COVID-19 RESOURCES
LIT CAMS (200 Free Tokens)ADULT TOYSVOD MOVIES

Married and orally bi curious

ScottMtl said:
Hello All

New to Lit as a member but long time reader; this is my first post

This thread seems to act (in a way) as a support group - and I don't mean that in a negative sense.

I'm 35, mwm, happily so and my wife and I have incredible often knock down, sweaty, screaming, bed shaking sex.

I have always had a high sex drive and up to about 2 years ago was not in the least bit interested in any m/m contact. I was a swinger for a time before marriage and even then the thought of doing anything with another guy was not an option.

I have (since about 3 years ago) gotten a bit more interested in doing some things with 'buddy'. I am very much turned on by the idea of having a friend with whom I can chat about sex (porn or wives) and jo with. I've since done this 2 times in person - and the experience was very rewarding.

I don't consider my self gay or bi, not that those labels are bad - they just don't describe me and I came to this conclusion after lots of soul searching. I have read some posts on Lit where some participants berate those (like me) who claim to be straight but are not "bi" or "gay" - i don't subscribe to that ideology (labels) and certainly don't like intimidation. I know what & who I am. I am not in the least bit interested in men emotionally or physically, but I do admit that I am turned on by the idea of hanging out naked with another married guy my age or older and spending the afternoon edging until we shoot. If the friend is someone I grow to trust completely - I admit - I am also open to the idea of swapping hand-jobs, frotting, and oral.

perhaps some of you are the same - but I am totally turned off by the idea of kissing, hugging, cuddling, making out, or anything femme, or rimming, or anal ... again, ok for others, but these just don't appeal to me.

was very difficult to find others who have similar characteristics - but I found this thread. Too bad so many of us are so far part.

I've come to conclude - as many of you have - that sexuality is a spectrum ... a sliding scale if you will. I'd like to believe that I, as many of you on here are, are just opened minded enough to enjoy things that are not strictly on one end.

thank you for reading.

Scott
Click to expand...

you nailed it... although, I'm past the curious stage...Guess I"m curious 2.0... I've always thought it would be great to have the FWB where the wives got along (no I'm not talking G./G.) least amount of sneaking round I guess.
Hon, i'm playing golf or going fishing...we're watching the game Saturday. Wives are cool, only there maybe some between hole or half time shenanigans...

buddy to chat with...getting it off your chest. Most men even have erotic pix of their wives...talking wives, and other issues, trading pix...that can turn into fun times
 
klippert said:
you nailed it... although, I'm past the curious stage...Guess I"m curious 2.0... I've always thought it would be great to have the FWB where the wives got along (no I'm not talking G./G.) least amount of sneaking round I guess.
Hon, i'm playing golf or going fishing...we're watching the game Saturday. Wives are cool, only there maybe some between hole or half time shenanigans...

buddy to chat with...getting it off your chest. Most men even have erotic pix of their wives...talking wives, and other issues, trading pix...that can turn into fun times
Click to expand...

EXACTLY my scenario!
 
ricklawson9171978 said:
I've been happily married for years but find myself fantasizing more and more and sucking a man and being sucked by a man. The thoughts of kissing, body contact or anal do not appeal to me, just mutual oral. Anyone else in the same boat?
Click to expand...
I count myself in this peculiar fellowship, and this describes it perfectly--plus the title very apt and SUCcinct--orally curious!
 
klippert said:
you nailed it... although, I'm past the curious stage...Guess I"m curious 2.0... I've always thought it would be great to have the FWB where the wives got along (no I'm not talking G./G.) least amount of sneaking round I guess.
Hon, i'm playing golf or going fishing...we're watching the game Saturday. Wives are cool, only there maybe some between hole or half time shenanigans...

buddy to chat with...getting it off your chest. Most men even have erotic pix of their wives...talking wives, and other issues, trading pix...that can turn into fun times
Click to expand...

This right here sounds like my dream situation as well.
 
Same here

Jsec8 said:
I've been just orally curious for awhile. No experience though. I have fantasizes about have a biguy friend with benefits. We look like to regular guys but what no one knows is we enjoy going. Down on each other any chance we get. I'm not into cross dressing or anal or anything like that. Just exchanging blow jobs. I'd like to chat with someone that would enjoy that. PM me we can chat, exchange pics / vids if it works out.
Click to expand...

