I wonder if it is just this area, but why does it have to be so tough to find other bi discreet guys who want more then a blo n go! Finding any one who is serious about it and who has any real intentions of meeting are almost in existant here. It seems guys love to get on and chat when they are horny, then after chatting or a few email exchanges they just go blank, never hear from them again. Does any one else have this problem in your areas?