Sapiosexuals unite

[Inthelastrow]

Love intelligent woman. Love the mental stimulation, the chatting, the sharing, the possibilities. So sexy! Usually leads to intense sex as well.

 

[Lady2020]

I wish there were a better term for sapiosexual. Until that day happens, most of us will continue to google the term for the hundredth time.

 

[crashD]

Sapiosexual: a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.

Would you count yourself among the sapiosexual crowd? Who do you find particularly arousing?

Over the years there have been a few men I've found highly stimulating, both intellectually and physically.

My current sapiosexual crush is Peter Zeihan. Damn, I love starting my day listening to his brief geopolitical videos. Something about his casual style and intelligence turns me on so much!

I’m trying to figure out who my current sapiosexual crush is.

Have a few ideas. Well, one in particular

 

[UWERETHINKINGIT]

What’s it called if you’re: a person who finds imbecilic behavior sexually attractive or arousing?

 

[NC_Coastal]

MAGA

 

[Stopokochac]

Oh yeah, I'm DEFINITELY a sapiosexual. I've gotten aroused in class before when my female friend/classmate said something intelligent during lecture.

 

[LoneMilf]

Intelligence shows itself in many different ways. For me, it means that I'm good at spotting patterns and developments, and I can very often predict where a conversation is going or what will happen next. This can be intensely boring! As a result, I find it very attractive when someone is able to keep a conversation unpredictable and interesting - which requires at least some level of intelligence too.

What's attractive to me, is not that someone knows a lot of facts or has great logic reasoning skills - it's specifically the intelligence driven conversation skills that make a difference

 

[Wand3rlust]

I find intelligence very attractive and sexy. However the attitude of the intelligent person is key.

 

[Inthelastrow]

I recently had a very stimulating hours-long conversation with a lovely, intelligent woman over beers. It didn't lead to the bedroom for very good reasons. But spending time with her was extremely stimulating and sexy in its own way. Certainly a nice outcome if skin to skin contact cannot be made.

 

[inadequate]

Intelligence and kindness are the two biggest factors for me. Sure, if someone is nice to look at, it’s great - but it’s secondary to a real intellectual connection. The real spark comes from the mind.

 

[jsmiam]

This was my favorite thread. I will quash all urges to make a sapiovirus pun!

 

[Bojackennedy]

I don't know if I would define myself with such a label, but intelligence and passion and critical thinking and self awareness is extremely attractive to me.

Married to a sense of playfulness and wit, and watch me melt.

 

[Britva415]

To the extent that sapiosexuality is more than just "having a type," I'm not sapiosexual. But smart people are definitely my type. Smart faces are more compelling to look at.

Once in a while my "smart-dar" (like gaydar only for smarts) fails. I'll spot someone who looks smart, talk to her, and cringe. It's rare. I can't remember a time when someone turned out to be smart and I didn't already know it before hearing them talk.

 

[MrDevereaux]

Intelligence, to me, has always been sexy, but like other posters have said: there are many different intelligences. You find attractive what you find attractive, it may not fit into those boxes that everyone is fond of. Having the ability to create worlds, conjure characters, elicit emotions with words on the page. This website is built on the premise of words building eroticism. Words giving the readers a different experience, allowing the theatre of the mind to become that place where you are you.

To me, a person is attractive if they know their own mind; are more than happy to extol the virtues of their own interest, but allow you to express yours or make enquiries about your world view. Humour figures in there, the word play.

 

[Mike130]

Physical beauty is only one manifestation of attraction, intelligence is another. When I first met my wife I was smitten by her looks, body etc., but that was only the surface as we got more deeply involved, I realized her intelligence was off the charts, and her thoughts complimented mine in ways I couldn’t imagine.

It’s an interesting dynamic; as physical beauty wanes to a degree, intelligence and imagination, which were always important, become even more prevalent and make sexual experiences more intense, verbal, and experimental.

I still consider my wife incredibly beautiful, but her imagination and her vocalization of those desires in the bedroom have made her even more attractive.

Intelligence is the icing on the cake.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Sapiosexual: a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.

Would you count yourself among the sapiosexual crowd? Who do you find particularly arousing?

Over the years there have been a few men I've found highly stimulating, both intellectually and physically.

My current sapiosexual crush is Peter Zeihan. Damn, I love starting my day listening to his brief geopolitical videos. Something about his casual style and intelligence turns me on so much!

Definitely! I love engaging women in deep intellectual conversation. Great way to connect.

 

[Britva415]

Would you count yourself among the sapiosexual crowd?

No, because I don't consider it a sexual orientation.

Smart is my type, though. But that's all - it's my type, not my orientation.

 

[jsmiam]

Definitely! I love engaging women in deep intellectual conversation. Great way to connect.

Ok. Somebody’s got to say it. And I’ll step up. I’m not afraid!

Huh huh. Hey Beavis, He said, “deep.“

 

[Oshkosh60]

you forgot

Sharpieosexual - attracted to intelligent people who engage in erotic Sharpie use

 

[geronimo_appleby]

dammit, no boob pics here...

 

[Paradox]

Whether the term refers to intelligence, wisdom, or both, I'm in. As long as they aren't arrogant about it.

In fact, having read through this thread, I think I may be on the path to developing a few new crushes.

 

[Kenrychard]

I think its a bogus subject. I am the smartest guy I know. Well, maybe the smartest guy sitting at my desk right now. It's never gotten me laid. LOL. Even the SMART girls wanted fucked by the asshole jocks. And me, I have dated a couple of gals who couldn't balance a check book. One of them burned up my transmission because she couldn't tell 3rd from 5th and didn't realize that high pitch winding up sound was the engine and transmission, and that the red line on the tachometer was BAD. Yikes never again. I much prefer women with a brain. But it's not what attracts me.. its just a basic required trait if you want a relationship with any kind of equality and legs to last. One of my best friends and a girl I desperately wanted to date was an Engineer from Stanford, I was an Engineer from Rose Hulman Inst. We had a thousand things in common, hung out ALL the time, never fought... she wouldn't date me because I was too short. But Goddamn she had great legs. The kind of legs that just drew my eyes from ankle to crotch and made my mouth water wanting to eat her pussy. 18 months after marrying her jock she tried to start an affair with me. Told her to get lost, go back to her husband. Cheating just isn't cool. And her husband was a good guy. Sometimes smart people are actually pretty fucking stupid.

 

[Justfantasies]

Intellectual women are looking for men who appreciate their intelligence. They present themselves intelligent and treat sex intelligently

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

Intelligence comes in all shapes and forms. kind eyes, beautiful soul that's what counts most to me.

 

[amigayorbi]

I have always wanted someone to sexually unite with me for my intellect and my expertise is what I do! It would be a different kind of passion. Not sure if someone would get this!