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slavecaro

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This question is specifically for public kinky play that does not force the vanilla public to knowingly be exposed to your scene. E.g. Having someone spank you in public while you are tied to streetlamp would force the public to be exposed to your scene without their consent. On the other hand wearing a chastity belt would not.

How would you do discrete public play? I have a few ideas and I am sure it really involves the person and what would make them self conscious or turn them on.

1. Wearing a chastity belt
2. A male wearing a womens closthing under their own
3. Being driven around while handcuffed
4. Tied up on a hotel balcony below sight of anyone. (There could be a whole scene here)
5. Tied up near a road or in the woods but out of sight of people.
6. Vibrating toys
7. FOrced to dress sexily if you are uncomfortable getting lots of attention
8. Diapers in public
9. Wearing extremely long nails (2+inches) This draws a lot of attention and makes tasks difficult
10. Hands tied together inside of a hoody front pocket or in pockets of pants or jacket
11. Chewing on a condom filled with cum


I know the list is only limited by how creative you are but the key here is that the public should not know that something kinky is going on. It should also be erotic to the Domme or sub.
 
One time I went biking with nothing on under my smooth latex raingear (trousers) except for a cock ring and some lube. Pedaling gave me a boner and almost an orgasm. Nobody could tell what was going on.
 
Bigboobbabe said:
I often go pantyless to work when wearing a skirt or dress.

Flashing truckers topless on highways.

Stroked young FWB to orgasm many times while I was driving
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That's so sexy, and FWB was so blooming lucky, both getting it, especially off you. Wanna be a trucker where you live please.
 
There are two elements you can consider to answer the question: Place and time.

You can pick a place that'll keep you away from kids or families or vanilla-minded people. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to witness public sex and 'consent' in a public place isn't always promised.

Pick woods or parks that are quiet, especially when kids are in school. Pick places that are adult-only, like specific bars, movie theaters showing R-rated movies (not porn, just movies that little kids wouldn't go see), or if you want to slut it up, go to actual adult bookstores. Every person in an ABS is kind of hoping to see live sex and nudity or exhibitionism.

The time counts too. Sure, being nude in a window or balcony is hot but doing it at 3:30 pm, Tuesday afternoon, is a lot different from it being 11:30 at night on a Saturday.

My wife and I have played in public over the years. We're discreet about the location and the time. That has saved us from any issues and we've enjoyed her exhibitionism and sex that followed.
 
My fantasies, having my wife scold me in front of other women, with a hint that when we get home, I will suffer! Nope! She has never done that.
 
My wife once sent me to the grocery store wearing a vibrating butt plug. It was wildly hot, I had prostate otrgasns just driving there (dry ones, not ejaculatory ones).

Once I got there my wife had me FaceTime her. She asked me all kinds of questions, some mildly sexual (knowing I was in a store filled with people) but mostly just sort of getting off that I was having prostate orgasms left right and center while I was shopping.

She FaceTimed me again a few minutes later “having thought of a few additional things to pickup.” It really increased my own personal humiliation and embarrassment.

I remember using self check out and really prostate orgasming hard!

No one at the store was any the wiser.
 
Wonderer67 said:
My wife once sent me to the grocery store wearing a vibrating butt plug. It was wildly hot, I had prostate otrgasns just driving there (dry ones, not ejaculatory ones).

Once I got there my wife had me FaceTime her. She asked me all kinds of questions, some mildly sexual (knowing I was in a store filled with people) but mostly just sort of getting off that I was having prostate orgasms left right and center while I was shopping.

She FaceTimed me again a few minutes later “having thought of a few additional things to pickup.” It really increased my own personal humiliation and embarrassment.

I remember using self check out and really prostate orgasming hard!

No one at the store was any the wiser.
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That sounds so hot.
 
I'm very vanilla with this but I'll wear sweat pants or shorts sans underwear. The thought of someone catching a glimpse of my cock outline turns me on and usually ends up with my cock getting a little swollen.

I've also worn a butt plug to work or out in public. This is such a turn on. I often wonder, when I'm out shopping, how many people are walking around with a plug buried inside.
 
It's very difficult to do it in a way that isn't creepy or overt. The furthest I'll go is wearing a thong under my trousers with a short t-shirt I know will ride up over my waistband, then crouching or bending over e.g. while shopping. I like the idea of somebody catching a glimpse and thinking either "what a kinky fucker (or maybe just a pervert)" but not overdoing it, so they can look away or ignore it if they wish.

