cum.

So how did you find out about your first "thing"?

 

[Goldenfinger]

I didn’t think of it as a kink or a fetish. Tasting my own cum. I was never adverse to kissing after I came in a woman’s mouth after a bj.

 

[DesmondinExile]

For me it was mostly via irc chats when I was in college. I had a pretty vanilla outlook before that, but most of the vanilla rooms I found myself in were... well boring. I met a few people in the other rooms and when I did my first scene as a Dom/Top i was like, "Ok I think this is me, or at least a big part of me."

 

[nena_banana]

Regrettably noncon. I read a lot of erotic novels when I was… very young.. due to my parents having no filter on what books I read. They were just happy I was a proficient reader lol. But I ended up having a lot of hardcore things embedded into my brain

It wasn't until more recently but that's how I got into being interested and now involved with a soft dom... I read a few books that had that dynamic and it turned into a thing for me

 

[CurtGiles46]

I can’t get into too many details, but for me it was bondage, public humiliation, and exhibitionism.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Panties were my first and still my favourite.

 

[AffectionateGentleman]

Bound tickle-torture and bound sexual teasing games

 

[Twistedkink]

Going through my moms sexy drawer.

 

[Sxy_crzy_cool]

For me it was definitely panties. Sniffing them, stealing them, wearing them, finding them, cumming in them... just panties in general, be they on someone or just lying around, no panties are safe from me

 

[honestWithWifie]

For me it was definitely panties. Sniffing them, stealing them, wearing them, finding them, cumming in them... just panties in general, be they on someone or just lying around, no panties are safe from me

This

 

[HoldYouDown]

Exhibitionism. Used to find ways to be naked and show off my then lithe frame and well proportioned dick. Hotel windows, backyard, golf courses at night etc.

 

[nena_banana]

Nonconsent
Probably brought about by purity culture telling me I shouldn’t want sex. “It’s not my fault I had sex and came if I was forced.”

Thats definitely an interesting take away from that, but is totally understandable. I also grew around the purity culture, so when I first started to masturbate I would have the biggest guilt and feel super ashamed about it. It wasn't until I got older and realized that there wasn't ever anything to be guilty or ashamed about self pleasure or sex

 

[Str4ng3rth4nf1ct1on]

Exhibitionism. Didn’t matter who saw me really, male or female. I used to look for opportunities to be seen naked as often as I could.

 

[AllenJames]

I think the first thing in the real world that I discovered and thought really sexy was the chance glimpse of panties (and discovering panty line) or a glimpse through a loose sleeve, no sleeve, down the collar and seeing a bra strap or even cup (very novel then to me) or a bra covered breast, or (WOW) part or all of an actual breast when there was no bra. Still find such glimpses pleasant and confident women who just accept that they might be flashing you but have decided that that’s your problem are so sexy I think.

 

[Wriggle]

First kink - Looking at photos of naked ladies.
I grew up in a semi rural area and we would find discarded magazines on the hills and in the woods with titles like Fiesta, Escort, Reader's Wives, etc. And I didn't understand why women would pose naked for photos, but I knew I really liked looking at them.
Later, when I would masturbate to these pictures, there was one particularly serious looking woman in thigh high pvc boots and fishnet stockings who I always finished on, this led to my second kink.

 

[ThinkWrite]

Women’s underarms. Remember clearly how it started! I was swimming in a neighbors pool with the girl next door who I had a major crush on. She was floating on an inner tube with her arms stretched back. I noticed her shaved underarms, which made me think of hair in other places on her… Love seeing that part of a woman, the beginning of her breasts. Lifelong fascination!

 

[Swuchmann]

Wearing women’s thongs with anal masturbation. Late teens.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

it started in when i was younger and took a pair of my mom's panties into my room. She walked in on me one night while i was sitting on the end of the bed wearing them and touching myself, and quickly backed out and closed the door after we made eye contact. Later she put a new pair of white silk/lace panties into my underwear drawer, but never said a word to me about either incident. That solidified my love for playing in panties, and for older women (i have ZERO interest in sexual activity with my own mother, but an older, understanding, nurturing "mom-type" i can be a VERY good boy for.) So is that one fetish or two? It's most absolutely the BEST when i get to play in panties with that older woman. Um um um......

 

[jbeardo1]

Nipples voyeurism and breasts. Saw my friends older (by about 6 years) sisters bare breasts pop out as she was getting changed at a lake beach. I didnt know it was arousal then. But the image of how thick pink and form her nipples were after the cool water is burned in my brain.

She was and remains my go-to mental image for masturbating sessions.

Created a lifelong love of nipples peeping through top bikini t shirts slips and purposeful exposures.

Love to chat about it still! Feel free to say hi

 

[CarlyAnn]

Getting fingered in public. Even got fingered at Fenway Park with a Red Sox yearbook in my lap. And many times in movie theaters.

 

[jaF0]

It almost never fails.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/for-those-who-start-first-time-threads.1581356/

 

[jaF0]

Y'all just can't help yourselves ....