orgasm denial and ruined orgasms
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A happy weekend: we'd agreed that on the Saturday he'd do what I wanted, Sunday was his. The first day I could come but he couldn'tI knew what turned him on: we had lunch in a pub, went for a walk and I got rid of the beer in a little wood while he watched. Back home I got him naked and spent the rest of the afternoon in panties only. Before we went out for dinner he got to watch me use a toy and come in them, and during dinner I went to the Ladies, took them off, and gave them too him. Home we were naked again and he had to lick me. At no time did he get touched
The next day was his. We'd done it all on separate occasions but he wanted to come in my mouth, vagina and arse on the same day. So I got (very big) mouthful before coffee, and fucked after it. Then anal in the afternoon
a hat trick. lucky guy
Hopefully a convert!
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I want to say I am a fan of this but that would be underrating my enthusiasm for this type of play.
I like it for a few reasons. one it's about intimacy. Its almost like the person is there with you and you are having a real sexual experience with them. Sure you are doing the "work" but if you truly give in, its not you who is in control of it.
Speaking of control thats the other fun side of it. Giving control over is an unknown. They may teach you new things, expand your horizons and make you feel something you have never felt before.
Finally for me its about staying horny. I can't NOT cum. My brain stops working when I am so horny that I need to cum. But by ruining I get to "cum" (and give the satisfaction to my playmate of seeing that) but I am still horny a few hours later which for me is exciting.
I like it for a few reasons. one it's about intimacy. Its almost like the person is there with you and you are having a real sexual experience with them. Sure you are doing the "work" but if you truly give in, its not you who is in control of it.
Speaking of control thats the other fun side of it. Giving control over is an unknown. They may teach you new things, expand your horizons and make you feel something you have never felt before.
Finally for me its about staying horny. I can't NOT cum. My brain stops working when I am so horny that I need to cum. But by ruining I get to "cum" (and give the satisfaction to my playmate of seeing that) but I am still horny a few hours later which for me is exciting.
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Long, excruciating fun. Mmmmmm!
...and another - lovely! https://www.pornhub.com/view_video....source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PT&utm_campaign=PBWeb
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newhere2learn
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A week of denial
I'm embarking upon a week of caging and denial to satisfy a friend with curiosities. I last came Thursday afternoon. My next planned release is Friday afternoon, so that'll be eight days later.
Friday night I tried Hypnotic orgasm audio. I came soft twice, but was left horny and gagging for a "proper cum". Which I wasn't allowed.
My friend has control over how much time on Lit & FL I have this week, when I'm caged, when I edge and when I cum.
It'll be an interesting week.
Writing this, thinking of her... I am rock hard.
I'm embarking upon a week of caging and denial to satisfy a friend with curiosities. I last came Thursday afternoon. My next planned release is Friday afternoon, so that'll be eight days later.
Friday night I tried Hypnotic orgasm audio. I came soft twice, but was left horny and gagging for a "proper cum". Which I wasn't allowed.
My friend has control over how much time on Lit & FL I have this week, when I'm caged, when I edge and when I cum.
It'll be an interesting week.
Writing this, thinking of her... I am rock hard.
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Good to have such an obliging friend..! I’m looking forward to hearing how this goes..
Rock hard in a cage? That must hurt!
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Update
Well I'm now 4 days in, and still not allowed to cum.
Friday: she had me repeatedly listen to Hypnosis orgasm audio's..I soft came/squirted twice. That juat made me hornier.
Saturday & Sunday: I wasn't allowed to play, or browse porn etc. In 48 hours I hard one hard-on
Monday: a day of torture. Been caged 8hours. Had to remove twice so far, edge for 60 seconds, and then refit the cage. Second time, so close to cumming I had to stop early and tell her.
Me not paying attention re: allowed time browsing lit and FL also cost me. 5x hard spanks to my hard cock. And 5x to my balls.
I have to edge for further 60 seconds at 10pm
Then tomorrow it begins again
Through all of this I have had to provide pictures and video.
She has teased me where possible.
I am horniwe than I can ever remember and also submissive beyond belief. It's going to be a fun week.
Well I'm now 4 days in, and still not allowed to cum.
Friday: she had me repeatedly listen to Hypnosis orgasm audio's..I soft came/squirted twice. That juat made me hornier.
