lc69hunter
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I still have one author on ignore because of his comments when I first discovered the Board and was still struggling to find my way up here.
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Maybe it's time to give 'em another chance.I still have one author on ignore because of his comments when I first discovered the Board and was still struggling to find my way up here.
Maybe it's time for them to mend their ways and not expect others to accommodate their shitty behaviour?Maybe it's time to give 'em another chance.
Why? If they were a super-jerk two or three years ago when you put them on Ignore, why do you think they'll have changed in the meantime?Maybe it's time to give 'em another chance.
I say…fuck em! (Metaphorically, not literally).Maybe it's time to give 'em another chance.
Yes my second reply to your post!Maybe it's time to give 'em another chance.
I think bullying someone is not about rationality, it’s about being a bellend to others often for your own sense of self-gratification. It’s not big or clever.Human beings are not always rational creatures.
If you decide to remain in the puddle, embrace the mud or ignore it, but stop fucking whining about it!
Sometimes I get the impression that you dislike being here and are ashamed of having the need to express yourself on a website such as this one.Human beings are not always rational creatures. For example, in a scenario where they are given the choice between receiving $150 immediately or waiting one month for $180, a significant majority would opt for the immediate $150, even though it means sacrificing a 20 percent increase in return. On the other hand, if the options are revised to $150 in one year or $180 in 13 months, the overwhelming majority would choose to wait an extra month for the additional $30.
Now, with this realization, let's pause for a moment and view our current surroundings. We are on an erotic/sex/porn website, which naturally attracts all kinds of freaks and deviants, both readers and writers. Regardless of the narratives we may construct to justify our presence, the unfortunate truth is that mentally sound people don't typically spend a significant amount of their leisure time on such sites.
Once you enter this murky puddle, you should expect to get dirty. Hoping to receive only love and support in the vast realm of the internet is simply unrealistic.
Those who spread negativity are likely not in a good place. I'm not suggesting that we should condone their behavior, but we can choose to respond with tolerance and compassion. Just as happy people don't cheat, they don't bully either.
If you decide to remain in the puddle, embrace the mud or ignore it, but stop fucking whining about it!
That's a very well stated observation.... We are on an erotic/sex/porn website, which naturally attracts all kinds of freaks and deviants, both readers and writers. Regardless of the narratives we may construct to justify our presence, the unfortunate truth is that mentally sound people don't typically spend a significant amount of their leisure time on such sites.
Once you enter this murky puddle, you should expect to get dirty. Hoping to receive only love and support in the vast realm of the internet is simply unrealistic.
Those who spread negativity are likely not in a good place. I'm not suggesting that we should condone their behavior, but we can choose to respond with tolerance and compassion. Just as happy people don't cheat, they don't bully either.
If you decide to remain in the puddle, embrace the mud or ignore it, but stop fucking whining about it!
Human beings are not always rational creatures. For example, in a scenario where they are given the choice between receiving $150 immediately or waiting one month for $180, a significant majority would opt for the immediate $150, even though it means sacrificing a 20 percent increase in return. On the other hand, if the options are revised to $150 in one year or $180 in 13 months, the overwhelming majority would choose to wait an extra month for the additional $30.
I think our difference in opinions stems mostly from our understanding of what "mentally sound" means.I like your apologetic tone...
Now deal with it!
But not the moderator of the AH. Lynn is great as a moderator.The problem, certainly here, is that there is no unbiased moderation. in fact one of the biggest bullies is now a moderator - so there really is no hope
“Mentally sound”I think our difference in opinions stems mostly from our understanding of what "mentally sound" means.
the unfortunate truth is that mentally sound people don't typically spend a significant amount of their leisure time on such sites.
Lol, I forgot about this throwaway comment until this morning I find half a dozen indignant replies! All I meant was in lc's specific case, after a few years, maybe check in again, but I didn't even mean that in a serious way. It was more of a light quipYes my second reply to your post!
It's easy to read too much into words at times, so you may have been suggesting the iggy button was used in a moment of anger as a reflex? I've done that and later taken the person off iggy for a second chance. Sometimes they go back on.... On, Off, On, Off. I hope they'll become seasick if I rattle them up enough.
Some think the iggy button is overly dramatic or weak 'You need to toughen up and face your enemies!' but personally I see it as bug-screen and a means of avoiding irritation. People can use iggy as they may but it's for them to decide, not us.
The bullying happens through PMs and by anonymous messages to the author and using alts so when one is ignored another appears. And yes, the general board is the origin of the shit show but apparently they can get out of there.If anyone here thinks there is bullying going on in the AH, I suggest you step over to the General Board or the Political board to see what real bullying and who the real asshats are.
This place is a picnic as compared to most places on the WWW. In any case, for the newbies around, this place was quite toxic not too long ago. Almost all the good posters were run off by a few asshats in purple pajamas.
As someone said, whining about things never helps. Put whoever you think is bullying on ignore and enjoy the rest. Funny thing is, some people will soon have no one to talk too as they have everyone on ignore.
As a note, I double space between thoughts for one and so it is not a solid wall of text for another. My balls are fine.
Historically the GB was a bear pit but they all got pushed into Politics by Laurel. The GB is where I go if things get snarky here. I've been over there quite a bit recently.The bullying happens through PMs and by anonymous messages to the author and using alts so when one is ignored another appears. And yes, the general board is the origin of the shit show but apparently they can get out of there.
Whenever I think of supposed normal people I immediately think of Reginald Christie.Another broad statement with not an iota of anything to back it up.
Why would a mentally sound person be less likely to spend a significant amount of leisure time reading erotic stories than, say, building model trains or collecting stamps? I can't think of any reason. Erotic stories are fun, creative, kinky, arousing. Reading and writing are great activities. Seems like a healthy thing to me.
In order to designate someone as "mentally unsound" (or "disordered") as a result of some behavior, it's necessary to demonstrate that the behavior is intrinsically harmful in some way (e.g., cutting oneself) or that it impairs the necessary functions of one's life (e.g., drinking to the point that one doesn't show up for work). "It seems icky to me" doesn't cut it. There may be some readers and writers who spend so much time here that it impairs their functioning in some way, but my guess is that for the vast majority it's no different from model trains or stamps (though presumably more sexually arousing).
Whenever I think of supposed normal people I immediately think of Reginald Christie.
Excessive normality always seems to be a mask over something darker, with the exception of Mr Rogers.
I think he was a thoughtful person who reflected on his actions, and corrected them when he recognized that he made a mistake. I remember one story he told about snapping at his grandson, and apologizing to him the next day.Excessive normality always seems to be a mask over something darker, with the exception of Mr Rogers.
Damn, I want to have a wife that will say such delightful things about me when I pass away...His wife said in a documentary about him that he loved to fart in public.
Ah, I'm sorry to hear that. I seem to be left out of all that, I'm glad to say. Laurel being notified can work since she has the isp's to find the culprits and she will and has in the past.The bullying happens through PMs and by anonymous messages to the author and using alts so when one is ignored another appears. And yes, the general board is the origin of the shit show but apparently they can get out of there.