mistressmelody
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- Aug 22, 2014
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Seeking some fresh advice from any doms out there?
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I'm considering betting into BDSM as a dom. My question is this: have you ever made your sub pass out?You didn't ask any question. Are you looking for a PM discussion with a dom?
Maybe you could ask your question here on the board? You could get answers and opinions from more people and hear many points of view. That way others can learn from your question and the answers it gets, too.
I'm considering betting into BDSM as a dom. My question is this: have you ever made your sub pass out?
I'm considering betting into BDSM as a dom. My question is this: have you ever made your sub pass out?
I'm considering betting into BDSM as a dom. My question is this: have you ever made your sub pass out?
No. And frankly no matter how great you think you are at these fun and games there are good reasons to basically never ever do this no matter what. Even if you have a full medical history on that person.
However, sometimes they just do when they lock their knees and they're standing, and sometimes they're 250 lbs when they do this. It's special in a not so special way.
Don't go looking for trouble before you've had some time logged with the fuzzy handcuffs and a fuck thing for a while to see if you even like this.
This/\ /\ /\ !!! Having been a dom/top for most of my life, and now enjoying the role of being a subbie for a while, I cannot fathom EVER why anyone would want and/or desire the sub to "pass out." That tells me you've done something horribly wrong and the subbie likely has a health condition you've just seriously messed with.
As others have said, if you're just getting into this, you are asking a question that's akin to asking, I'm thinking of taking flight lessons, where can I rent a 747 jumbo jet to start practicing with? You are looking into running before you've figured out how to crawl. Being a safe and well-controlled dom/domme takes time, it takes practice, it takes self-discipline, it requires a lot of thought, and it requires a lot of study. This isn't something you snap your fingers and suddenly you can do it - real life isn't a fetish porno movie.
If you're thinking about getting into this (either of you who posted earlier), then study, study, study, try it - SLOWLY at first, and see if it suits you. Build up to more elaborate sessions, but imo, NEVER press a sub to the point of passing out or losing consciousness - that is simply dangerous and irresponsible.