FelicityJohns
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Well done, this is not a practice, you need to feel right 100% of the time, difficult choices I know but no one should live like a monk/nun. FJ, buy him some little blue pills or kick him into touch, 14 years, crickey what will you feel like when it's 41 years, probably like me, horney and hurt that it's all just slid by and a little late to move on,
I read this and parts just made me sad. First, cum isn't nasty. Or gross. At least I don't think so. And I know many who share that sentiment. And I'm sorry you have withdrawn from her and possibly the reality of it all.
I'm married in a sexless marriage. Ours is different in that we both still enjoy sex. We both still want sex. I just won't have sex with him. And I'm not withholding sex. I just don't like him touching me any longer. He leaves 100% of all household duties. Lawncare and raising a Grandson up to me. When he comes home from work he sits and rests. I work and work . I don't stop until I turn in around midnight. And I'm exhausted. Talking has been to no avail. So until he can step up to the plate and at least mow the durn grass he won't be touching me. I hate saying that. It sounds so harsh. But how the heck can any man just sit back and watch his wife running like a race horse and working like a mule. I hope your situation will improve.
Hi Guys and Gals. I'm not sure if this is the right forum, but I really hope to talk to others struggling with similar problems - that of living in a sexless marriage. I'm very open-minded and kinky. My wife is sadly inhibited and reserved. I tried to open up to her about my bisexual fantasies and other fantasies. She said it made her uncomfortable. I feel alone.
If there are others out there who can relate, can you say "Hi" and maybe send me a PM? I'm lonely.
Happy New Year
I'm reading these stories and am amazed. For the longest time, I thought I was in a small boat on a great big ocean by myself. I'm not sure if it's comforting to know that the boat is large and filed with lots of lost souls, but it makes me feel that maybe I'm not crazy.
The way I see it, this is a topic with a large group of passengers. There are several different boats. I guess I'm in the boat that includes those that feel that we shouldn't leave because we deserve to be happy, because it isn't feasible.
I've been married for almost 30 years to someone who still makes me laugh and who is a great mother to our children but has given up on sex. I've tried to talk about it, but it really doesn't get us anywhere. So, I fantasize and wonder what it must be like to have that wonderful, sensual soul to share intimacy with. I've met a few men that gave up on their marriage in search of sex...and jumped from the frying pan into the fire. I would love to chat with a few ladies that are in the same boat!
You're not alone. many boats on the ocean with you including others in the "I'm not leaving brigade"
Yes...many, many, boats...you start to feel like you're sailing alone on that ocean, but I know I'm not leaving, even if my situation never changes, and I'm pretty resigned that it won't. Looking back, sex was good but always infrequent, even " back in the day". I don't know why I didn't work harder at resolving the issue then, but I guess I was busy with work, family, etc, and by the time it really hit me that things weren't going so well...it was years of nothing at all
Exactly the case here too. Good, infrequent but life got in the way and now life is far too complicated to resolve it.
Were seeing some counselors but the BIG issues are keeping anything else from advancing (adult son is bipolar). So every session is 99% about kids. We used to have a vibrant sometimes adventurous sex life (secluded park...a quiet beach). Not anymore. Its like 'ifs its not absolutely moral based on the 1828 temperance guide to moral virtues' then its sorry charlie.
I can totally relate to what you said. My relationship is the female version. Together 15 years, I've had my pussy eaten six times. The last time was two years ago. I usually suck his dick 4-8 times a week. Sex is doggy or missionary, foreplay is me sucking his dick, no touching or kissing. It makes me feel very lonely. You are definitely not alone. PM if you'd like to talk.
I don't think there is an easy answer to what anyone has posted. While we all have a common thread, we have each found our own way to deal with it. Almost exactly a year ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce. It has been almost 3 years now since we have had sex. It wasn't even about the intercourse of sex. We don't hold hands, kiss, hug, cuddle, nothing. I need that intimacy. The sexual aspect of our relationship wasn't what drove me to ask for the divorce, it was the fact that were weren't even friends any more. I was tired of the emotional abuse and found the strength to say enough. We had nothing in common, except our kids. It wasn't until he saw the paperwork come in the mail from my attorney to review that he knew I was serious. He went to counseling (again) but this time just for him as I told him 4 previous rounds of marriage counseling hadn't made a difference. I put myself in counseling and found a counselor for my kids too. He is trying. I give him credit for that. But now, he wants to make all these changes and mend fences and I just don't know if I want to continue or not. I held on to so much hope for so long that I got used to the isolation and truly resigned myself to the fact that we were over. I know if there were not kids involved, I would have been out a long time ago. They didn't ask for this home life. But they also deserve 2 happy parents. He has recently tried to kiss me and I almost puked. I was so turned off. I don't know what to do. My heart says I took vows and should try and make it work, but my head says I know exactly what I want in a relationship and it will never be him. In the meantime, I come here and play and have the occasional affair. But I can't continue like this.