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I'd never, in my right mind, invite anyone to my bed by myself. I'm not comfortable with it, and my SO sure as hell wouldn't be comfortable with it.
He has been following me around despite me telling him that I'm not looking for a relationship with him. He seems to have known when my SO will be out of the country and he decided to pester me after that.
My SO, for the last four days has been out of town. He's in the US, engaged in a business deal that's very important for him. He won't be back for another week. I still haven't told my SO about him because I don't want to do anything to distress him. And I really don't think he can do anything from this far.
My main concern is his pseudo-stalking habit. Yesterday, that retard sent me a bouquet into my office, wishing me a "belated happy birthday". And the day before that, he tried to meet me in the office itself. I mean, WTF?!
I don't want to walk back home, having to look behind every 2 minutes to ensure that I'm not being followed. Despite this being a minor annoyance, I don't want this to escalate into something scary like a dedicated stalker who thinks that "I'm just teasing him".
Tomorrow I'm going to try a last attempt. If it doesn't work, I'm getting a restraining order.
That was my immediate reaction -- get serious, no pussyfooting, just do it.Tomorrow I'm going to try a last attempt. If it doesn't work, I'm getting a restraining order.
Cute, but in the OP's local legal system, it may be counterproductive. The slimebag *could* file suit to recover unnecessary medical expenses and whatever.Call him up and falsely inform you are doing the courtesy of informing him you and your SO have just come back positive for HIV and he should get tested immediately and also abstain from sex during the possible incubation period--1 year. That should do the trick.
I'd never, in my right mind, invite anyone to my bed by myself. I'm not comfortable with it, and my SO sure as hell wouldn't be comfortable with it.
He has been following me around despite me telling him that I'm not looking for a relationship with him. He seems to have known when my SO will be out of the country and he decided to pester me after that.
My SO, for the last four days has been out of town. He's in the US, engaged in a business deal that's very important for him. He won't be back for another week. I still haven't told my SO about him because I don't want to do anything to distress him. And I really don't think he can do anything from this far.
My main concern is his pseudo-stalking habit. Yesterday, that retard sent me a bouquet into my office, wishing me a "belated happy birthday". And the day before that, he tried to meet me in the office itself. I mean, WTF?!
I don't want to walk back home, having to look behind every 2 minutes to ensure that I'm not being followed. Despite this being a minor annoyance, I don't want this to escalate into something scary like a dedicated stalker who thinks that "I'm just teasing him".
Tomorrow I'm going to try a last attempt. If it doesn't work, I'm getting a restraining order.
^^^^^Caesar's wife.
I don't have an experience in dealing with such a guy.
Did you ever have to deal with such nuts? All suggestions are welcome.
Go fuck yourself, sissy.
... I still haven't told my SO about him...
IMHO, this is a HUGE mistake.
First, your SO may assume that you think that he can't do anything about it. Even if it is true, he will still be insulted that you thought it. Let him tell you that he can't.
Second, if he does find out, there will always be a lingering doubt in his mind - maybe you didn't tell him because you were thinking of hooking up with the other guy but then changed your mind.
Tell him now.
The OP's story smells like fresh warthog shit.