Desiremakesmeweak
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: ) You want the last word on this, don't you.
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I ran across a story on this site that describes my attitude quite well:
http://www.literotica.com/s/helens-night-in
It's about a woman who's into self-torture as a way of being in pain, yet being in control of that pain. I can't say that I ever took it as far as Helen did, but I was certainly part of the way there.
And I guess my point is directed at these words of Athalia: "being in control of the pain."
No. I don't think control is the correct word or the correct concept.
My friend also thought he was 'mostly' in control of his own condition.
Throwing yourself off the Niagra Falls in a barrel because you survived the last time you did it, is not 'being in control' of the tumultuous circumstances of falling. Jumping off a tall building does not mean that you are actually flying until you hit the pavement.
Having said what I said, however, I am nevertheless one of those in the 'I want to hear about/from the WHOLE ENTIRETY of whatever is out there,' category.
This particular story read to me like a psychology doctorate's template for some extreme-ish subject or case study.
And I would also consider it inclines towards 'fetish' rather than BDSM. But I mean hey, these things all pose difficulties as far as neatly categorizing goes.