I am a total exhibitionist by nature but there's a world of trouble you can get into with non-consensual behaviour, so I wouldn't dream of exposing any more than a flash of panties in a non-confrontational way.
 
cdstefi said:
It's very difficult to do it in a way that isn't creepy or overt. The furthest I'll go is wearing a thong under my trousers with a short t-shirt I know will ride up over my waistband, then crouching or bending over e.g. while shopping. I like the idea of somebody catching a glimpse and thinking either "what a kinky fucker (or maybe just a pervert)" but not overdoing it, so they can look away or ignore it if they wish.

I am a total exhibitionist by nature but there's a world of trouble you can get into with non-consensual behaviour, so I wouldn't dream of exposing any more than a flash of panties in a non-confrontational way.
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I once had a bunch of Hells Angels stay over. The growliest,angry one always wore a tiny thong. Just showing over the waistband.
Usually pink. Always a thrill to catch a peek😊
 
slavecaro said:
This question is specifically for public kinky play that does not force the vanilla public to knowingly be exposed to your scene. E.g. Having someone spank you in public while you are tied to streetlamp would force the public to be exposed to your scene without their consent. On the other hand wearing a chastity belt would not.

How would you do discrete public play? I have a few ideas and I am sure it really involves the person and what would make them self conscious or turn them on.

1. Wearing a chastity belt
2. A male wearing a womens closthing under their own
3. Being driven around while handcuffed
4. Tied up on a hotel balcony below sight of anyone. (There could be a whole scene here)
5. Tied up near a road or in the woods but out of sight of people.
6. Vibrating toys
7. FOrced to dress sexily if you are uncomfortable getting lots of attention
8. Diapers in public
9. Wearing extremely long nails (2+inches) This draws a lot of attention and makes tasks difficult
10. Hands tied together inside of a hoody front pocket or in pockets of pants or jacket
11. Chewing on a condom filled with cum


I know the list is only limited by how creative you are but the key here is that the public should not know that something kinky is going on. It should also be erotic to the Domme or sub.
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Wow, good question, great thread with some be hell of an imagination
 
Rather than being seen, I have a strong fetish for being heard. Most obviously in hotels.

There's something about staying somewhere anonymous, and having vocal, bedspring creaking, headboard-banging sex loud enough to be heard by others. Even better if you can hear somebody else fucking or even masturbating at the same time.

I remember one occasion staying at a Holiday Inn near Heathrow with a woman I was seeing at the time. She was married so we didn't get a lot of chances to see one another and I was determined to make as much of it as possible, so after a bath and massage we were down to it, and making plenty of noise. During mid-thrust I became aware of the sound of someone quite evidently bouncing on the bed next door. We paused a moment and so did the bed noise. Started up again and so did next door. It seemed as if we were being listened to, probably by a single guy, maybe a businessman, and he'd chosen our soundtrack as masturbation material over the porn channel but was attempting to be at least a little discreet about it. So naturally we turned it right up, got into doggy position so I could fuck her really hard with my hips slapping loudly on her buttocks and working the poor bed for all its frame-creaking worth, and we both got very loudly vocal with dirty talk and moans and could hear the neighbour getting very excitable too, working his bed and panting and moaning. I like to think we had three fairly closely synchronised orgasms, my partner and I announcing we were cumming loud enough to penetrate the wall, although other than vague noises next door wasn't quite so obvious. It all felt deeply kinky and exhibitionist anyway and we had a fun discussion afterwards about how turned on it had made both of us.
 
A great public nudity trick might be to wear sheer black or otherwise colored pantyhose without a skirt or panties. A more timid person might start out with higher opaque tights, but gradually work their way up to more risqué, and less opaque pantyhose. Wearing a top, and pantyhose like that, if stopped by the police, it can just be said you are wearing "leggings". They might argue the point, but since a person is not truly naked, it would probably just end with a stern warning to go home and put something more appropriate on. Still, for an exhibitionist that does not want to go to jail, the trill of showing so much is still there. This is a tactic Jeny Smith often employs.
 
A tactic my ex-wife and I used, who was a timid exhibitionist, was for me to "strip her naked" in the car. I put that in quotes because while I had to force her naked, but she never put up much of a fight; trust me. In that, where she was fully naked, there was a lot of control.

Such drives could be done in the daytime or nighttime. Nighttime drives were less revealing, BUT it depended if it was rural or urban, the latter meaning streetlights meant people could see her nudity. I could pick my route and have her streetlit for longer or shorter amounts of time. Or how about a true scare and driving past a police station? Getting a late-night burger through a drive-thru? But drives could mean she had her dress to cover herself up with, or if it was tossed in the backseat, she was forced to always be naked no matter where I drove. But the length of drive could also be adjusted; a twenty minute cruise with her naked around the neighborhood, or a long naked road trip...

