The Femdom Myth exposed

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There was a post recently about 'are Dommes or is Femdom real'.
This link is to a true, 100% fact based story that LitE released:
https://literotica.com/s/three-cam-sessions
That is my experience with real world, not for fee dommes. Now would I want to be in a FLR? Where my wife or partner had total control like we read in all these fictional stories? I do not think so.

That said my not for fee, real life Domme, runs my sexual world now via Gmail/Skype and Keep.
Day 20 of no orgasms, since I wrote this 'story' which is actually , a condensed chat stream, and then text around the video sessions, we do.
She is real fellas!
Its interesting that the claiming of cock, balls and ass and orgasms, does indeed bleed over to your IRL world. Due to the tasking, the training and what not. But so far it has been manageable and my Miss provides me with tasks based on my circumstances and her availability.

Its amazing so far now that we reconnected the rewiring that is going on in my noob subbie brain. I'm learning a lot about what matters as a sub, what matters to a Mistress and why my orgasm is not important to me any more.
Her great pleasure is seeing me squirm and beg, and moan for release.
My joy was cuming whenever allowed, its slowly changing to be me acknowledging that the ache or discomfort or humiliation are all steps to better service, and finding other ways to gain pleasure, that she desires for me.

There are lots of mind games being played, lots of discussion and sharing. She tolerates my think pieces I share on Keep, making comment sometimes or just popping a little Good Boy. 'Tat makes me hard when I see one. LOL

At some point we will move to me having a remote control butt plug [we use 3 different remote toys in our play among other things] in as much as possible, so she can command me, control me and make sure I do not forget whos ass it really is. I'm approaching all that with trepidation, and a tiny bit of titillation, it probably not big enough to make me p-spot O, just enough to let me know its there and spreading me. I'm always in the dark as to what is next on my journey with her.

My days are always different, or I should say weeks. Since we at the moment tend to work in weekly chunks. For instance this past week I had to wear my wife panties every day. Write her a 2k+ essay of 4 kinks she wants me to explore. Then switch to no underwear, and a cold shower each morning. I had to sit to pee, no touching to wash unless with a cloth, no sexual stimulation with porn. No orgasms, if my partner requires sex, I could do all the acts to please her with no pleasure for myself.
 
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Where did you find her?
I'd say I'm not telling. But honestly she posted once or twice here and I pinged her. Caught Miss in a moment of weakness and now she has an inexperienced sub, for which she is also adjusting to my lack of experience and tempering her approach... so both of us learn. Me much so more than her.
I'm like an aggressive puppy. She loves kicking puppies but realises that is not the best way to break me. So she slaps instead.
 
Not sure what u mean or imply.
My D is a member here a d on fet. What
Do you mean friend?
 
There was a post recently about 'are Dommes or is Femdom real'.
This link is to a true, 100% fact based story that LitE released:
https://literotica.com/s/three-cam-sessions
That is my experience with real world, not for fee dommes. Now would I want to be in a FLR? Where my wife or partner had total control like we read in all these fictional stories? I do not think so.

That said my not for fee, real life Domme, runs my sexual world now via Gmail/Skype and Keep.
Day 20 of no orgasms, since I wrote this 'story' which is actually , a condensed chat stream, and then text around the video sessions, we do.
She is real fellas!
Its interesting that the claiming of cock, balls and ass and orgasms, does indeed bleed over to your IRL world. Due to the tasking, the training and what not. But so far it has been manageable and my Miss provides me with tasks based on my circumstances and her availability.

Its amazing so far now that we reconnected the rewiring that is going on in my noob subbie brain. I'm learning a lot about what matters as a sub, what matters to a Mistress and why my orgasm is not important to me any more.
Her great pleasure is seeing me squirm and beg, and moan for release.
My joy was cuming whenever allowed, its slowly changing to be me acknowledging that the ache or discomfort or humiliation are all steps to better service, and finding other ways to gain pleasure, that she desires for me.

There are lots of mind games being played, lots of discussion and sharing. She tolerates my think pieces I share on Keep, making comment sometimes or just popping a little Good Boy. 'Tat makes me hard when I see one. LOL

At some point we will move to me having a remote control butt plug [we use 3 different remote toys in our play among other things] in as much as possible, so she can command me, control me and make sure I do not forget whos ass it really is. I'm approaching all that with trepidation, and a tiny bit of titillation, it probably not big enough to make me p-spot O, just enough to let me know its there and spreading me. I'm always in the dark as to what is next on my journey with her.

My days are always different, or I should say weeks. Since we at the moment tend to work in weekly chunks. For instance this past week I had to wear my wife panties every day. Write her a 2k+ essay of 4 kinks she wants me to explore. Then switch to no underwear, and a cold shower each morning. I had to sit to pee, no touching to wash unless with a cloth, no sexual stimulation with porn. No orgasms, if my partner requires sex, I could do all the acts to please her with no pleasure for myself.
You have found someone to lead you down the true path to submission. It’s all about the relationship
 
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