Going to a swinging club as a single male

[freeexplorer]

Considering going to a swinging club as a single male

I hope this is the right place to post this @.@

So I'm a single young dude and I recently read this graphic novel about a couple trying out swinging (Swing by Matt Hawkins and Jenni Cheung). It got me actually really curious about it and I've been considering trying out the lifestyle.

It's a bit of a big leap for me though, because I'm still a virgin and I've only ever had one girlfriend. We did some touching, etc. but didn't go beyond so I don't really have much experience sexually. I've also lived with my overbearing parents that are rather strict even though I'm an adult and I haven't had much opportunity to explore sexually.

So back to swinging, I always saw myself as monogamous, but with how restrictive my parents have been on my life, I don't really want to be restricted much anymore. I still think as far as actual love goes, I'd prefer one woman for that, but I think I'd be a lot happier with being open sexually and having more partners so I can experience more.

I'm hoping to move out really soon and was thinking about going to a swinging club for the first time, but I'm not sure what the experience would be like for a single male virgin. I'm also a bit socially anxious but I do a bit better with groups rather than 1 on 1 experiences so I think it'd be better for me as far as being my first actual sexual experience. Plus the idea of being with someone's girlfriend/wife consensually really turns me on x x

Would anyone have any advice regarding this?

Thank you for the help!

 

[JohnnySavage]

I hope this is the right place to post this @.@

So I'm a single young dude and I recently read this graphic novel about a couple trying out swinging (Swing by Matt Hawkins and Jenni Cheung). It got me actually really curious about it and I've been considering trying out the lifestyle.

It's a bit of a big leap for me though, because I'm still a virgin and I've only ever had one girlfriend. We did some touching, etc. but didn't go beyond so I don't really have much experience sexually. I've also lived with my overbearing parents that are rather strict even though I'm an adult and I haven't had much opportunity to explore sexually.

So back to swinging, I always saw myself as monogamous, but with how restrictive my parents have been on my life, I don't really want to be restricted much anymore. I still think as far as actual love goes, I'd prefer one woman for that, but I think I'd be a lot happier with being open sexually and having more partners so I can experience more.

I'm hoping to move out really soon and was thinking about going to a swinging club for the first time, but I'm not sure what the experience would be like for a single male virgin. I'm also a bit socially anxious but I do a bit better with groups rather than 1 on 1 experiences so I think it'd be better for me as far as being my first actual sexual experience. Plus the idea of being with someone's girlfriend/wife really turns me on x x

Would anyone have any advice regarding this?

Thank you for the help!

Shut up, Miles!

 

[pointless]

i'm guessing they'd tell you to fuck off because you have nothing to offer them.

 

[Saint Peter]

there is a big difference between being with someone's girlfriend/wife and being someone's girlfriend/wife.

 

[freeexplorer]

I don't really know about them telling me to fuck off, I did look up some clubs out of curiosity and some of them do allow single men.

And yeaa I understand there's a difference.

Ugh maybe this was just a dumb idea

 

[Saint_Ann]

I don't really know about them telling me to fuck off, I did look up some clubs out of curiosity and some of them do allow single men.

And yeaa I understand there's a difference.

Ugh maybe this was just a dumb idea

I think you need to be married first to truly appreciate it.

 

[desecration]

First time sex is like first time on LSD: do it with someone you trust.

 

[dolf]

i'm guessing they'd tell you to fuck off because you have nothing to offer them.

Truth. Lots of swingers (even the single women) and swinging clubs have a No single men rule. Otherwise the scene would be 90% swinging dicks.

 

[Champakian]

Truth. Lots of swingers (even the single women) and swinging clubs have a No single men rule. Otherwise the scene would be 90% swinging dicks.

Even dolf could get lucky with those odds.