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I was watching Greg Behrendt tonight and there was a line in there where he was saying, "Say what is in your heart...even if it's dirty. Don't say what you think you should say or something you heard in a porno."
His point was if you don't feel it first it isn't going to sound right. He had some funny examples about that but the just of it is real, actual, valid advice.
For me it's more about getting in their head and finding out what their frame is. objectification themes seem to work. Referring to a collection of body parts in a way that you would never do in a loving way in the cold light of day.
Another tip...plan on the cold light of day. Some things are in the "...and let's never speak of this again vein."
His point was if you don't feel it first it isn't going to sound right. He had some funny examples about that but the just of it is real, actual, valid advice.
For me it's more about getting in their head and finding out what their frame is. objectification themes seem to work. Referring to a collection of body parts in a way that you would never do in a loving way in the cold light of day.
Another tip...plan on the cold light of day. Some things are in the "...and let's never speak of this again vein."