KimGordon67
Rampant feminist
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Following on from a thread that I start a while back (http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1287864), various other discussions I've had in here, and a fairly 'interesting' year in my own life, I had a sudden epiphany the other day. Contemporary western culture, and indeed most Judeo-Christian cultures and many others besides, have tended to present monogamy as the ideal - and preferably heterosexual monogamy practiced within the institution of marriage. However, while this is theoretically what we're 'meant' to be doing, evidence clearly suggests that it's not what a great deal of people actually want ... or even what they actually do ... yet they are consistently cast as morally suspect.
It suddenly struck me that instead of trying to 'fix' those who aren't (or don't want to be) monogamous, maybe we should think about changing the system so monogamy isn't the ideal.
(I suspect this only works if you take religion and banal evolutionary psychological explanations for human behaviour out of the mix.)
It suddenly struck me that instead of trying to 'fix' those who aren't (or don't want to be) monogamous, maybe we should think about changing the system so monogamy isn't the ideal.
(I suspect this only works if you take religion and banal evolutionary psychological explanations for human behaviour out of the mix.)
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