There was a lot of control in how much exposure she got with naked drives.
 
Location can play a huge role.

We have a local park where there are huge boulders on the beach. While she was not naked in view of everyone, and it would take someone quickly approaching from a certain direction to see us, she would sun herself naked behind these huge rocks with the thrill coming from not knowing if someone would approach, or if someone from across the bay with binoculars was watching her. It was the "could see her" that she loved.

This applies to the most distant woodlot. In my case I own hundreds of acres of private land, but even naked in such vast stretches of woods, helicopters, low flying planes, atv's, hunters, approaching hunting dogs, have all made her realize just how human-based even rural areas are. For the more timid exhibitionist, keep your clothing with you. For a huge erotic factor, keep it hidden at the start of the hike and plan a circulatory, but nude hike back to it. Start with a short looping hike at first, but you can always make it longer. She was once two miles from her clothing when we heard hunting dogs. They never tracked us down, but it was a huge rush for her to be so naked, so far from something to cover up with.
 
The days of sunbathing nude on my back porch. 😁
I think I was seen once by the gas guy checking the meter.

It was before I opened up about my kink with Hubby. But when he found out because my tits were sunburnt I did get a few tit smacks.
Now if my tits were sunburnt for that reason. He would spank them... or call my Dom to spank me.
 
Thanks everyone. I will list a few more I have tried with a partner or doing self play.
1. Shopping while mouth full of cum filled condoms. This is essentially a gag. You don't want to open your mouth
2. Both arms in long arm casts and a neck brace for dinner. It is public bondage but no one realizes it. The attention you get in this type of scenario is extreme.
3. Casts or Braces. Wearing real fiberglass casts or braces in public is debilitating and attracts a lot of attention.
4. Tied in the bed of a truck with dildos and a tonneau cover over you for "errands"
 
A few situations come to mind. Maintain privacy, comfort, and safety is the main concern. Sex in a public park is unwelcome in most circumstances. Do it late at night under a tarp in the back of a pickup truck, you’re considerably more confident. Until the rain starts coming down. And after it’s over, when you see a tree nearby that has visible recent lightning damage.

Similar situation- sex in a public bathroom in a crowded theater is dangerous. Do it with your spouse in a private family bathroom with a friend watching the locked door, not so much.

Similar situation- sex on a public highway is not advised. Unless you’re two people in the backseat of a car with tinted windows and a driver who is able to refrain from paying attention.
 
slavecaro said:
This question is specifically for public kinky play that does not force the vanilla public to knowingly be exposed to your scene. E.g. Having someone spank you in public while you are tied to streetlamp would force the public to be exposed to your scene without their consent. On the other hand wearing a chastity belt would not.

How would you do discrete public play? I have a few ideas and I am sure it really involves the person and what would make them self conscious or turn them on.

1. Wearing a chastity belt
2. A male wearing a womens closthing under their own
3. Being driven around while handcuffed
4. Tied up on a hotel balcony below sight of anyone. (There could be a whole scene here)
5. Tied up near a road or in the woods but out of sight of people.
6. Vibrating toys
7. FOrced to dress sexily if you are uncomfortable getting lots of attention
8. Diapers in public
9. Wearing extremely long nails (2+inches) This draws a lot of attention and makes tasks difficult
10. Hands tied together inside of a hoody front pocket or in pockets of pants or jacket
11. Chewing on a condom filled with cum


I know the list is only limited by how creative you are but the key here is that the public should not know that something kinky is going on. It should also be erotic to the Domme or sub.
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#1 I wear a cock cage
#3 but it was by the cops
#4 was pegged on the balcony
#6 lovense toys are awesome
#11 never in public but great idea.
 
I watched a video where a VERY creative couple went to an art museum. In a flurry of activity, she took off her clothing and posed as if a living nude sculpture while her boyfriend took photos of her. A friend videotaped the whole event of her streaming in, removing her clothes, and posing for pictures. The guards just looked on dumbfounded, not knowing if it was a true art exhibit, or what. By the time they radioed in, were told it was not, the woman put her clothing on and was gone. They never got caught.

I thought it was creative and brazen of them to do that.

It's not really offensive to the public since that kind of place has a lot of nudity in the artwork, so that is something that could also be done.

Heck you could even ask a local artist if you could pose for them, maybe starting out with clothing, and then as you got comfortable with them, doing nude posing.
 
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