a penny for your thoughts?

[kilo_juice]

i’m straight, monogamous male in my late 30’s.
also i’m a juvenile diabetic, i have no experience of dating tbh.
i‘m not a sissy the way it’s usually portrayed, but comfy lingerie and granny gowns do turn me on.
i have been posting on fetlife recently…
i’m hoping to start dating again, any suggestions?
thanks.
ps: i’m in calgary, AB.

 

[AnnieLit]

Good luck!
On Fet, as everywhere else kink/sex related, the ratio of M to F is not very favorable for you. So just be careful, require at least a voice phone call very early on. Women will know why you are asking for it and not going to be offended. And if they are ... most likely that wasn't a woman.

And learn to say no. Nobody but you can know what you want out of the experience and especially what you absolutely do not want. Make sure these things are discussed and not just assumed. Nobody is a mindreader, if you don't say it, the other side will not know.

As for suggestions, check if Fet has any local events. Munches, I guess. Or maybe CFNM parties, if that's your thing too. This is a way to meet people in a relatively safe situation.

 

[stargame]

i’m straight, monogamous male in my late 30’s.
also i’m a juvenile diabetic, i have no experience of dating tbh.
i‘m not a sissy the way it’s usually portrayed, but comfy lingerie and granny gowns do turn me on.
i have been posting on fetlife recently…
i’m hoping to start dating again, any suggestions?
thanks.
ps: i’m in calgary, AB.

Hello, Yes, let's chat ☆