Saturday & Sunday: I wasn't allowed to play, or browse porn etc. In 48 hours I hard one hard-on
Monday: a day of torture. Been caged 8hours. Had to remove twice so far, edge for 60 seconds, and then refit the cage. Second time, so close to cumming I had to stop early and tell her.
Me not paying attention re: allowed time browsing lit and FL also cost me. 5x hard spanks to my hard cock. And 5x to my balls.
I have to edge for further 60 seconds at 10pm
Then tomorrow it begins again
Through all of this I have had to provide pictures and video.
She has teased me where possible.
I am horniwe than I can ever remember and also submissive beyond belief. It's going to be a fun week.
Grindallnight
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This sounds amazing. Good luck and have fun!
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I take my hat off to you, managing to make it to day 4 without direct and firm support of a key holder must be excruciatingly difficult..!
I have been trialling a cage, I adore the feeling of being restrained and the constant pressure on the underside of my balls is divine.. The feeling I get after not ejaculating for three days is exquisite, I find myself extremely caring for my lady like never before and wanting to do anything, sexual or otherwise, to please her..
That said, I find after three days the tension becomes too much.. I find it hard to concentrate and I find myself staring at random women’s groin regions, seriously considering asking if I could go down on them for while..! The release is always explosive and leaves me feeling quite drained..!
I think I need a strong woman to hold my key and guide me through this tough transition.. Doing it alone is just too hard..!
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Day 1 (Friday) was hell. Day 2&3 were full of family time so no issue. Day 4 (Monday) I was massively distracted. Reckon I lost half my day to being a leaking mess.
Last night's edging tasks was 45 seconds. After 32 seconds I had to stop. As I was going to cum. I then waited and completed the extra 13 seconds for her.
I also used 8mm rope around my cock and neck to demonstrate compliance.
Had to have 20 minutes drinking water and relaxing afterwards as I was too excited to go to bed.
Once in bed, it took me at least 45 minutes to get to sleep as my whole focus was my aching balls and throbbing (but soft) cock.
Today (day 5) a oke up rock solid. Performed edging task, had to pause at 27 seconds as cum was building. Then completed the task.
Arrived at work. Caged. Instantly hard.
Caged dry and with the cage cold this morning. So no pleasure was derived.
Morning of meetings, so no time for arousal.
Will report back later.
Last night's edging tasks was 45 seconds. After 32 seconds I had to stop. As I was going to cum. I then waited and completed the extra 13 seconds for her.
I also used 8mm rope around my cock and neck to demonstrate compliance.
Had to have 20 minutes drinking water and relaxing afterwards as I was too excited to go to bed.
Once in bed, it took me at least 45 minutes to get to sleep as my whole focus was my aching balls and throbbing (but soft) cock.
Today (day 5) a oke up rock solid. Performed edging task, had to pause at 27 seconds as cum was building. Then completed the task.
Arrived at work. Caged. Instantly hard.
Caged dry and with the cage cold this morning. So no pleasure was derived.
Morning of meetings, so no time for arousal.
Will report back later.
This post was about BEING controlled by someone else and having your orgasms ruined or denied BY THEM. Have you actually been through it? Like many posts, they get hijaked....
newhere2learn
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Stated above/prior page. Done for her pleasure, under instructions.
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Day 6 of denial. Physical and mental affects continue to grow. Most notably;
✓ my balls are swollen, dark, sensitive almost feel bruised
✓ I'm hardening in the cage often, but only when she is mentioned, thought of, or contacts me. Not aroused unintentionally
✓ my submissive nature is growing. I'm increasingly eager to please and appease her.
✓ the tasks she requests, I am now falling over myself to complete.
Today for instance,. I am at work; caged, commando, leaking, and having edged on camera in the bathroom for her for 60seconds.
Whether I could continue full time, unknown. But as an experiment to understand my Kink's... Fascinating.
✓ my balls are swollen, dark, sensitive almost feel bruised
✓ I'm hardening in the cage often, but only when she is mentioned, thought of, or contacts me. Not aroused unintentionally
✓ my submissive nature is growing. I'm increasingly eager to please and appease her.
✓ the tasks she requests, I am now falling over myself to complete.
Today for instance,. I am at work; caged, commando, leaking, and having edged on camera in the bathroom for her for 60seconds.
Whether I could continue full time, unknown. But as an experiment to understand my Kink's... Fascinating.
Bollox.
