Do women love big cocks more?

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

Amateur.

All you reeeeeeeally have to do is forget the decimal.

I don't know why this has to be so challenging to get an accurate measurement.

I mean a dollar bill is exactly 6 inches. It's an easy reference every American is familiar with.

So you just say "well it's 2 of those" and be done with it.

 

[Baldo_bearded]

I don't know why this has to be so challenging to get an accurate measurement.

I mean a dollar bill is exactly 6 inches. It's an easy reference every American is familiar with.

So you just say "well it's 2 of those" and be done with it.

Two of those. But laid flat.

 

[bone251]

Seems like a good time to post my cock.

 

[YesIamReal]

It isn't and shouldn't be hard to measure it. (Ok, well, to measure it it should be hard. - see what I did there?!? did you?)
Take a tape, or a dollar bill, or the above tailors tape, put the end of it to the base and go to the tip. I am happy but not ecstatic with my results. Bruce Venture-like measurements would be appreciated, but then I would have a different job.

I would also NEVER be late to work.

 

[PallidaMors9]

I think they measure from their asshole, around their balls twice and then out to the tip

We should only be permitted to have powerful women measure it

 

[KinkyMisfit]

I think they measure from their asshole, around their balls twice and then out to the tip

Don’t forget about going down the other side. Every little bit counts.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife says she has experienced two larger than average cocks. One guy had a big one and no idea how to please a woman. The other was a skilled lover and made her cum multiple times. Given the choice between that "good" big cock and a "good" smaller cock, she will take the bigger one. As for the other big cock, she didn't care to experience it again.

 

[Lady2020]

IDK. The question for me is does a man know how to sex play which is where confidence and experience comes in.

 

[Hipshot1554]

IDK. The question for me is does a man know how to sex play which is where confidence and experience comes in.

Slow and sure is always a "tell"...

 

[smoothwiener]

It isn't and shouldn't be hard to measure it. (Ok, well, to measure it it should be hard. - see what I did there?!? did you?)
Take a tape, or a dollar bill, or the above tailors tape, put the end of it to the base and go to the tip. I am happy but not ecstatic with my results. Bruce Venture-like measurements would be appreciated, but then I would have a different job.

I would also NEVER be late to work.

Gasp, you mean you don't measure from your asshole to the tip of the penis when you measure?

 

[YesIamReal]

Gasp, you mean you don't measure from your asshole to the tip of the penis when you measure?

I do. But only when I want to get to the "almost 8 inches" I tell women.

 

[whenagain]

I don’t think the OP was posting in good faith, in search of real insight since he clearly already made up his mind.

Probably was deep in cuck/sub space when posting and looking for something to turn him on.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Mrs.Mnkinkycpl has always said it's much more the way you get on and off.

With that she hates anything longer than eight inches, it hits her cervix and hurts in a bad way.

We both absolutely love cowgirl with her fully engulfing me and grinding her clit. And what's better than that?

At average, closer to seven when I'm really turned on, I have never had a complaint.

Funny story. We were with another couple and the guy was really big. We were on separate beds, hotel room, and having a great time. His wife asked me to take her ass and as I mounted her from behind he started to let the green monster out.

It seems that she never let him anywhere near her backdoor due to his size, it was one of his favorite fantasies.

Everything got worked out in the end. (Pun intended.)

 

[tim33]

Im not sure if this is the right room but I’m a bisexual male I haven’t been with very many guys but I’ve always been turned on looking at a big thick heavy looking cock. Once I finally got up the nerve to actually try oral with just a few other guys I must confess I can understand why there’s women that just prefer big dicks I’ve traded oral with a couple average guys and it was fun but once I had the chance to experience playing with a hung guy I was blow away “no pun intended” but to hold a thick heavy cock in my hand was just so sexually powerful and licking and sucking it is over the top I now have no desire to play with a little guy and I’m hoping someday to meet a fun sexual woman that would like to join me in my journey

Exactly what I experienced 2 weeks ago for the 1st time in my life, and then I thought "now I can so perfectly understand women loving big...".

