CuteSlaveLisa
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Having noticed how some here placed thier scores in their signature lines, I went over 'there' and tried the test for fun. The results got me thinking about labels and how useful they are, and at the same time how much I dislike them.
Being in a committed relationship with people that I have known about forever it seems, and having loved them before ever having had a sexual relationship with them, I am far more interested in them, than in the (really, really fun) parts God gave them.
So while l love their vaginas and their penises, the term Bi is somewhat inacuuruate I am not particuarly interested in other vaginas or penises (although yours is very nice). But, I guess its marginally better (more accurate) than straight or lesbian.
I really was shocked at my submissive score because I see myself as being very sexually submissive. But then I don't see anything either humiliating or degrading about being sexually submissive. I gave my body and soul to another 40 years ago. I would step off a cliff if he asked me to. (And I know he loves me and would never ask such a thing.)
To me a owning a loving submissive sexual partner is like owning a '66 Shelby Cobra, it's your's, it doesn't have a say in when or how you drive it. But it's also valuable, you don't just hand someone else the keys, you don't tear down a gravel road at 60 mph, you don't drive it without oil in the crankcase, or off of a cliff, or into a tree. You love it for what it is (and how it makes you feel when you are inside of it ;-)). You keep it in a nice garage, put hi-test gas in it, keep it in top condition. You gently suds it in warm water, and use pure Canuba wax applied with a clean cloth diaper.
While I enjoy the intensity of what is termed S and M, deSade's 'partners' in his writings were not willing ones, so that term is imperfect. While I generally call myself a masochist, there was a tremendous amount of degradation and humiliation in Sacher-Masoch's writing, which doesn't exactly fit either.
Maybe I just think about these things too much.
Lisa Ann
Being in a committed relationship with people that I have known about forever it seems, and having loved them before ever having had a sexual relationship with them, I am far more interested in them, than in the (really, really fun) parts God gave them.
So while l love their vaginas and their penises, the term Bi is somewhat inacuuruate I am not particuarly interested in other vaginas or penises (although yours is very nice). But, I guess its marginally better (more accurate) than straight or lesbian.
I really was shocked at my submissive score because I see myself as being very sexually submissive. But then I don't see anything either humiliating or degrading about being sexually submissive. I gave my body and soul to another 40 years ago. I would step off a cliff if he asked me to. (And I know he loves me and would never ask such a thing.)
To me a owning a loving submissive sexual partner is like owning a '66 Shelby Cobra, it's your's, it doesn't have a say in when or how you drive it. But it's also valuable, you don't just hand someone else the keys, you don't tear down a gravel road at 60 mph, you don't drive it without oil in the crankcase, or off of a cliff, or into a tree. You love it for what it is (and how it makes you feel when you are inside of it ;-)). You keep it in a nice garage, put hi-test gas in it, keep it in top condition. You gently suds it in warm water, and use pure Canuba wax applied with a clean cloth diaper.
While I enjoy the intensity of what is termed S and M, deSade's 'partners' in his writings were not willing ones, so that term is imperfect. While I generally call myself a masochist, there was a tremendous amount of degradation and humiliation in Sacher-Masoch's writing, which doesn't exactly fit either.
Maybe I just think about these things too much.
Lisa Ann
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