NotHisLady
aimlessly wandering
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- Dec 12, 2012
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To everyone else, I apologize for the hijack. This veered badly off the intended course of the conversation at hand.
While it does take quite a bit to get me 'het up' this is one of my buttons. I should have taken it private rather than continue it here however.
In any case it is obviously time to disengage and get back to the matter at hand.
To that end I would like to renew my previous question:
Around here people talk to each other as a matter of course. It isn't strange or off-putting but it doesn't necessarily mean anything either.
Honestly I've never been much good at turning those few friendly words into anything but a few friendly words. Having been married for ages I haven't needed to worry about it much but before that I was hopeless.
There is a possibility that in the not too distant future I'll be needing that skill again and I still don't believe that every guy who stops to say hi is making a move.
Guys--how do I tell the difference between just being nice and wanting to extend that short conversation?
While it does take quite a bit to get me 'het up' this is one of my buttons. I should have taken it private rather than continue it here however.
In any case it is obviously time to disengage and get back to the matter at hand.
To that end I would like to renew my previous question:
Around here people talk to each other as a matter of course. It isn't strange or off-putting but it doesn't necessarily mean anything either.
Honestly I've never been much good at turning those few friendly words into anything but a few friendly words. Having been married for ages I haven't needed to worry about it much but before that I was hopeless.
There is a possibility that in the not too distant future I'll be needing that skill again and I still don't believe that every guy who stops to say hi is making a move.
Guys--how do I tell the difference between just being nice and wanting to extend that short conversation?