Have you sexy explicit pics of your Ex ?

[KatieDoes]

If it is something that matters that much, then I wouldn’t leave it up to some sort of unspoken social code. I feel you are equating someone keeping those pictures for their private enjoyment with spreading them to the world, and that is not an accurate parallel.

No, I’m not.
When the relationship has ended, so has the consent to the pics.

 

[FaithfulToWife]

Keeping the photos is (IMHO) cheating not just your ex, but your new/current partner as well.

 

[Crownvic]

I did at one time...drove me crazy...

 

[Not Normal]

I met my hippy ex-wife when she was still in college, and I was only out for a couple of years. She gifted me a couple of naked photos that she and/or her friend took. Tasteful, hippy girl in the woods type pictures. When we were going through our divorce and had separated rooms, as I was packing I found those and left them on her bed.

 

[Inthesewalls]

I met my hippy ex-wife when she was still in college, and I was only out for a couple of years. She gifted me a couple of naked photos that she and/or her friend took. Tasteful, hippy girl in the woods type pictures. When we were going through our divorce and had separated rooms, as I was packing I found those and left them on her bed.

This man understands consent. Thank you for restoring my faith.

The real issue here as women keep stating is consent. Its not hard to be respectful as this lovely person has pointed out. I honestly think the only people who keep that stuff are really insecure. Its kind of sad actually.

 

[Not Normal]

This man understands consent. Thank you for restoring my faith.

The real issue here as women keep stating is consent. Its not hard to be respectful as this lovely person has pointed out. I honestly think the only people who keep that stuff are really insecure. Its kind of sad actually.

Thank you. Sexual issues were a big part of the dissolution of our marriage, and I both didn't want them but more so thought they should be hers to do with what she pleased. She didn't acknowledge that I'd left them and we've never spoken about it.

 

[Bigspurt]

Once upon a time, I had several photos of my college GF that I took at sunrise at a resort. Basically lust topless photos of her perfect, pert titties. I'm not sure what happened to them. They were on slides and so they are likely in some dusty carousel in the basement.
Some day I'll scan them and they will show up.

 

[goldenknights54]

I say delete them...... show her some respect

 

[Lady2020]

No. Getting rid of them is healthy.

 

[CarlyAnn]

Delete them….an old bf sent me dîck pics a year after we broke up. I forwarded them to his girlfriend. Haven’t heard from him since.

 

[scorpio_lx]

Consent ends with the end of the realtionship, so, unless there is a new agreement, they should be destroyed. Other issues is how healthy it can be and how can affect future realtionships and if the can be compromised or exposed. Who own data, pictures or not, is responsible for keeping them safe and if it doesn't serve any legitimate purpose, destroying it is safer for all and shows respect.

 

[pink]

I'd get rid of them. I think it's the nicest thing to do

 

[Bry1313]

You delete them, this is an easy an obvious answer. Find a new partner to lust after and share images with if that’s what you and your new partner want.

 

[MissyDaddyGirl]

Delete them….an old bf sent me dîck pics a year after we broke up. I forwarded them to his girlfriend. Haven’t heard from him since.

A splendid idea!

I recently had a guy I dated for a while send me nude selfies with a hard on.

 

[OldnCurious]

Unfortunately there was no such things as digital cameras or cell phones when I was with any of my ex-girlfriends. I am sure at least two of them would posed naked for me, but no if I had them I would not post them.

 

[hub495]

an old bf sent me dîck pics a year after we broke up. I forwarded them to his girlfriend.

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[Uncut1969]

I wish I miss her !!!

 

[live4thebj]

I’m not sure what happened to those pictures. Even if they found themselves on the web she wouldn’t mind. Or should I say they wouldn’t mind.

 

[ScottMtl]

No, I’m not.
When the relationship has ended, so has the consent to the pics.

Totally agree

 

[SearchandEnjoy]

I find it interesting that every posting about this, so far, is regarding men keeping photo’s of their ex wife or ex girlfriends. I have been married 19 years (I’m 42) and as a younger college student a long term BF and I would enjoy taking photos of each other and on occasion we could set up some fun photos of us together by using a digital camera with as much as a 20 second delay! I have never shown them to anyone but have kept a few of the most flattering and/or erotic ones in a locked picture file. I admit I occasionally review them when I feel the need. I like seeing myself at age 20 and my BF was a physically impressive athlete on full baseball scholarship at the University…. It’s fun to reminisce.
I am happily married and have never cheated or been with anyone but my husband since our wedding, just to clarify things. I just enjoy seeing sexy (in my opinion) photos of someone I enjoyed sexually when our bodies were in the Prime. Porn is available, obviously, but not the same for me. I’m glad I kept these and will continue to be discreet about them.
Are there other women who have kept intimate photo’s of previous lovers in secret? I’m betting so!

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Lots to unwrap here. I can see both sides. If used only as wank fodder and no chance of being posted or found, no harm no foul?
I do have to agree though. Once the relationship was over, all contracts were cancelled so maybe it’s time for one last stroke then hit the delete button.

I had a number and address from a weekend tryst with a girl from Knoxville whom I met on a long weekend in Panama City, FL. It somehow resided in one of those day calendar things that was in my glove box in my truck. A buddy of mine was rummaging around in there while we were driving one day and comes across it. He asks “who’s this chick?” I relay the juicy details of a wonderful weekend spent together with this girl.

He‘s staring at me holding the note taking this all in, then says “your wife can’t find this”, then throws it out the window!

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

…
Are there other women who have kept intimate photo’s of previous lovers in secret? I’m betting so!

Oh yes. My wife. She has a “secret drawer” where mementos of her time in grad school and her BF at the time reside. If I’m honest, he was the one that got away IYKWIM. Poor thing had to settle for me!

I saw them when we first started dating. Nothing salacious, just party pics of them hanging all over each other. I’m not allowed in there. If there are any naughty pics I’m not nor have ever been privy to them.

 

[Greytruck]

Have pictures of my wife of 39 years. Some she knew about, a lot she dosent.
keep them on a flash drive tucked away.
shes 64 and still sexy hot..

 

[FGB]

She has a set of all the movies ect.

Good for masturbation she says.
True that as long as the sound is turned down!

The sound of chains rattling, her moaning and screaming for more and a loud stroke by stroke announcement when she gets close to Cumming...she has people living within one hundred yards...

I hit like a Porn Star!

 

[UtilityCurve]

Yeah, but not like you think:

This is particularly written for wives. You'll see why.

My wife is "ex" because she died. Young. What I wouldn't give right now to have something, yes I'll say it, explicit of her.

It's been a few years, but we were "that couple," that just fit like Legos in every way. You can't lose that and not hurt forevermore. I still picture her when I'm self-loving, tell her--aloud--that what I'm imaging doing is to her, not the girl whose picture or video got me rolling (we used to watch porn with, and read erotica to, each other). Third (or fourth or fifth) imaginary participants were always welcome in our bed, men AND women. No jealousies. We knew how playtime was going to end and with whom.

Don't roll your eyes when he suggests buying you a boudoir shoot or playing amateur adult magazine photographer with you. You shouldn't do something you're turned off by, but think about what he's saying: It's YOU. And if you're not horrified at the thought of him being without that sexy woman he loved, may I suggest a little self-examination is in order? I have no idea what the "girl equivalent" would be, but I was expecting to go first (duh) and if I had known that I could leave her something so intimately in tune with what she loved about me as a man, I would have cleared my schedule for a week and hit the phone or web to make it happen. There are some gifts you just never think about until it's too late.