davion2308
Motivated
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- Dec 24, 2005
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I'm in a developing relationship with someone and we've recently started having sex. It's fun, it's easy-going, we do well together, but now she's more recently started telling me I can take control or I can have whatever I want or, "If you want it, take it. It's all yours."
I'm confident, I'm comfortable with myself and I'm not shy about trying new things. But I'm not sure how to 'tell' her what to do. Directing traffic isn't an issue and I can communicate but the words themselves aren't coming to me. I laugh when I think about demanding a blowjob or ordering her to do something.
Who does this and how does it work with you? I don't feel like we're tracking toward dom/sub but it's certainly something where she's made jokes about begging me for sex and wanting me to do whatever I want.
How do I control the situation and lead without feeling silly?
Any comments help. Thank you.
I'm confident, I'm comfortable with myself and I'm not shy about trying new things. But I'm not sure how to 'tell' her what to do. Directing traffic isn't an issue and I can communicate but the words themselves aren't coming to me. I laugh when I think about demanding a blowjob or ordering her to do something.
Who does this and how does it work with you? I don't feel like we're tracking toward dom/sub but it's certainly something where she's made jokes about begging me for sex and wanting me to do whatever I want.
How do I control the situation and lead without feeling silly?
Any comments help. Thank you.