I feel the same. Hard to find the right situation
 
Last edited:
klippert said:
... I've always thought it would be great to have the FWB where the wives got along (no I'm not talking G./G.) least amount of sneaking round I guess.
Hon, i'm playing golf or going fishing...we're watching the game Saturday. Wives are cool, only there maybe some between hole or half time shenanigans...

buddy to chat with...getting it off your chest. Most men even have erotic pix of their wives...talking wives, and other issues, trading pix...that can turn into fun times
Click to expand...
Agreed. That is the ideal situation for us married, closeted, bi guys. Having a BWB (buddy with benefits) or two or three to take off with for a few days to go fishing, hunting, hiking or camping. Oh, the things two guys can do in a tent in the wilderness!!! I've had a few in my lifetime, and they've all been great. But it leaves one to wonder........what are the wives doing while we're away????:rolleyes:
 
Married and enjoy sucking cock.

Recently met a married guy and have had the Hottest times ever!!
 
Hi there

Would love to meet a married guy after the same as me, how did you meet them? Did you know them already? Who initiated it? Sooo many questions!....
 
badonkadoku said:
I count myself in this peculiar fellowship, and this describes it perfectly--plus the title very apt and SUCcinct--orally curious!
Click to expand...

I love sucking cock, but I have not done it in a long time. However, don't knock the pleasures of anal stimulation until you've tried it.

I think the best would be for me to cam with another fellow who masturbated while enjoying pictures of my wife. :)
 
ScottMtl said:
I am not in the least bit interested in men emotionally or physically, but I do admit that I am turned on by the idea of hanging out naked with another married guy my age or older and spending the afternoon edging until we shoot. If the friend is someone I grow to trust completely - I admit - I am also open to the idea of swapping hand-jobs, frotting, and oral.
Click to expand...

Mmm. Especially if we're looking at each other's wives. :)
 
Bi curious

Glad to find this thread. Im. Bi curious married man, want to suck some cock, get mine sucked with. Frotting sounds fun as well. Haven't found a friend yet.
 
ricklawson9171978 said:
Any married bi or bi curious guys want to chat, share fantasies, etc...? I've been happily married for years but find myself fantasizing more and more and sucking a man and being sucked by a man. The thoughts of kissing, body contact or anal do not appeal to me, just mutual oral. Anyone else in the same boat? Thanks!
Click to expand...
I was very curious for years. I finally took the chance earlier this year and loved it!
Oral receiving and giving is great! To feel his soft head and hard shaft slide by my lips was such a great feeling!
 
guns44 said:
Always considered myself straight, and love my wife, but pictures of hard cocks really get me going lately. Im not into men kissing or anal, but would love to play with a cock
Click to expand...

thats the same way. maybe facing each other blindfolded stroking our hard cocks togather all wet slippery with precum. mmmmmmmmmmmm that sounds hot or sucking each others cock all wet at the same time of course .
 
Scott[/QUOTE]

I had done some things early in life but repressed or hid them until I met a woman after my divorce that used those exact words, "a sliding scale". We discussed many things and explored several. She was the first person to allow me to acknowledge that part of me. Although I still haven't made it a reality again, it is very much a part of my sexual mindset now.

I think one of the challenges for me is that I'm not generally open with guys even in a non sexual context, so I have no idea how to cross that threshold of exposure.

Random musings on a Tuesday morning.[/QUOTE]

Same here
 
would love if guys on here would at least post the state they're in instead of "midwest' or similar. love to find an older Charlotte area man to suck.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

W
34 bi male
Replies
2
Views
214
Schalk3070
S
K
Married Ontario bi female looking to play…
Replies
8
Views
591
Schalk3070
S
A
Bi opportunistic guys like myself?
Replies
11
Views
571
Bi_Guy50
B
T
Any bi curious married guys in Tas
Replies
3
Views
190
Bonebibrain
B
Wife4MMF
Toronto & GTA Couple
Replies
14
Views
644
wideboybrown
wideboybrown
Back
Top