Do older ladies become Bi curious ?

[stickygirl]

I think more millenial women experiment, not all but I suspect more than previous generations. If they've tried both sides of the fence they're going to be less grossed by bi or same sex relationships generally. Guys face more peer-pressure and those wavering about their sexual desires are more likely to leave any fence jumping till later. IMO of course.

 

[shrek100]

Found this thread as a similar thread under the one about older men becoming bicurious and saw your avatar and I had to say something. It is beautiful. I will try to not to be jealous

As is yours. Thank you for the kind comment

 

[debrajane]

I believe our curiosity was always within us. Perhaps deep down and seldom considered, but I do know as we mature, experience more of this wonderful life, our fears and worries begin to fade. Some of our thoughts may scare us, and that is unfortunate. We should accept more curiosity about things and discovering the beauty of all beings is better than delightful.

 

[Actual_Mom]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

Yes indeed. 66 widowed - and have been wanting to dip my toe into that pool... but I don't know or have friends that might be like-minded.

 

[cruzn2u2]

In my last year of college, I met an older divorced woman named PJ. We were in two classes together and went out to celebrate the end of the semester. When I picked her up that night, she gave me a deep kiss and ended making wonderful love together. I always thought she was only 5 years older but found out later in life she was ten year older than me. Well, we fell in love and were going to get married, but she brought it off with no reason. Several years later, she contacted me and told me why she broke it off. It seems her first husband got her pregnant at 14 and had to marry her. He was an alcoholic and beat her a lot. I was the total opposite, never drank or even raise my voice and that put her into a panic. She got therapy and was ready to restart our relationship, but years had gone by and I was already married with a son. About two years ago, I was back in St Louis and wanted to know what happen to her after 30+ years. I was able to get a hold of her and ask if she would like to have lunch and catch up. She agreed and it was very cordial. It was nice seeing her and we exchange emails. Over the next month, her emails got more sexual in nature, so I asked her when the last time was, she made love to someone. She said it was over ten years and then I asked her a follow up question if she masturbated or had a vibrator. She said no. So, I order her a top-of-the-line vibrator and sent it to her without telling her. I was notified it arrived on a Monday and I thought I was call her at the end of the week to see if she was upset that I sent it to her. When I called, she was out of breath and asked her if she was working out. She said no, she had been using the vibrator for days and was bursting in orgasms every time she used it. As a matter of fact, she had not been wearing anything below her waist all day. She was incredibly happy with it. Over the night couple of months, I sent her different types of vibrators that specialized in certain areas. I finally flew back and for three days we made love everywhere in the house. That is when I found out she was ten years old and now was 70. During that time, we watched several porn movies and that when she told me her fantasies and desires is to make love to a large breasted younger woman.

Approximately, three months later, she was coming to visit me for a couple days in DC. I knew of a large breasted Persian lesbian from work. During our conversations, her partner left her after she gave birth to their child. She was lonely and wanted to least have someone to make love to. I told her about this woman that was visiting, and she got turned that she was older and never had a bi experience before. We came up with a plan that on the second evening she would come over and act like a masseuse that was only going to give her a massage after a long day of site seeing. I did not tell PJ that a masseuse was coming over but surprised her. She thought it was a lovely gesture and took the bait. She took a hot shower and wrapped herself in a towel and laid on the bed. Jasmine had brought scented oil and had warmed them up in the microwave. As PJ laid on her stomach, as Jasmine massage her, she slowly undressed until she was totally naked. Finally, Jasmine said you can roll over and I will massage your front. When PJ saw Jasmine’s naked breast with dark hard nipples, without hesitation, she leaned forward and began to lick and suck her breasts. Since Jasmine was still breast feeding, PJ got a taste of her sweet milk and her eyes lit up. She began to suck them harder and swallowing everything Jasmine could give her. As PJ was worshiping her breasts, Jasmine slid her had between PJs legs and was stroking her pussy. She began to moan with pleasure and opening her legs farther apart. PJ was very wet by now and Jasmine started to dip her fingers into her pussy and taking up to her mouth to taste. Both women had their eyes fixed on each other. Without warning, Jasmine dove into PJs pussy with her mouth and reposition herself so was in the middle of PJs legs. Since she was totally shaved, she could feel Jasmine’s hot tongue lick her pussy slowly. As I stood there at the doorway watching with a huge hard on, PJ began to moan out loud, begging her not to stop. Every so often, PJ would glance at me with a large smile. This went for about five minutes when PJ erupted in an explosive orgasm. Her chest was heaving as the orgasm subsided. When she got her breath back, she got up and had Jasmine lay down while she got in between her thighs. PJ was so turned on, not only she licked her pussy but was spend time licking her asshole by pushing Jasmines legs up in the air over her shoulders. Jasmine was getting turned on as well, it took a little longer than PJ but she came as well. They kissed swapping each other juices for some time. PJ suck out more milk from Jasmines breasts and even shared some milk together. It was big turn on. At one point, PJ said wait and jumped out of bed and reached into her suitcase and brought out a clitoris sucking vibrator that I had bought her earlier. She used it on Jasmine and within only a couple of minutes was moaning so loud I think my neighbor heard her. After she came again, Jasmine used it on PJ and the whole orgasmic cycle started again. It was not until an hour after they started making love, the ask me to join them. Jasmine finally left around midnight and PJ was using a bag of frozen peas to cool off her pussy. PJ went back to St Louis and has had several more bi experiences, but she said the one in DC can never be topped.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Im thinking its not as prevalent with woman as it is with men. After menopause woman seem to lose their sex drive. Men never seem to lose it. After conversing with many men ive met on CL personals, and then doublelist(full of players now) all of them married. All in sexless marriage. All found comfort and an outlet with other men. All of us wishing our wives want to explore with each other but are disdained by even the suggestion of this. I may be wrong and i admit im no expert. Just thought id put this observation out there