 

[davenjenn]

Girth matters more than length and even guys with tiny ones can please girls if they know what to do

 

[Stoicbutfun]

I do think it’s pointless worrying about this, if she wants to see you again you are probably doing more than ok!

 

[saintcero]

big relative to what? 3" vs 9" for sure i'll take 9" any day. But 6" vs 10" i'll go with 6"

Thank you on behalf of all of us with average endowments

 

[policywank]

I do think it’s pointless worrying about this, if she wants to see you again you are probably doing more than ok!

It is pointless to worry about it because there is nothing you can do about it anyway. What I observe about this particular topic though is an unhealthy desire for men to be told what they want to hear in a way that is quite unrealistic and sometimes seeks to deny or suppress female sexuality. They want to be told that women don't care about cock size or if they do there are things a man can do to compensate that will completely neutralize that preference. The real and obvious answer is yes some of us do prefer larger some of the time and if that is what we want no you can't readily compensate for it by offering something else.

But so what? Why is this such a big deal? We all have preferences in some of our partners' characteristics and those preferences vary greatly from person to person. If a guy likes tall slender blondes he probably isn't going to be attracted to me. I don't go around trying to compel people to tell me that preference doesn't exist or that my other features compensate for my lack of height. I just date guys that find me attractive as I am.

When it comes to most things guys do the same. You know not every woman is attracted to you and vice versa. You date the ones with whom you have a mutual attraction. No purpose is served by trying to unpack the preferences of every person who isn't attracted to you.

Oh and guys guess what.....spoiler alert.....even if the sex wasn't good or your dick was a disappointment, we generally don't complain. Seriously who does that? If the sex sucked why would I want to tear you down by complaining about something that you obviously don't control. And why would I want to subject myself to an insecurity and defensiveness laced response to my complaint.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

Duh?

 

[sweetnpetite]

Additionally, I am a fast cummer. She hates that too. And when swinging I have seen her being pounded by men for "hours".

Ok, so you suck in bed and your wife would rather fuck men far superior to you... what is your question?

I'm hoping you've got a lot of money... their must be some reason she is married to you.

 

[KR22]

Mine has gotten me very much into sph I love hearing about her experience with guys with big cocks.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Do women love big cocks more?
No... but gay men do. Gay men love big cocks.

 

[SilentSometimes]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

In my experience, it’s never the size that matters.

How is your relationship otherwise?

Can you think of any reason, not penis-related, that would cause your wife to not want to have sex with you?

What kind of boundaries did the two of you set for your swinging?

Why did you start?

How is the communication in your marriage?

Posters on Lit seem prone to finding an excuse like, “my wife has a low sex drive” or “my sex drive is much higher than hers” or “she isn’t interested because I’m too small” but there are many reasons (that are none of the above) as to why she isn’t interested in sex with you anymore. If you want to know: ask her.

 

[sweetnpetite]

In my experience, it’s never the size that matters.

How is your relationship otherwise?

Can you think of any reason, not penis-related, that would cause your wife to not want to have sex with you?

What kind of boundaries did the two of you set for your swinging?

Why did you start?

How is the communication in your marriage?

Posters on Lit seem prone to finding an excuse like, “my wife has a low sex drive” or “my sex drive is much higher than hers” or “she isn’t interested because I’m too small” but there are many reasons (that are none of the above) as to why she isn’t interested in sex with you anymore. If you want to know: ask her.

I'm pretty sure he just wanted some humiliation responses letting him know how pathetic he is...

 

[SilentSometimes]

I'm pretty sure he just wanted some humiliation responses letting him know how pathetic he is...

Yeah, that’s probably the most likely scenario but just in case he wanted a real response, I still like to promote good communication between partners because that alone can solve a lot of problems and anxiety.