 

[canogagrizz]

I am an older female. In my 40s I knew that other women were erotically interesting to me, but I hadn't acted on my interests. In my 50s, I started to seek out and have sex with other women who were bicurious themselves. Because these were arranged encounters between strangers, we were often nervous and uncertain. Some of it was awkward. Some of it was good but all of it was way too much effort. Women younger than me were ready to have a good time with women their own age, not me. Women my age or older were good at disappearing just when things might get interesting.
My life is pretty busy and so I don't see a lot of realistic opportunities for sexual encounters or sexual friendships. And I'm okay with that too.

As a male, I'm in the exact same situation as well and I'm ok with it as well. The ONLY reason I find m2m sex appealing now is because of being in a sexless marriage for well over 15yrs now and I have seen no other options. Because of that I have found watching MM porn made it more appealing & a turn on to try. I have always been 100% straight man. Still only attracted to women really preferably. I'm not interested in the effort of finding another woman & all that goes along with all that. Courting, money, dating, emotions, etc. It's just way too much to bother dealing with. Also the same in I don't see a lot of realistic opportunities for sexual encounters either. Sadly.

 

[flanneland]

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[romer12]

Yes indeed. 66 widowed - and have been wanting to dip my toe into that pool... but I don't know or have friends that might be like-minded.

suggest you hook up on "doublelist.com" no cost, just register. you name it and it's there. no. I won't bill you. Cheers

 

[FL30]

Yes indeed. 66 widowed - and have been wanting to dip my toe into that pool... but I don't know or have friends that might be like-minded.

there are apps that you can download for bi, gay, lesbian, or any combination that you can think of.

You can always do a google search for them

 

[svengali_decL]

Although the main OP subject was 'older' women; back nearly two decades [mid-'00s] I was mentoring a pretty young thing of only 21 who flew everywhere, wildly, with passion, always bright and breezy- but she had worries.

Finding out she couldn't talk to her parents about some things, I offered my support [my life was in the doldrums so an external distraction was useful in my own]...

She had a domineering bf whom she loved passionately, perhaps too much as he was a loose cannon and manipulated her with 'e'; but she also had a very close gf of high school years duration she gradually told me about. I wasnt shocked, I told her good for you and asked about the balance.

Anyway an aside, after some help, direction showing personal interest [non sexual- I was nearly 40!] and guidance, after 6 months she was a different person- more settled, composed, planning and achieving her goals; trying desperately to become an 'entertainer' [she already was in a way]; her sexuality didnt change, nor should it.
She was more comfortable with who she was and where she was going. Her attachment to one gf wasn't an all out lesbian release where she pounded about looking for conquests (likely it was other way round)... but I'm sure she was better having left the bf behind.
decL

 

[Jeph77]

My wife got into quizzing me about some of my earliest sexual partners, especially the young women I dated in my twenties. She wanted to hear all the details, what their bodies were like, how they responded to physical attention. It was exciting to recount these memories to her, and it often resulted in some of our best sex.
Now she seems to have befriended a striking young woman she met at her position as a college administrator. They see each other daily, and seem very tight. I asked her if anything was going on between them, but she acts innocent and coy, and seems amused by my interest. I think their having a physical affair and the thought of my wife's tongue buried in this sweet young thing's pussy has me going crazy. I can't help hoping that this is really going on, and that she is enjoying herself.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

New bi-curious woman here! As an adult I’ve always been slightly curious about what it’s like to be pleasured by another woman. Now that I’m in my late 40’s I doubt I ever follow through with trying to find out…too self-conscious about my weight and appearance. The stories I read on this site sure get my imagination running. Hubby benefits a lot.

https://literotica.com/s/saras-crush-on-tinas-mommy

 

[lit_ch3]

It isn't a recent development...always had some attraction to women, but not acted on it. As an older woman now (60's) i am intensely interested in exploring, but no opportunity to do so...would love to have a regular female chat mate that I can get off with, lol. My hubs knows of my attraction, whereas he would like a threesome...but i want something for myself as well. I don't look at the clothes, i look at the tits and pussy.

This is kinda refreshing - that guys aren't the only ones going down this path. And, "i look at the tits and pussy" makes it more so.

 

[hulmule]

It isn't a recent development...always had some attraction to women, but not acted on it. As an older woman now (60's) i am intensely interested in exploring, but no opportunity to do so...would love to have a regular female chat mate that I can get off with, lol. My hubs knows of my attraction, whereas he would like a threesome...but i want something for myself as well. I don't look at the clothes, i look at the tits and pussy.

Nice to hear that your open minded and dont label things. Just enjoying the sexual time. My wife is in menopause, has been for years. If this would open her up again sign her up. But she doesn't even want me going down on her, thinks its dirty now. Shame the both of us are going to waste... I see a lot of woman looking at each other often wondered if it was sexual or clothes.